--Knowing SomeOne--

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It's funny how you can think you know someone pretty well, and then something happens or they do something that makes you understand that you didn't really!!! ...

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There's a difference between knowing someone and simply knowing someone...we know many people, we come across many people whom we can say we know them...but how much we exactly know about them its really big question...its only with due time & understanding we start to get to know a person better...
Guess Ananya going through same situation...she knows Kabir, she knows Shreya...but how much?? She just knows to a limited extent...
in case of Kabir she has an advantage,that Kabir will himself help her out & as she continues to know him more, she will be able to understand him better with time...not in just matter of likes & dislikes but in broader contexts too... may be if a situation arises to defend Kabir in future...she will be in a much better position to do so...

To know Shreya, Ananya will have to purely go on her instincts, her maturity & ananlytical judgement...Ananya will really have to work harder to know her better...or to know the real Shreya.

Lets see whom she gets to know faster...

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As of now, Ananya's attempt to know Kabir better is a thoughtful idea... she is getting smarter in smart boyfriend's company...for coming up with idea of making & exchanging lists of likes & dislikes...though she is little late, but its better late than never...she should have done it earlier, but still its never too late to know your partners choices & preferences...& this is Ananya's first step to knowing Kabir better...& what Kabir meant in his previous jaane se pehle..."kisi ke karib hone mein...aur kisi ko jaane mein fark hota hai" ....Ananya might be close to him in certain aspects but she has to go a long way in knowing him...what he likes what he doesn't, what makes him happy what doesn't etc...
So exchanging lists is "ek achi shuruaat" & like Mrs. Kashyap said... "abhi toh ek dusre ke bare mein bahut kuch jaanna hai samajhna hai..."...let the process be slow, steady & consistent...

Felt bad for Kabir, his expectation of "one hug-one kiss"...not even a "love letter" was not fulfilled...never thought he was really expecting it...Really Kabir, "please office mein nahi" .specifically when you have a glass door cabin...๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†either change your cabin or the glass doors...๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†on second thoughts I don't think Kabir should be scared too much...considering now everyone in office knows about them...

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Its was thoughtful of Ananya to invite him inside & have a nice "gulaab jamun" time together irrespective Kabir likes them or not...& indeed it turned out better than just coffee & lumbiii drive,๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜› atleast Ananya & we got to know "kabir ko gulab jamun nahi pasand" ... But the considerate & sweet boyfriend... for girlfriend & sasu maa's happiness ready to eat "gulab jamuns"...his expressions while eating were worth watching & smarty son in law's smarty saasu maa, just from expressions guessed he doesn't like gulab jamuns...so Aunty ji next time "dark chocolate cake" please
Best part being, Kabir getting a chance to apologise to Mrs. Kashyap & just clear himself out so that, she doesn't misunderstands him that he was trying to hide anything from her...
But still it was good to see getting everything normal b/w Kabir & Mrs. Kashyap...& liked a mother's concern how her daughter is unaware about Kabir's likes & dislikes...it may not be a big issue but can somewhere down the line may start effecting the relationship.

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Lets see if Ananya accepts Shreya's friendship request...though I don't think Ananya has any particular reason to refuse but still if she accepts, I wud like to see her maintaining a considerable distance from Shreya, she can be cordial with her but should refrain herself from sharing anything & everything with her, specifically something related with Kabir...
Hopefully Ananya will be sensible enough to know & realize what & how much to share with Shreya...& to not just fall for her sweet sugary words but actually follows Kabir's advice "Shreya jitni zameen ke upar hai...utni neeche"...& please no involving her in future dinner/lunch plans...pretty please!!!๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†
Still needs to know her better to accept friendship...or needs to do friendship to know her better...๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

I don't care if Ananya accepts or rejects Shreya's friendship request, coz even if Ananya somewhere accepts her friendship, to a certain extent it will be useful for KabirAnanya as it will give an opportunity to be always near Shreya, she will be in a better position to know her plans, not necessarily exact plan...but atleast she will be able to know & judge her as a person better...she will be close enough to guess her actions, reactions...& if a situation arises to frame or trap Shreya in some plan, her friendship will surely come to good use...& accepting friendship can be just part of gameplan from KabirAnanya...afterall "kabhi kabhi saamne wale ko jeeta kar bhi hasil hoti hai"...like its said... To win bigger wars, you need to loose smaller battles...it's the bigger battle which matters...

If going by Kabir's jaane se pehle, & if it can be consider as a spoiler...which in other words was SRK style "kabhi kabhi kuch jeetne ke liye haarna padta" I wont be to surprised to see Ananya-Shreya turning into best of friends ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†only for Shreya to later realise that it was part of manipulation game by manipulation master "The Kabir Sharma"

So, Let Ananya accept the friendship request & Let Shreya live in the happiness bubble that she is winning...coz ultimate win is what which will matter...
BUT, I would surely hate to see Ananya falling for Shreya's tricks & end up getting hurt & Shreya once again getting successful in hurting Kabir in the process too...& my fingers crossed hope if a situation arises in future to choose b/w what Kabir & Shreya says as individual, Ananya wud be mature enough to choose the right one.

The whole Shreya self scene with her & Kabir pic...I think more than anything romantic it was more of her regret of leaving a husband like Kabir...may be somewhere she has regret of not making an attempt to make their marriage work...or maybe she failed to see things in Kabir back then as husband, what she sees today in Kabir as Ananya's boyfriend...irrespective of fact whether Shreya loves Kabir or not...but now seeing Kabir as a better person, seeing Ananya happy with him...Shreya does have that regretful guilt feeling in him...
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Khalid as always such a darling...๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† he always manages to crack me up at any situation... "KKN mein bahar si aagayi hai...mohabbat aur pyaar ki" as for your "future fauj" ....if Khalid means, what I'm thinking juniors of KabirAnanya & ManavMalvika...aren't expecting too much, too soon darling...The thought itself is rofling...for once Kabir Ananya is acceptable...๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† but Malvika & Manav ek saath & imagining their "fauj" ... really Khalid...I really wonder if Manav bhai, wud appreciate the idea...๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† but seriously Khalid..."fauj ko aate hi internship", wudn't they require little training before joining KKN...must say, kaafi door ko soch hai...Mr. Khalid...amazing!!!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Congratulations Ronnie on promotion & Manav bhai, indeed a wonderful presentation...waiting for "Manav se Manavta tak" sounds pretty interesting & glad to know, somewhere back in his mind Manav bhai still remembers editor saab's idea from first editorial meet "main compete kar raha hoon un channels se ...jin par saari ladies chipak kar baith jati hai...shaam 7 baje se" & now manav bhai following same idea... ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

I guess Manav is more than happy & comfortable to have Ronnie as producer instead of Malvika...poor girl, she is literally getting sidelined in her own channel..."K L ki bachhi" have nothing much to do.๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

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Lets see whats in store for Kabir Ananya...& if Shreya really gets to win over Ananya's confidence & trust as a friend...& will accepting friendship will be beneficial for Ananya & Kabir to know Shreya much better...
it is also be seen How successful Shreya gets in her plan!!!

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Knowing a person is like music.
What attracts us is their Melody and as we get to know who they are, we learn their Lyrics.
- Unknown.


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Episode 86
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-sharada- thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice positive post ๐Ÿ˜Š Lets have our sakaratmak soch in place and hope Kabir Ananya will win the bigger war even if Shreya wins the smaller battles.

Malvika is paying the price for taking panga with the boss. ๐Ÿ˜Š You know, the boss is always right!! Initially I hoped Malvika will do something foolhardy out of frustration and give Kabir Ananya a chance to get back at her for the date pics fiasco. But, Kabir is already giving it back at her - with interest.

Learning time ahead for everyone...
1. Shreya has to learn that the Kabir she knew and the Kabir that he is today are two different individuals.
2. Ananya has to learn to handle Shreya and her manipulations and not allow her to ruin her relation with Kabir.
3. Mrs. Kashyap has to get to learn more about her future SIL, to convince herself that her first instinct about him was bang on.
4. Khalid has to learn that there is no romantic lehar in KKN, only a professional one. Everyone is putting their best professional foot forward.
5. Malvika has to learn not to mess around with the boss. She can try putting her ego aside and say sorry to Kabir to begin with.

Last but not the least,
All of us should learn more about the character who seem to be carrying tales to Shreya.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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amazing analysis...
although ananaya doesn't know kabirs like and dislikes but i feel she knows the kabir sharma whom no one knows not even shrey being his ex wife...that is the biggest advantage she has...

shreya i guess somewhere wants kabir back...hope whatever she does stays true to her character...this women is very intriguing...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post Purnima...
I have only one apprehension if Ananya accepts the friendship. ..she should not go overboard with it and ending up discussing Kabir with her...i mean i know she will not do that on her own...but Shrya might talk her into it...deliberately steer the topic to Kabir...
Ananya for e.g shouldnt end up asking Shreya about Kabir's likes and dislikes in her enthu to get to know Kabir faster...
I know Ananya is not immature or a fool...but she definitely has such a pure heart...that is why I fear her trusting Shreya too much...I want her to get to know of Shreya's sly nature before she gets hurt and in the process kabir too...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post purnima didi.. keep writing .. ๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ash1991

amazing analysis...

although ananaya doesn't know kabirs like and dislikes but i feel she knows the kabir sharma whom no one knows not even shrey being his ex wife...that is the biggest advantage she has...

shreya i guess somewhere wants kabir back...hope whatever she does stays true to her character...this women is very intriguing...



True annaya doesn't know kabir's like dislikes but what annaya knows about kabir no one know .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaks0211

Nice post Purnima...

I have only one apprehension if Ananya accepts the friendship. ..she should not go overboard with it and ending up discussing Kabir with her...i mean i know she will not do that on her own...but Shrya might talk her into it...deliberately steer the topic to Kabir...
Ananya for e.g shouldnt end up asking Shreya about Kabir's likes and dislikes in her enthu to get to know Kabir faster...
I know Ananya is not immature or a fool...but she definitely has such a pure heart...that is why I fear her trusting Shreya too much...I want her to get to know of Shreya's sly nature before she gets hurt and in the process kabir too...


I too has that fear
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hayeee... no words to describe... amazing ... But purnima the JSP can be in context to both ( shreya or ananya ) . I mean the Jsp applies for both... What is your POV? Anu can loose small battles to win big fight and even shreya can loose small battles to win big fight ... But for whom it is exactly i am confused??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sharada-


Nice positive post ๐Ÿ˜Š Lets have our sakaratmak soch in place and hope Kabir Ananya will win the bigger war even if Shreya wins the smaller battles.

Malvika is paying the price for taking panga with the boss. ๐Ÿ˜Š You know, the boss is always right!! Initially I hoped Malvika will do something foolhardy out of frustration and give Kabir Ananya a chance to get back at her for the date pics fiasco. But, Kabir is already giving it back at her - with interest.

Learning time ahead for everyone...
1. Shreya has to learn that the Kabir she knew and the Kabir that he is today are two different individuals.
2. Ananya has to learn to handle Shreya and her manipulations and not allow her to ruin her relation with Kabir.
3. Mrs. Kashyap has to get to learn more about her future SIL, to convince herself that her first instinct about him was bang on.
4. Khalid has to learn that there is no romantic lehar in KKN, only a professional one. Everyone is putting their best professional foot forward.
5. Malvika has to learn not to mess around with the boss. She can try putting her ego aside and say sorry to Kabir to begin with.

Last but not the least,
All of us should learn more about the character who seem to be carrying tales to Shreya.

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thanks for liking & dropping in a "sakaratmak" feedback ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ
indeed for everyone its all gonna be about Knowing the other person...coz we know a person but how the person gonna react in a particular situation we never know...unless we know the person better ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
the magic trick lies in how better we know & understand th other...๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sampa79


True annaya doesn't know kabir's like dislikes but what annaya knows about kabir no one know .



thanx for liking ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ & indeed, Ananya knows Kabir on emotional level...which is more than important to know about your partner...& dats gonna be Ananya's biggest advantage...& shreya's disadvantage,
The "kabir" Shreya had known all these years, Now, after Ananya's positive effect on him is a different person altogether ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

I'm liking how Shreya's character is maintaining its mystery level consistent...at no stage its slipping from CVs ...they surely do deserve credit for it ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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