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There's a difference between knowing someone and simply knowing someone...we know many people, we come across many people whom we can say we know them...but how much we exactly know about them its really big question...its only with due time & understanding we start to get to know a person better...
Guess Ananya going through same situation...she knows Kabir, she knows Shreya...but how much?? She just knows to a limited extent...
in case of Kabir she has an advantage,that Kabir will himself help her out & as she continues to know him more, she will be able to understand him better with time...not in just matter of likes & dislikes but in broader contexts too... may be if a situation arises to defend Kabir in future...she will be in a much better position to do so...
To know Shreya, Ananya will have to purely go on her instincts, her maturity & ananlytical judgement...Ananya will really have to work harder to know her better...or to know the real Shreya.
Lets see whom she gets to know faster...
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As of now, Ananya's attempt to know Kabir better is a thoughtful idea... she is getting smarter in smart boyfriend's company...for coming up with idea of making & exchanging lists of likes & dislikes...though she is little late, but its better late than never...she should have done it earlier, but still its never too late to know your partners choices & preferences...& this is Ananya's first step to knowing Kabir better...& what Kabir meant in his previous jaane se pehle..."kisi ke karib hone mein...aur kisi ko jaane mein fark hota hai" ....Ananya might be close to him in certain aspects but she has to go a long way in knowing him...what he likes what he doesn't, what makes him happy what doesn't etc...
So exchanging lists is "ek achi shuruaat" & like Mrs. Kashyap said... "abhi toh ek dusre ke bare mein bahut kuch jaanna hai samajhna hai..."...let the process be slow, steady & consistent...
Felt bad for Kabir, his expectation of "one hug-one kiss"...not even a "love letter" was not fulfilled...never thought he was really expecting it...Really Kabir, "please office mein nahi" .specifically when you have a glass door cabin...๐๐๐either change your cabin or the glass doors...๐๐๐on second thoughts I don't think Kabir should be scared too much...considering now everyone in office knows about them...
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Its was thoughtful of Ananya to invite him inside & have a nice "gulaab jamun" time together irrespective Kabir likes them or not...& indeed it turned out better than just coffee & lumbiii drive,๐๐ atleast Ananya & we got to know "kabir ko gulab jamun nahi pasand" ... But the considerate & sweet boyfriend... for girlfriend & sasu maa's happiness ready to eat "gulab jamuns"...his expressions while eating were worth watching & smarty son in law's smarty saasu maa, just from expressions guessed he doesn't like gulab jamuns...so Aunty ji next time "dark chocolate cake" please
Best part being, Kabir getting a chance to apologise to Mrs. Kashyap & just clear himself out so that, she doesn't misunderstands him that he was trying to hide anything from her...
But still it was good to see getting everything normal b/w Kabir & Mrs. Kashyap...& liked a mother's concern how her daughter is unaware about Kabir's likes & dislikes...it may not be a big issue but can somewhere down the line may start effecting the relationship.
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Lets see if Ananya accepts Shreya's friendship request...though I don't think Ananya has any particular reason to refuse but still if she accepts, I wud like to see her maintaining a considerable distance from Shreya, she can be cordial with her but should refrain herself from sharing anything & everything with her, specifically something related with Kabir...
Hopefully Ananya will be sensible enough to know & realize what & how much to share with Shreya...& to not just fall for her sweet sugary words but actually follows Kabir's advice "Shreya jitni zameen ke upar hai...utni neeche"...& please no involving her in future dinner/lunch plans...pretty please!!!๐๐๐๐
Still needs to know her better to accept friendship...or needs to do friendship to know her better...๐๐๐๐
I don't care if Ananya accepts or rejects Shreya's friendship request, coz even if Ananya somewhere accepts her friendship, to a certain extent it will be useful for KabirAnanya as it will give an opportunity to be always near Shreya, she will be in a better position to know her plans, not necessarily exact plan...but atleast she will be able to know & judge her as a person better...she will be close enough to guess her actions, reactions...& if a situation arises to frame or trap Shreya in some plan, her friendship will surely come to good use...& accepting friendship can be just part of gameplan from KabirAnanya...afterall "kabhi kabhi saamne wale ko jeeta kar bhi hasil hoti hai"...like its said... To win bigger wars, you need to loose smaller battles...it's the bigger battle which matters...
If going by Kabir's jaane se pehle, & if it can be consider as a spoiler...which in other words was SRK style "kabhi kabhi kuch jeetne ke liye haarna padta" I wont be to surprised to see Ananya-Shreya turning into best of friends ๐๐๐only for Shreya to later realise that it was part of manipulation game by manipulation master "The Kabir Sharma"
So, Let Ananya accept the friendship request & Let Shreya live in the happiness bubble that she is winning...coz ultimate win is what which will matter...
BUT, I would surely hate to see Ananya falling for Shreya's tricks & end up getting hurt & Shreya once again getting successful in hurting Kabir in the process too...& my fingers crossed hope if a situation arises in future to choose b/w what Kabir & Shreya says as individual, Ananya wud be mature enough to choose the right one.
The whole Shreya self scene with her & Kabir pic...I think more than anything romantic it was more of her regret of leaving a husband like Kabir...may be somewhere she has regret of not making an attempt to make their marriage work...or maybe she failed to see things in Kabir back then as husband, what she sees today in Kabir as Ananya's boyfriend...irrespective of fact whether Shreya loves Kabir or not...but now seeing Kabir as a better person, seeing Ananya happy with him...Shreya does have that regretful guilt feeling in him...
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Khalid as always such a darling...๐๐๐ he always manages to crack me up at any situation... "KKN mein bahar si aagayi hai...mohabbat aur pyaar ki" as for your "future fauj" ....if Khalid means, what I'm thinking juniors of KabirAnanya & ManavMalvika...aren't expecting too much, too soon darling...The thought itself is rofling...for once Kabir Ananya is acceptable...๐๐๐ but Malvika & Manav ek saath & imagining their "fauj" ... really Khalid...I really wonder if Manav bhai, wud appreciate the idea...๐๐๐๐ but seriously Khalid..."fauj ko aate hi internship", wudn't they require little training before joining KKN...must say, kaafi door ko soch hai...Mr. Khalid...amazing!!!๐๐๐๐
Congratulations Ronnie on promotion & Manav bhai, indeed a wonderful presentation...waiting for "Manav se Manavta tak" sounds pretty interesting & glad to know, somewhere back in his mind Manav bhai still remembers editor saab's idea from first editorial meet "main compete kar raha hoon un channels se ...jin par saari ladies chipak kar baith jati hai...shaam 7 baje se" & now manav bhai following same idea... ๐๐๐๐
I guess Manav is more than happy & comfortable to have Ronnie as producer instead of Malvika...poor girl, she is literally getting sidelined in her own channel..."K L ki bachhi" have nothing much to do.๐๐๐
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Lets see whats in store for Kabir Ananya...& if Shreya really gets to win over Ananya's confidence & trust as a friend...& will accepting friendship will be beneficial for Ananya & Kabir to know Shreya much better...
it is also be seen How successful Shreya gets in her plan!!!
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Knowing a person is like music.
What attracts us is their Melody and as we get to know who they are, we learn their Lyrics.
- Unknown.
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Episode 86
August 4, 2015