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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

I'm just stumped at ananya's stupidity today, but I did feel bad for her at the end. I think she is desperately trying to normalize the situation due to her escapist attitude.


Exactly!! Escapist is the right word!! Not just in this matter, even her action of quitting KKN when she fett Kabir's doesn't reciprocate her love, and very recently, not disclosing to her mom about Shreya's entry in KKN, all part of her escapist nature. She thinks if she ignores the problem, the problem will vanish,
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks for the most needed post. At first even i was quiet annoyed with Annaya but at the end can't help it but felt sorry for the girl. I odn't know why but while at the dinner table while odering the food i felt that kabir was playing along with Annaya, I mean he deliberatly order as per sherya choice so that he could plant the insecurity seed in Annaya mind coz with direct approch he has been quite unsucessful till now. And with this he is alos trying to understand Sherya game plan?? guys don't know if this makes sence or not as my brain is not at all working straight..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yawfeh

Geetha pl explain the JSP...


JSP , that totally escaped me today.. If I watch the last scene again, I will check the JSP and update you
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RegalVintage-

That is a very plausible explanation Geetha. :-) The thing with Ananya is that she categorizes situations at times, and with Shreya, the woman who is her boyfriend's ex wife, no less is a big challenge at the back of her mind.

You could sense that when she talked her mother out of this the other day. She calmed her down, but this was an issue that plagues her mind like it would for any other person! And why not, Shreya is a mystery to her still, and especially when she has refused to hear anything about Kabir's past and when the past itself walked in on their lives, there is a curiosity in her as to what it was back then for Kabir and this woman and how will it affect them now that she is here.
She hasn't seen things like Kabir has, she has a clean slate, she sees things as she sees them right in front of her, but things won't be so rosy very soon. And she learns as she faces things, we have always seen that.
And the last scene melted my heart too, her actions resulted in their not so happy dinner and well, I can't help but feel bad for the girl! 😳


Yes, the most logical thing to do is to hear out Kabir's past, that will solve all the issues they are facing till now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta13

Thank you dear for coming up earlier today.

I really feel now , Ananya is actually running from Kabirs Past and its high time she comes to know ...

But I dont think so Cvs will show it now , probably one or 2 incidents more and then she will realize that she had enough of it and will run to Kabir for his past.

She needs to see shreya more intimated and somewhere Kabir more hurt than ever than only she will give up being having such bada dil.

But Kabir also knew what shreya eats and likes ...ouchhh It hurt me too :(

Kabir so cutely fell for her sorry and cheered her immediately, poor guy cannot see her sad.

I also mentioned Ananyas insecurities in one of my post, She will now start feeling insecure about nything and everything and her bubble will burst.


Exactly... She will run to him demanding his past. Kabir's anger and pain doesn't provoke her inclination to know his past, hopefully this insecurity would.

Kabir was subtle in ordering for both the ladies, but Shreya was too direct ;)


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes actually she is trying to escape from this very fact which was there naked in front of her that her man once loved this other woman was close with her..knoews her in out...yes I felt sorry for her and so did Kabir and hence he tried to cheer her up
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today, for the first time I am agreeing with you in each point. 😊
Not only Shreya but Kabir also knew her choice of sauce but he has to ask Ananya what is her choice. Not Shreya but Kabir's action also show her the mirror that what she is dreaming with Kabir already lived by the duo though it is bitter now, but it was sweet for some time . The feelings which she was not ready to identify till now hit her bluntly today. Kabir is irritated but she is hurt as her wall of ignorance is broken today. It will positively bring her possessiveness & Shreya is no more just a business head but the woman from Kabir's past. I think, she will be critical from now about Shreya's behaviour.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shreya was in top form tonight and gets all the brownie points. 👏 She was either at the same restaurant accidentally or deliberately, but she succeeded in making the Kabir-Ananya duo uncomfortable and ruined their night out. She is playing her role exceedingly well. 👏

Ananya did what any well-mannered girl would do. Even I would hav done the same! 😊 Inviting your boyfriend's ex, needs a lot of courage. She did it w/out flinching an eyelid and obviously w/out thinking about the consequences. Again immaturity. But that's the learning curve in such relationships, I guess. 😃 She may choose not to do it again. And no damage was done as Kabir expl. the whole situation later.

Kabir was surprised but he played along well. Chivalry? Shreya was invited, so he chose her fav dishes too. 👏

In the end, the trust shared between Kabir-Ananya won. 😃 That was the beauty of tonight's episode.



-Rekha
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes! Exactly, that's what should be the logical thing to do. But now that she herself has said it a couple times she doesn't wanna know about Kabir's past, imo she feels if she broaches the subject now, it would hurt Kabir. Because who doesn't wanna know what your boyfriend's past is, especially someone like Kabir's who has a not so pleasant one at that. 😳
I think, I might be wrong, somewhere she is subconsciously scared of what she might learn about it, she is beginning to know the person she is with now, but what if the Kabir who was eight years ago wasn't exactly the man he is now, I think there's a part of hers that is scared of what she might find out. It could be right!
I am not really defending her, although it just might come across as such, but she has a way of dealing or rather not dealing with things, but when things will just place themselves out there in the open for her, she won't be able to ignore them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

Yeah I know everyone is super-mad at Ananya after tonight's epi. But in the face of what recently happened with Kabir burning the handkerchief, symbolizing wiping away of negativity and the scene after that in Shreya's cabin, I think it was an organic move, don't you? I mean the Ananya we all know is open, honest, trusting unless the other person gives her reason not to be and so far nothing in Shreya's behaviour has prompted her to think otherwise.

The universal fact is we can't experience everything or understand everyone in our life time, some times we have to rely on our dear one's experiences. Let's leave out Kabir's parroting of 'I know Shreya better, she is more than what meets the eye' (he actually bores with me this dialogue). Let's just take Kabir's oversenitivr reactions to Shreya, including the kerchief. Why Ananya is ignoring those?

I think that Ananya is not threatened by Shreya at all, she has faith that Kabir has wiped off that portion of his life away. She is not one to care about how he may have felt about Shreya in the past, for hasn't she said time and again that she doesn't care and wants to move on. That's her in a nutshell! She hates dwelling in what happened and instead wants to focus on what's happening in the now. She loves Kabir and knows that he loves her more than anyone and she trusts him completely and believes that no evil machinations by any ex is going to shake her faith in him and vice-versa. She encouraged Kabir to let go of his past completely and not hold on to any negativity and he thanked her for it.

She isn't insecure about Shreya's place in Kabir's present, what I am talking about is the unexplainable fear one feel about unknown things. If she doesn't have it, Kabir's extreme reactions should have triggered her curiosity, it will for any normal girl's.

Also, Ananya is the non-confrontational type, wanting to believe the best of everyone and taking things at face value. Some would call her naive and foolish looking at things with rose-colored glasses, but her trait is also endearing in a world that's so filled with bitterness and cynicism. Its easy to dismiss everyone as being conniving but its harder to place your trust in people and hope that they'll not crush your faith. Ananya is all about giving people second chances and encouraging them to change for the better. Hasn't she done that for Kabir? Maybe she will do the same for Shreya too? 😆

Yes, her naivety is refreshing, but not when you ignore your beloved's extreme reactions. If she feels Kabir is overreacting, she should hear him out and then help him get over it,

That said, I think she felt a bit unsure if Kabir would mind her impulsive gesture and was about to call him and warn him when he walked in..
The little sad face she makes at Shreya's commenting about Kabir's allergy I think will only prompt her to want to know more about Kabir and that is a good thing, na?

Yes 👍🏼

Albeit, I agree that inviting your BF's ex to a dinner date is utmost foolishness but all this ensuing forced closeness with Shreya is only heading towards one thing.

I think the CVs are constructing this as a plot device intended for Ananya and her mom (ergo us the audience) to get to know about Kabir's past from Shreya's POV first. After all, there are two sides to every story and Shreya is obviously going to present a very biased view of what happened, of course all the while donning her mahaan avatar and pretending that she does not mean to accuse Kabir bla bla bla 😡

Hmm, I somehow feel Shreay would continue to play professional card and play safe, she won't share anything to Anita, but gives the impression of a nicest woman who only a fool or a very bad person would divorce ;)

And hopefully knowing one half of the story finally pushes Ananya to want to know Kabir's side of it. I think that's the only way this girl would be willing to talk to her her BF about his past 😆

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