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Getting to know someone is a gradual process,
The faster you go, the more you miss!!!
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In relationships knowing your partner is not some school or college assignment or exam where u just take down notes, mug them up ;exchange them & get full marks...
Relationships are not theoretical subject to b studied...in relationships knowing your partner is a gradual process where each day you discover a new aspect about each other...everyday you find a positive or negative in him/her...eventually we start understanding each other better with time..
Getting to know someone, whether as close friends or lovers, is a gradual process of building trust, testing the waters with ever increasing vulnerability and emotional risk, then seeing the final result...
As a couple learning about each other practically has its own charm than just mugging up likes/dislikes list... In relationships its more about knowing each other through experiences during times spend together...like Kabir said "jaise jaise time paas hoga ek dusre ko samajhne lagenge, janne lagenge.."
For Kabir Ananya it gonna be a gradual process too ...infact uptil now it had been a gradual process... Like after dinner date fiasco Kabir Ananya realised they do not know about each other much ; & then Ananya putted in effort of making & exchanging lists...no matter idea have been stupid...but at least they made an effort to know each other likes & dislikes... "Har baar galti karke, zindagi bhar ke liye tabhi seekhenge jab galtiyon ko dohraenge nahi"...it will just make their bond go stronger...
In fact, like with due course of time Kabir is realising Ananya like to b pampered, likes to b manaofied ...no wonder Kabir is ready for life long roothna manana " main tumhe manuga, thoda zyada manuga...isse bhi zyada manuga...main hi manata rahunga" ...
*sigh* such a cute sweeto boyfriend [someone get me Kabir...though fangirl pouts... Kabir once again stole line from one of my posts đ roothna manana in love..."tum roothi raho, main manata rahoon"...fangirl demands credit]
Seeing positive side of Kabir having mugged up list... Next time he plans dinner he can order Ananya's fav, by any chance planning to gift her a dress he knows her fav colors too đ
Boy, he looked so cute listing down mugged up Ananya's likes & dislikes ...looked like a school kid, who feared answer wrong hogaya toh teacher ji marks katengi đ...
He can make any girl just blush ...how easily he transforms into teasing lover boy... "Deewarein dekh rahi hai,kisi ko permission nahi hai...is smile ko dekhne ki"
Ananya needs to be little patient ...dheere dheere sab jaan jaenge ek dusre ko...
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For Ananya knowing Shreya will also b a gradual process...with time Ananya will get to realise how good or bad her decision of accepting Shreya's friend request...even for Shreya too, she will gradually know if being friends with Shreya gonna b useful or not...as of now, congratulations to her on having a new friend...
Hope being friends with Shreya...Ananya will get to know her better, she will gradually learn about her nature...her thoughts etc...Ananya will b in a better position to analyse her.
But seriously, if even 1%Shreya is genuine in whatever she said , then must say she looked convincing enough & indeed looks she deserves a friend like Ananya...may be all over these years being alone she may genuinely realised the need of having a friend to share her happiness & sadness...
If Shreya being truthful in her words, in dat case she poured her heart out ...& may be with time she had realised her mistakes & genuinely a changed person...may b she learned her lessons a hard way...
We will know her too gradually...& will discover different aspects about her eventually ...
But still my advice for Ananya is still same, irrespective if Shreya is genuine or not...please kindly refrain from discussing Kabir with Shreya...to know him better...for once, Kabir may not react to Ananya's friendship with Shreya but he will surely mind two ladies discussing him...afterall the Kabir Shreya knows...& the Kabir who is with Ananya are poles apart...
I wud hate to see Ananya Shreya friendship effecting Kabir Ananya as couple...it wud be really disastrous to see KaYa drifting apart coz of Shreya...most importantly Ananya will have to be careful enough to make sure that no matter what Shreya sayd , she doesn't let her trust on Kabir waver...Ananya will needto keep her "aankhein band karke yakeen" till end!!!
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Seeing people patching up in KKN..feel like Khalid...KKN mein dosti ki bahar aayi hai...
--Shreya trying to befriend Ananya...
--Kabir trying to be cordial with Malvika & just move on...
--Malvika trying to patch up with Manav bhai...
felt bad for poor Malvika, in a single day she got snubbed by two men but it was such a delight to see how Kabir handled Malvika... after "ghaag" Kabir dose, is baar pyaar se samjhaya...inspite of being smarty as ever knowing that she is behind pics & chip fiasco...
Kabir indeed have a point what wud have been Malvika's condition if Kabir had publically humiliated "K L ki Beti" being a good leader, Kabir does realises being part of KKN she deserves a certain respect...&deserves praise of her professional work
Hope, Malvika remembers Kabir's words & passes on message to Manav bhai too that "KKN mein dil se kaam karnewalo ki zarut hai jealousy, competition, politics ke liye koi jagah nahi hai" ...apne dil mein kisi ke liye nafrat rakhne se...sirf past mein jeete hai"
...
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Manav bhai, its good to see him working hard irrespective of his maksad...as by end of it his hardwork in a way gonna maintain quality of his work ...& must say, like girgit aas pass ke mahaul ko dekhkar kya andaaz badalte hai đ ...is baar plan acha hai Manav bhai...hope Malvika darling briefed you about "ghaag" Kabir Sharma...coz to compete with him you will need to maintain focus ... bas focus me saath kaam karte rahiye..."har kadam soch samajhkar, ahista ahista , rafta rafta , boota boota" all the best Manav bhai...
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I really wonder if Jaane se pehle was for current episode or a spoiler like always...coz JSP us relevant to current episode too as not knowing much about each other. ..somewhere down the line made Ananya insecure but Kabir patiently & calmly just made her confident once again...
Even in forthcoming episodes if by any chance Kabir gets insecure because of Ananya Shreya friendship ...then it will be Ananya's responsibility to calm him down & make him feel secured...
As of now, all the best to Kabir Ananya, hope they continue to discover a new thing about each other everyday..& enjoy being together...& enjoy their exclusive moments of togetherness...
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Episode 87
August 17,2015
The faster you go, the more you miss!!!
++++++
In relationships knowing your partner is not some school or college assignment or exam where u just take down notes, mug them up ;exchange them & get full marks...
Relationships are not theoretical subject to b studied...in relationships knowing your partner is a gradual process where each day you discover a new aspect about each other...everyday you find a positive or negative in him/her...eventually we start understanding each other better with time..
Getting to know someone, whether as close friends or lovers, is a gradual process of building trust, testing the waters with ever increasing vulnerability and emotional risk, then seeing the final result...
As a couple learning about each other practically has its own charm than just mugging up likes/dislikes list... In relationships its more about knowing each other through experiences during times spend together...like Kabir said "jaise jaise time paas hoga ek dusre ko samajhne lagenge, janne lagenge.."
For Kabir Ananya it gonna be a gradual process too ...infact uptil now it had been a gradual process... Like after dinner date fiasco Kabir Ananya realised they do not know about each other much ; & then Ananya putted in effort of making & exchanging lists...no matter idea have been stupid...but at least they made an effort to know each other likes & dislikes... "Har baar galti karke, zindagi bhar ke liye tabhi seekhenge jab galtiyon ko dohraenge nahi"...it will just make their bond go stronger...
In fact, like with due course of time Kabir is realising Ananya like to b pampered, likes to b manaofied ...no wonder Kabir is ready for life long roothna manana " main tumhe manuga, thoda zyada manuga...isse bhi zyada manuga...main hi manata rahunga" ...
*sigh* such a cute sweeto boyfriend [someone get me Kabir...though fangirl pouts... Kabir once again stole line from one of my posts đ roothna manana in love..."tum roothi raho, main manata rahoon"...fangirl demands credit]
Seeing positive side of Kabir having mugged up list... Next time he plans dinner he can order Ananya's fav, by any chance planning to gift her a dress he knows her fav colors too đ
Boy, he looked so cute listing down mugged up Ananya's likes & dislikes ...looked like a school kid, who feared answer wrong hogaya toh teacher ji marks katengi đ...
He can make any girl just blush ...how easily he transforms into teasing lover boy... "Deewarein dekh rahi hai,kisi ko permission nahi hai...is smile ko dekhne ki"
Ananya needs to be little patient ...dheere dheere sab jaan jaenge ek dusre ko...
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For Ananya knowing Shreya will also b a gradual process...with time Ananya will get to realise how good or bad her decision of accepting Shreya's friend request...even for Shreya too, she will gradually know if being friends with Shreya gonna b useful or not...as of now, congratulations to her on having a new friend...
Hope being friends with Shreya...Ananya will get to know her better, she will gradually learn about her nature...her thoughts etc...Ananya will b in a better position to analyse her.
But seriously, if even 1%Shreya is genuine in whatever she said , then must say she looked convincing enough & indeed looks she deserves a friend like Ananya...may be all over these years being alone she may genuinely realised the need of having a friend to share her happiness & sadness...
If Shreya being truthful in her words, in dat case she poured her heart out ...& may be with time she had realised her mistakes & genuinely a changed person...may b she learned her lessons a hard way...
We will know her too gradually...& will discover different aspects about her eventually ...
But still my advice for Ananya is still same, irrespective if Shreya is genuine or not...please kindly refrain from discussing Kabir with Shreya...to know him better...for once, Kabir may not react to Ananya's friendship with Shreya but he will surely mind two ladies discussing him...afterall the Kabir Shreya knows...& the Kabir who is with Ananya are poles apart...
I wud hate to see Ananya Shreya friendship effecting Kabir Ananya as couple...it wud be really disastrous to see KaYa drifting apart coz of Shreya...most importantly Ananya will have to be careful enough to make sure that no matter what Shreya sayd , she doesn't let her trust on Kabir waver...Ananya will needto keep her "aankhein band karke yakeen" till end!!!
+++++
Seeing people patching up in KKN..feel like Khalid...KKN mein dosti ki bahar aayi hai...
--Shreya trying to befriend Ananya...
--Kabir trying to be cordial with Malvika & just move on...
--Malvika trying to patch up with Manav bhai...
felt bad for poor Malvika, in a single day she got snubbed by two men but it was such a delight to see how Kabir handled Malvika... after "ghaag" Kabir dose, is baar pyaar se samjhaya...inspite of being smarty as ever knowing that she is behind pics & chip fiasco...
Kabir indeed have a point what wud have been Malvika's condition if Kabir had publically humiliated "K L ki Beti" being a good leader, Kabir does realises being part of KKN she deserves a certain respect...&deserves praise of her professional work
Hope, Malvika remembers Kabir's words & passes on message to Manav bhai too that "KKN mein dil se kaam karnewalo ki zarut hai jealousy, competition, politics ke liye koi jagah nahi hai" ...apne dil mein kisi ke liye nafrat rakhne se...sirf past mein jeete hai"
...
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Manav bhai, its good to see him working hard irrespective of his maksad...as by end of it his hardwork in a way gonna maintain quality of his work ...& must say, like girgit aas pass ke mahaul ko dekhkar kya andaaz badalte hai đ ...is baar plan acha hai Manav bhai...hope Malvika darling briefed you about "ghaag" Kabir Sharma...coz to compete with him you will need to maintain focus ... bas focus me saath kaam karte rahiye..."har kadam soch samajhkar, ahista ahista , rafta rafta , boota boota" all the best Manav bhai...
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I really wonder if Jaane se pehle was for current episode or a spoiler like always...coz JSP us relevant to current episode too as not knowing much about each other. ..somewhere down the line made Ananya insecure but Kabir patiently & calmly just made her confident once again...
Even in forthcoming episodes if by any chance Kabir gets insecure because of Ananya Shreya friendship ...then it will be Ananya's responsibility to calm him down & make him feel secured...
As of now, all the best to Kabir Ananya, hope they continue to discover a new thing about each other everyday..& enjoy being together...& enjoy their exclusive moments of togetherness...
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Episode 87
August 17,2015
Love Friendship Dating and Relationships
Bindi
