Selfish Ananya?

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Chitra RaviKiran

@chitloner

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

He hurt her only hope to live. She shunned him. He openly called her and asked her to demand his presence if need be. She ignored. She had a family moment with Ronnie.

He was hurt by himself and a little by her. He got drunk and had an accident. U realise your feelings now. But U expect him to not have any friends. If yours and Ronnie's friendship goes back to many years same is with Kabir and Tarini. It might even be longer. And they have crossed through disasters together unlike U and Ronnie. And U expected him to be alone when he has suffered an accident. U shunned him lady! But he never did that to U.

Edited by Chitrathan - 10 years ago

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DirtyMartini

@Grumpydwarf24

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think she is just in a misunderstanding! She is not use to sharing her pain with her boss/idol. In fact she hasn't even really acknowledged her feeling for him as of yet. Plus she might even feel awkward due to the boss issue. In a moment of pain she did what she was use to run to her friends and family that she is most comfortable with. But she is impulsive an doesnt sit back to analyze that that is what most people do.

When it comes to the assumptions than both Kabir and Ananya are in fear of losing each other. As they have developed serious feeling for one another. When you love someone the fear of losing them is the greatest and that is why you become so overly sensitive towards everything. That is how I see it. If we look at from both perspectives even Kabir could have understood she was leaning on a friend she was most comfortable with and has known longer. (That doesnt mean she has stronger feeling for that friend. Just a stronger comfort level.)

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violette

@violette

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Posted: 10 years ago

Please give this girl a benefit of dbt and wait for the epi!😳

Let her come out of her loss please! What do you expect, she wud go and run into Kabir's arms when her family needs her the most!

Also she does go back to Kabir on learning abt his accident.

Give her a chance to put her point of view!

Ronnnie went to her. We don't know if she called up Ronnie to share tht hug! Or do you believe in Malvika rthr thn giving Ananya a chance to explain herself?

Spoilers r not 100% true!

Edited by violette - 10 years ago

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Mahi78

@Mahi78

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Posted: 10 years ago

I disagree with you dear, she didn't invited Ronnie to her house but still he came and spice that have a very long and close friendhip he knew her better but it doesn't mean she is pushing Kabir away, she has not yet reached to that level of comfort with Kabir.

On the other hand as we saw in the precap she is not yet sure about her feelings towards Kabie, she said she like him for ages and may be she may fall in love with him in the future she just wanted to clearify her feelings towards Kabir that is why she wanted to meet him,

Same way when Kabir saw Ananya seeking comfort with Ronnie ( where Kabir knows Ronnie loves Ananya and assumes even she reciprocates the same which is not the case) Ananya sees Tarani caring for Kabir and the the level of comfort which he share with Tarani like laughing which was never seen before in him by her makes her think they r to gather as previously also there was a news on them and even after her demanding to put his point forward he didn't do so she assumes their is really something between them.😊

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DirtyMartini

@Grumpydwarf24

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Mahi78
I disagree with you dear, she didn't invited Ronnie to her house but still he came and spice that have a very long and close friendhip he knew her better but it doesn't mean she is pushing Kabir away, she has not yet reached to that level of comfort with Kabir.
On the other hand as we saw in the precap she is not yet sure about her feelings towards Kabie, she said she like him for ages and may be she may fall in love with him in the future she just wanted to clearify her feelings towards Kabir that is why she wanted to meet him,

Same way when Kabir saw Ananya seeking comfort with Ronnie ( where Kabir knows Ronnie loves Ananya and assumes even she reciprocates the same which is not the case) Ananya sees Tarani caring for Kabir and the the level of comfort which he share with Tarani like laughing which was never seen before in him by her makes her think they r to gather as previously also there was a news on them and even after her demanding to put his point forward he didn't do so she assumes their is really something between them.😊

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Chitra RaviKiran

@chitloner

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: violette
Please give this girl a benefit of dbt and wait for the epi!😳

Let her come out of her loss please! What do you expect, she wud go and run into Kabir's arms when her family needs her the most!

Also she does go back to Kabir on learning abt his accident.

Give her a chance to put her point of view!

Ronnnie went to her. We don't know if she called up Ronnie to share tht hug! Or do you believe in Malvika rthr thn giving Ananya a chance to explain herself?

Spoilers r not 100% true!

I am not saying that she should not go to her friends. But she shouldn't come to a decision abt Kabir & Tarini. And Kabir was very clear in his questionnaire abt the same

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Chitra RaviKiran

@chitloner

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Mahi78
I disagree with you dear, she didn't invited Ronnie to her house but still he came and spice that have a very long and close friendhip he knew her better but it doesn't mean she is pushing Kabir away, she has not yet reached to that level of comfort with Kabir.
On the other hand as we saw in the precap she is not yet sure about her feelings towards Kabie, she said she like him for ages and may be she may fall in love with him in the future she just wanted to clearify her feelings towards Kabir that is why she wanted to meet him,

Same way when Kabir saw Ananya seeking comfort with Ronnie ( where Kabir knows Ronnie loves Ananya and assumes even she reciprocates the same which is not the case) Ananya sees Tarani caring for Kabir and the the level of comfort which he share with Tarani like laughing which was never seen before in him by her makes her think they r to gather as previously also there was a news on them and even after her demanding to put his point forward he didn't do so she assumes their is really something between them.😊

I am not disagreeing. But I am saying that she shouldn't come to a conclusion abt KT. Kabir would never have conclude that R & A have an affair or a relationship

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IAmNotActive

@IAmNotActive

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Posted: 10 years ago

It is better to watch the actual sequences before making the judgements. Yes, I am a little miffed at the precap too, not because I think Ananya is selfish, but because she seems too immature..

I can understand why it was easier for her to cry her hearts out with Ronnie, and I don't think she turned her back on Kabir. I don't see any problem in her behaviour till now.

And let's not forget she has no idea about the emotional turmoil Kabir is under.

Having said that, I am not convinced that she is in love. She is very much attracted, reeling under a heavy dose of hero worship, feels a companionship with Kabir, but she is not where Kabir is now. Kabir is more emotionally invested in this. But it is not her fault to not to feel the intense love, Ananya is an open book, it is easy for Kabir to know her and fall for her, but Kabir is a complex man which is actually a vey alluring characteristic, but can she love him for that?

Ananya's behabiour as per spoilers reeks of immaturity, she is not in the right mindset for a complicated man like Kabit Sharma. It is better they don't head into a relatioship at this stage, because if they do, Kabir will always be at an disadvantage, they would never be equals in the relationship, her emotions would always be on the surface level. She needs time to explore her feelings for this complex man and learn to read him. Proabably it is a blessing in disguise that she sees what sees in the precap. It will force her to analyse her own feelings instead of just floating in 'love'.

When she finish exploring and analysing herself and her feelings, she would turn out to be a matured person who can handle Kabir Sharma, and be his emotional equivalent. It is Ananya's story from now on. Kabir already reached the end line and will be waiting for her to join him (albeit unknowingly).

Kabir has no role to play in her quest to find herself, his priority should now be putting his proffesional life back on line.

p.s : what irked me about the precap is, she seems to be visiting the hospital not to meet a wounded man, but to seek answers to her confusion. That doesn't seem like a very 'freindly' behaviour to me, but as I said, precap could be misleading, let's wait for the actual episode.

Edited by Geetha_R - 10 years ago

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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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Posted: 10 years ago

@ Grumpydwarf

When it comes to the assumptions than both Kabir and Ananya are in fear of losing each other. As they have developed serious feeling for one another. When you love someone the fear of losing them is the greatest and that is why you become so overly sensitive towards everything. That is how I see it. If we look at from both perspectives even Kabir could have understood she was leaning on a friend she was most comfortable with and has known longer. (Th

at doesnt mean she has stronger feeling for that friend. Just a stronger comfort level.)

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@Bold Blue

I agree with you. However i feel Kabir is upset more because he is on a guilt trip for having shattered Ananya's hopes of her father's return...I feel he blames himself for the sudden way he broke the news to her...

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