drawing the line...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Richa is Ananya's good friend..she is her well wisher..its her duty to warn her..but its not her business to take decisions for her...no matter how good a friend you are one should always know where to draw the line...everyone has a right to live their life and no one absolutely no one has any right to interfere...richa was clearly over reacting on a fact that doesnot concern her at all..if ananya is happy with kabir then what richa thinks about kabir does not matter ...more over how they would behave publicly as a couple is none of her business...period!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey!! Nini!! How are you???

I agree that Richa has no business telling Ananya who she should love and who she shouldn't. As a friend she could warn her (which she's done already) and make her aware of the possible consequences of dating a man with a troubled past but beyond that she cannot (and should not) control Ananya's life and her relationship choices.

I feel that Richa was being slightly bigoted here. She was facing the consequences of plunging headlong into a news story without verifying the info or the source. As a responsible reporter, she know she committed a major faux pas. And yet when it comes to Kabir she has no qualms believing in hearsay, even to the extent of brainwashing her friend into believing the worst of her boss with no concrete evidence. This I cannot understand 😕

As far as workplace ethics go, I have to side with Richa. She is an employee of KKN as are Ananya and Kabir and she has a say in what affects her, and if she finds her colleagues' behaviour distasteful she has the right to express it. I think its a good thing for both Ananya and Kabir to keep their relationship out of KKN. We saw how foolish Kabir looked after yet another coded ILY to Ananya. It only serves as fodder for gossip and makes them lose their credibility as professionals. So yeah, I have to agree with Richa on this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

Hey!! Nini!! How are you???

I agree that Richa has no business telling Ananya who she should love and who she shouldn't. As a friend she could warn her (which she's done already) and make her aware of the possible consequences of dating a man with a troubled past but beyond that she cannot (and should not) control Ananya's life and her relationship choices.

I feel that Richa was being slightly bigoted here. She was facing the consequences of plunging headlong into a news story without verifying the info or the source. As a responsible reporter, she know she committed a major faux pas. And yet when it comes to Kabir she has no qualms believing in hearsay, even to the extent of brainwashing her friend into believing the worst of her boss with no concrete evidence. This I cannot understand 😕

As far as workplace ethics go, I have to side with Richa. She is an employee of KKN as are Ananya and Kabir and she has a say in what affects her, and if she finds her colleagues' behaviour distasteful she has the right to express it. I think its a good thing for both Ananya and Kabir to keep their relationship out of KKN. We saw how foolish Kabir looked after yet another coded ILY to Ananya. It only serves as fodder for gossip and makes them lose their credibility as professionals. So yeah, I have to agree with Richa on this.


Hi How are you???am doing good...see what richa said about kabir and ananya more than what was said i did not like how it was said...theres a way of saying things...you dont really have to be rude in order to make someone understand something...richa was so rude and bitter.

Thanks for the long detailed comment..😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes Nini I didnt like the way she said it. Even Ronnie the way he was asking her aand what was the need for Ronnie to drop her when she had already told him about she accepting kabirs proposal.And then he was interested to know what kabir told her about his past. I hope Ananya wont keep him updating abouut every single thing happening between kaya and seriously want her to stop hugging Ronnie every time.😆
Didnt like epi and spoilers are discouraging.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

Hey!! Nini!! How are you???

I agree that Richa has no business telling Ananya who she should love and who she shouldn't. As a friend she could warn her (which she's done already) and make her aware of the possible consequences of dating a man with a troubled past but beyond that she cannot (and should not) control Ananya's life and her relationship choices.

I feel that Richa was being slightly bigoted here. She was facing the consequences of plunging headlong into a news story without verifying the info or the source. As a responsible reporter, she know she committed a major faux pas. And yet when it comes to Kabir she has no qualms believing in hearsay, even to the extent of brainwashing her friend into believing the worst of her boss with no concrete evidence. This I cannot understand 😕

As far as workplace ethics go, I have to side with Richa. She is an employee of KKN as are Ananya and Kabir and she has a say in what affects her, and if she finds her colleagues' behaviour distasteful she has the right to express it. I think its a good thing for both Ananya and Kabir to keep their relationship out of KKN. We saw how foolish Kabir looked after yet another coded ILY to Ananya. It only serves as fodder for gossip and makes them lose their credibility as professionals. So yeah, I have to agree with Richa on this.

Loved your FF on ktlk forum. Read it many times.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Exactly my point too Nini...she might be worried for her friend - but her attitude was bitter...i cannot get any other word for it...
She tells Ananya that Kabir writing such notes - might be fun for Ananya - but "mujhe pasand nahi hain" - arey tere pasand aur na pasand pe depend karta hain kya that how Kaya will behave...does she even know that Kabir is doing this only to make Ananya feel happy - wether it is correct or not is a different issue...
She tells Ananya have you forgotten about the divorce and Tarini - but did she even bother to pause and ask Ananya whether Kabir and she have discussed this issue or not...Richa has her own judgement on the divorce and Tarini - without any proper info and she just wants to thrust that judgement on Ananya - not done at all...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But dont you think Ananya has given them this liberty on speaking too much and getting too much involved with her petsonal life
I mean ok she disclosed that Kabir proposed Richa reacted which was wrong but why couldnt Ananya ask Rpnnie tonot interfere muchImean how could she agree that she will be letting him know allHow does it matter to Ronnie if Kabir tells about his past or not or how they takefwd their relation
I would have liked Anu to tell herfriends very politely that ok you ppl are concernedbut beyond that too much involvement from your sideis unwarranted
I meanhow will Kabir feel once he knows what all Richa has been saying
So the onus has to be on Ananya to keep her love and friendship separate
My pov
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But dont you think Ananya has given them this liberty on speaking too much and getting too much involved with her petsonal life
I mean ok she disclosed that Kabir proposed Richa reacted which was wrong but why couldnt Ananya ask Rpnnie tonot interfere muchImean how could she agree that she will be letting him know allHow does it matter to Ronnie if Kabir tells about his past or not or how they takefwd their relation
I would have liked Anu to tell herfriends very politely that ok you ppl are concernedbut beyond that too much involvement from your sideis unwarranted
I meanhow will Kabir feel once he knows what all Richa has been saying
So the onus has to be on Ananya to keep her love and friendship separate
My pov

Completely agree with you...
Edited by vyoman - 10 years ago

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