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OMGG teri posts naa!!! BEAUTIFUL JUST BEAUTIFUL IS THE WORD!!!
You know in all these Antara vids and moments, there is always one thing that is common. Ki how such SIMPLE moments, such chote se gestures brings SO much joy!!
You know, Antara's simple pointing to YES Abhi is my bhai, made Abhi smile SO much!! AWWWWWWWWWW
Just shows na ki even if we get ONE TINYYY gesture of love from someone, it brings us SOOO much happiness!!
ONE tiny gesture of tying Abhi a rakhi, admitting ki haan woh mera bhai hai can bring so much happiness!
And you know what I love about how they showed Antara's world in this show was that they showed how she brought so much happiness into their lives!!
You know Smrits, like you said, ki people are always complaining to bhaggu ki why you made our kids handicapped etc. etc. But this show showed a totally different perspective! It was that these kids can bring you SOO much happiness!!
Heck, WHYYY are you complaining!! You've been BLESSED by God to have such a special child like Antara with you. Who can give you so much joy with such simple gestures!!
I mean us so called "normal" people do we have this ability to give this much joy to others??? I mean chotti chottti cheezein we take for granted!!
Like tying rakhi to your brother. We think o ya it's just normal no big deal. Happens every year!
But how they showed Abhi's happiness when Antara ties him a rakhi is just BEAUTIFUL!! I mean such a chotta sa moment which we all take for granted can bring sooo much kushi!!!
And same with that scene where Aditya keeps showing Antara Vidya's picture and asking who's this?? And when Antara keeps on saying it's Vidya, he gets SOOOO happy!!
He gets sooo much happinesss from this SIMPLE chotta sa gesture of Antara ki HAAN Vidya is important in my life, I KNOW who Vidya is, she means so much to me!!
Basically Antara finds new ways to tell people around her that she loves them every single day.
And that is what Dr. Vikram and everyone's goal is...to be able to KNOW what Antara is feeling!! To be able to FEEL what Antara is feeling! To be able to understand her, live in her world!! Because she can't say it out loud, toh it's up to them TO FEEL HER. LOVE her!! Like Vidya says, in that FYH moment, ki I just have to follow my heart and feel Antara and then I will understand her. She doesn't need WORDS. She can feel Antara despite all this, and Antara can feel her!!
If that isn't God's greatest gift then I don't know what is!! If two people can FEEL, connect, understand each other WITHOUT words or expressions or anything like that.
And that's what a family is. Who understands you without you having to say anything!
And that cake wala moment!! Vidya was trying SOO hard na to understand what Antara is feeling so she could help her!! What's bothering her. And then when she just followed her heart and sang happy birthday to her mom she could just feel Antara right there!! She could feel Antara missing her mom!!
OMG I'm SOOO glad you posted that video I had never seen it before!! It's SOOOO beautiful!! How Vidya feels SOOO happy ki she can also now feel what Antara is feeling!! And Antara is happy ki I've found a family who understands me!! Who can feel the same things I'm feeling. Even though I haven't told them, even though I can't communicate my feelings to them they STILL understood me, they still FELT with me what I'm feeling!!!
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww just BEAUTIFUL!!!
Like these simple moments of joy Antara brings to her family!!
Seriously they are blessed that they can share these little moments of joy with their families. WHO cares if Antara can't talk/ react whatever!! WHO CARES!! She can still LIVE!!
She can be happy, she can FEEL, she can LOVE!! She can spread happiness with these small gestures wherever she goes!!
I mean who says ki these kids are paagal!! I mean they're MORE 'normal' than us I would say! They know how to spread joy and love.
And what's awesome about this family is that they face all their problems TOGETHER!!! Every little challenge that comes, they face it together! Even Antara is included!! They all take chotte chotte steps to overcome their challenges every single day! EVery single day they accomplish something!!
SUre maybe they don't do big things like save the world, become heroes, make lot's of money, be famous etc. etc. But they do make a difference every day!! Every day they manage to tell each other in different ways ki they love them. Every day they are there for each other!! Every LITTLE pain, dukh, kushi, FEELING, ANYTHING , they ALLLL feel it together!!!
It's not like ki Antara is missing her mom so she feels it ALONE!! NAHINNN they all feel it together!! If it's one person's problem it's everyone's!!
And if Antara can bring that to her family then this family is BLESSED ki they have Antara jaissi child. God didn't punish them, he BLESSED them!! He gave them sooo much joy when he sent them Antara!!
And remember even when they showed clips of real life autistic kids and their families at the end of each episode? You could see in REAL life too, how happy these families were!! They would have BIG smiles on their faces!! So WHO says ki it's a punishment to have these kids!! It's NOT...it's a blessing, it's joy and that's what this show tried to show!!
This show just changed the whole perspective on handicapped/ diseased kids of people! SUCH a beautiful show!!!
And do you remember that one scene where Antara can't fall asleep so Vidya sits with her outside on a bench??? And Vidya is talking to her ki ONE DAY, ONE DAY I wish ki YOU would be able to talk to me. And you would share everything with me, you would share every little problem, kushi EVERY aspect of your life with me!! She looked up at the sky and prayed ki one day her Antara would be able to share everything about her life with her.
And she is living in this hope every day!! Every day the family overcomes another challenge that brings Antara closer to them. Every day they find a new way to connect to Antara!!
And ONE DAY they would see the day when Antara would be able to share everything she wants to with them!! Right now toh she has trouble sharing with them what she feels!! Toh ONE DAY they are living in the hope that she herself would come to them and share everything!! Be able to cry and laugh with them!!
And it's happening every day! Every day Antara smiles or has halke se tears in her eyes from these moments!! She's learning to share her love, she's learning to share her life with her family every day!!
And you know what makes their life beautiful??? Ki everyday there is HOPE!! They all are living each day HOPING!!
And that's what makes their life beautiful that they have hope! Antara brings them hope!! She's such a blessing yaar!! She brings hope, joy, love....then HOWWWW can you possibly blame God for having a child like her na?
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