nitzie talking to u directly...tell me how many characters u love who smoke like maniacs and drink booze like maniacs and even do drugs?...and on top of it all araam se go for one night stands and change girls and guys like bed sheets?...can I name very very few to begin with joey, chandler...ppl from Grey's...and so so many more yaar...helll u know when Remix came apna yuvi was exactly like this totally into booze and girls and what not but didn't we love him? Adore him rather?...Priya while talking abt Ali was too blatant but aisa hota hai yaar sometimes ppl get into relationships just for the heck of it just coz they don't want to be alone...and then that relationship wears our it looses its meaning and significance...aisa zaroori thodi hai ki every relationship u r in has to be woh soulmate wala thing...ager soulmate wala thing hota naps toh she wldnt have felt bored and trapped and caged in a routine ager soulmate wala thing hota toh every day wld have been a new day, a brand new day to love again to begin once again...life wld have been happy and blissful kuch nahi ho kar bhi sab kuch hota...but soulmate wala relationship nahi hai yeh tab hi toh sab kuch perfect hote hue bhi kuch nahi tha...she didn't use the right words but this is the feeling she is trying to reflect...if she was really in love with Ali uski yehi chotti chotti baatien wld have been endearing to her...she wld have fallen over and over agn in love with him but point is she is not in love... when love is not enough when u don't fele the same passion toh chotti se chotti baat badi lagne lagti hai and u just feel trapped...and fir all u can do is to just end it for ur sake and the other person tooo...
dekh yaar life is huge HUGE hume bohut sare ups and downs aur crossings ko paar karna padta toh come to a place where we finally finally r supposed to be, meant to be...kuch logon ko yeh place yeh destination one go mil jati hai aur kuch logon ko bohut struggle bohut seach bohut heart breaks ke baad milti hai...but eahc one of these heart breaks, each one of these phases teach us something, they play an imp role...hum galtiyan nahi karenge toh hume kaise pata padega ki who we really r?
so its okay...for me its okay...m not saying i wld do the same...coz i know i wont...once i am in love i am in love and i cant be in a relationship without love...but it doesnt has to be same for everyone right?...Priya and Ali's relationship was without love it was just a tag so yeh toh hona hi tha re...and as for smoking and all what diff does it make if they smoke on screen or off screen?...isn't it a lil hypocritical ki we cna accept them smoking off screen but cna't see them doing that on screen?...m toh actually pleased ki they did it openly khule aam bina hesitation aur sharam ke...at least they didn't hide and lie abt it...dekh yahi cheez ager Raj or Yuvi karta we wld be all okay with it but Priya did it so we are unable to accept it coz this is Indian mentality we just can't see a girl openly doing all this but I say why? why? why can we see a guy doing all this and be okay with it and not a girl?...its unfair right... ?...dekh yaar naps life is difficult and sab ke apne apne tareeke hote hai to cope with life. ppl like u and me we need a lil doze of Ay a lil doze of happiness and hope and magic and faith to feel better. some others need a lil smoke a lil alcohol...to each his own re...and all this shouldn't lower them in your eyes as your idol coz hell u idolize them for diff reasons...u idolize them because u feel they r good ppl, honest and sincere and hard working and god believers and dream followers and generous and caring and affectionate and grateful and humble...hai na?...thats the reason u idolize them for?...tell me where did they break any of these qualities by smoking or drinking o wanting to sleep with some one?... they r not lying naps, they r not hiding or faking or cheating or hurting someone or pretending to be someone else and actual main be someone else...they r being who they r they r not hiding any of their flaws or their thoughts good or bad and I think only ONLY ppl who have a clean heart and good intentions can do this, only such ppl cna be their real self so fearlessly...and for that m really really proud of them...
naps...u should come to India and see the children here u wld get scandalized by their mentality the amt of gandagi that resides in their minds wld shock u like hell...its not abt being a celebrity or being someone big naps, gali ka baccha has turned to be like this and the reason is because there r so many restrictions and things r considered, a taboo, a damn big deal...so after seieng all that this is nothing to me coz I know in today's world a person's character can
t be judged by how many glass of wine he drinks, how many cigars he smokes or how many ppl he sleeps with...thats their personal lives, their freaking business, their choice...my basis of judging them wld be how honest they r, how real, how truthful, how sincere, the way they love, how loyal they r...thats my criteria and m sure YaRa wld get a perfect tne on all these factors...in things that really, really matter they will get a perfect ten...and thats all that should matter to us...like Ashi says "perfect hona zaroori nahi hai but real hona bohut imp hai"...I knew YaRa aren't perfect but m glad that they r real
and naps this is not our path in life, not part of our character but its okay if its theirs...what matters is unka vision of life is like ours and by vision I mean following dreams, looking out for love. don't u see how sad and bhatkofied they r?...they r looking for true love naps and its not at all easy to find its so not easy to find but when they do find it that wld be it for them...
I don't know I really, really loved them together, my biggest worry was what if it all comes across as fake but m so freaking glad it didn't, not to me at least, it all felt so real and natural that I was bowled over... don't get too carried awya don't think them as Indian ppl think as if u r watching an American series and YaRa r from that culture and u wld b able to gulp it all down...see naps whats culture to u and me may not be to them and I think thats okay...everyone should have a right to choose the culture they want to adopt and our loved ones should accept us with that same culture even if they themselves don't blv in it...u know?
just forget everything and remember this...all of this every YaRa moment is an answer to our prayers...specially yours...coz amongst all of us I think no one has prayed as hard and hoped as passionately for this moment as u have...so just enjoy it naps relish it without any prejudices...
Edited by FollowYourHeart - 12 years ago