Whatever Pri is doing is horrific!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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So sitting and watching all this, I've come to belive that whatever Pri is doing is like deadly horrific. I mean, throwing up to loose weight! 😲 Come on! That's like beyond her thinking now. Is she really thinking about eating all the time and then throwing up just to loose the weight?
I've been meaning to get this out for the longest time, but I guess Pri really upset me today. At the medical check up, afterwards she tells that its all due to her excerising and dieting. 🤔 And then she blackmails her mother into convincing her to not get the rest of the check up.
Come on. Doesn't she get that all her angels are just doing this for her good. They're just keeping up with her just for HER OWN good. Sure they're spying on her, following her and everything..But err, its just for her cause they want the best for her. She really won't be getting anywhere by just eating and then throwing up to loose some weight.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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It really is horrific...she always had these bulimic tendencies...but after Asim left her (for her own good that is)...she seems to be at it totally... ....I too feel for her a lot...
But I guess her behaviour is totally in line with what Bulimic people do...their psychology is distorted in a way that they don't see the actual implications of it and consider everyone who suggests them otherwise to be their enemy 😵...it needs a lot of care, support AND patience from friends and family to get them out of this...and as far as her mom goes...she only cares about her losing weight ...I am too keen to see how they have handled Pri's character from here.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I knowwwwwwwwwwwwww Pri has always been this manic to me......I guess she has never learnt that you have to lose something to gain something 😆 😆 She can't stop eating but she wants a slim and trim figure too .....and not because it will keep her healthy but this way she will look good 🤔

First she went crazy with her obsession with Ranveer....then it was Asim and now she has realised that it's not the guys but her fat that is the prob so now she is after her life ...arghhhh how can anyone be this stupid .....and even after that she thinks the whole world is against her if they ask her to stop with her insane methods.....great just so great ...she doesn't realise that it was her friends only who wanted her to lose weight ...but if she chooses the most insane way of doing it just because she doesn't believe in hard work and long process ....it's not her friends fault .....

and I won't blame Pri for this ...her mother is responsible too .....it was always her mom who kept on insulting her and taunting her ....she always pointed out the problem with Pri and humiliated her ....hurt her but never for once she lovingly tried to be with her daughter and tried solving it .....Pri was completely alone fighting with her problems and getting defeated.....when ur parents don't come to support you in life u often lose the track.....her friends can't do much in ur life cause no matter what even they are of the same age as u are.....Pri jumped too whatever possible and easiest solution she could find.....the girl has very less determination and will power but this was way too stupidddddddd .....never expected such dumbness from a class 11 standard girl....but then the world is filled with characters ...till now I used to find it dumb and stupid of Pri ..but just yesterday faced a similar situation and realised stupid people do exist and that is why they are shown on the celluloid
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*sindhu*~


and I won't blame Pri for this ...her mother is responsible too .....it was always her mom who kept on insulting her and taunting her ....she always pointed out the problem with Pri and humiliated her ....hurt her but never for once she lovingly tried to be with her daughter and tried solving it .....Pri was completely alone fighting with her problems and getting defeated.....when ur parents don't come to support you in life u often lose the track.....her friends can't do much in ur life cause no matter what even they are of the same age as u are.....Pri jumped too whatever possible and easiest solution she could find.....the girl has very less determination and will power but this was way too stupidddddddd .....never expected such dumbness from a class 11 standard girl....but then the world is filled with characters ...till now I used to find it dumb and stupid of Pri ..but just yesterday faced a similar situation and realised stupid people do exist and that is why they are shown on the celluloid

@ bold...exactly..I too wouldn't call it her fault totally...her upbringing and parental influence has a major influence in what she is now...her mother never ever supports her in anything and looks down upon her...I still remember her mother's reaction when she found out about ranny and the way Pri reacted when ranny went for dinner to her house and broke up with her...she was a total wreck .And you are right Sindhu..the girl seriously lacks determination and is filled with insecurities regarding her weight and about her friends and can't seem to trust them completely....(as has always been the case with Tia...it has been Tia's efforts mostly that they are friends till now).This insecurity stems from the fact that her mother was never unconditionally there for her and of course friends have their own boundaries.I have certainly seen people who are far less insecure about their weight issues...Pri could be one of them too if her parents would've made her feel special the way she is.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah Ipsi .....prob with Pri is that she feels hell unwanted everywhere she goes.....starting right from the where her existence started ....Her home ....I remember once her mom said that she feels embarassed to introduce pri to her friends cause of the way she is .....I had tears in my eyes that day ke how can a mother say so .....for a mother no one can be more beautiful than her own child and here Pri gets her first taunt from her own mother for her appearance ......she feels nobody wants her in her house ...

Back at school she is part of the most popular gang of Maurya .....where each and every girl is suppose to be pretty as a flower.....she doesn't fit it ....she feels left out and again unwanted in the group....

Then comes her love life.....she likes a guy but the guy runs away from her....why???again for her appearance ( atleast that is what she thinks ) though thats not the case....Ranveer and Asim both had no probs with it ....they had other issues.....

and she blames only her appearance for all these stuffs as taught by her mother .....she feels lonely cause of these stuffs ....and desperate measures to overcome her problem on her own since she finds no one to guide her through her prob either....

true a person needs proper environment for proper way of thinking ....I bet if Pri's mom was even a bit affectionate to her own daughter Pri would have been leading a much better life ....I
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I so agree with all your points Sindhu....she considers herself a total failure on all the fronts.Since her mother is a definite gone case only 🤔...she needs someone to make her realize that no-one afterall is perfect..and that failure is also a part of life and we have to deal with it instead of punishing ourselves....I gu ess Raghav Sir should meddle with this matter since I can only see him as the sole ray of hope or maybe Ranny since she considers him important to her 😕
How about that cute looking guy...her neighbour...he seemed interested in her ???
Edited by Ipshitaa - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Lolzzzz first of all I never thought that neighbour ka ladka was interested in her....He was more interested in her school 😆

But if he was interested in her .....I have to say Pri is pathetic with her timing.....when she didn't have a guy she used to cry for one....now when she got one she decided to hate the entire male species 🤣 🤣 I mean I have never seen a better timing than this 🤣 I hope she never gets to know that the guy was interested her.....cause if she does ...we will having another round of insanity from her side 😆

I don't think Pri is in a mood to listen to anyone ....not even RD sir neither Ranveer this time....Tia is gonna have a very hard time handling Pri this time..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aaaaaah d whole Pri saga...well i exactly dunno whom to blame for all d mess she is into abhi...partly its her Mom and partly her friends....specially specially Meher...and to a certain extent Tia too...though more often than never Tia has gone out of her way to protect Pri and keep her away from harm's way...but still...somewhere down d line tia aur Meher ka dis constant looking good kinda talks their non stop talks about beauty and its importance has in a way fueled Pri's insecurity to reach dis searing a height...i mean every second she sees her friends raving about how absolutely utmost it is to look perfect...and d worst is dey make it sound as a matter of sheer life or death...like as if life main to get noticed to achieve something substantial first and foremost u need good looks and only then u can think of proceeding ahead...as if looking good and being slim having d right vital stats is d passport to everything every happiness...toh obviously all dis wld deeply impact her psyche and she would end up honing such wierded thoughts....their intentions r defiantly genuine and dey genuinely genuinely want Pri ka good but its just in d way dey make it sound...it gives u that feleing ki for dem its d be it all and end it all in life....which isn't d case i know specially wid Tia..she loves Pri just d way she is and all she wants is for her to be hale and hearty...but somewhere she too has dis thinking installed in her ki looks do matter and u can't blame her for it coz she was born wid a beautyfullll skin..and her love for Pri is selfless no doubt abt it but her way of dealing wid her according to me wasn't apt...i mean insted of feeding dis in her mind ki looks matter and once u r pretty life becomes easier everyone oggles at u u get more cances in love and blah she should have made Pri belive truely truely belive ki she is beautyfulllll just d way she is and reducing weight isn't a dier necessity it won't affect her beauty status it would just make her more healthy more energetic...lekin weight zada ya kam hone se beauty nahi change hoti...kyunki beauty insaan ki soul main lie karti hai not in her waste ka size...Tia should have made her belive ki she needs to reuce weight not for others but for her own self her own good...which i feel she missed out on big time...as i said her intent was genuine but d way to deal wid it was off track..and thats where it all went wrong...coz ager all dis wld have cme from tia na toh it wld surely have made hell of a differance to Pri coz for Pri tia truely was a god sent angellllllllllll...she adored her to bitssssssssss...andmaybe somewhere from widin she hated herself for not beig able to measure upto Tia's standards in looks ka department maybe she might have felt ki she is failing Tia..i mean come onnnnnnnnnnnn...if a person as rockstaringly strong brave and defiantly confident as Ashi could garner insecurites wrt her looks vis a vis her Mom's toh yeh toh pri hai yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar she toh doesn't even has a strong self base to stand tall on...

and i give cent percent se bhi zada marks to Ranveer on dis front..omgggggggggggg...i adore him absolutely adore him for watever he did for Priiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii..right from very beginning he has tried to inculcate a sense of self in herrrrrrrrr..he has tried to make her belive ki she is beautifullllllllllll like hell just d way she is....he even stood against her tacky Mom and shocked d hell out of her by declaring ki he loves Pri..uske mom ke feet ke neeche se toh zameen nikal gayi thi then..her expresison wa sos shocked ki a guy as perfect as Ranveer could love Pri...Ranveer reallly went out of d way to make Pri realize ki love isn't dependent on how a person looks love face se nahi hota us insaan se hota hai uske real dil se hota haiiiiiiii...abhi abhi recently wen Pri was on dis hating men drive then he had come and stuffed some sense in her...i loooved wat he told her then ki kissy aur ko pyaar karnse se pahle khud khud se pyaar kariye...which is so very imp yaar for anyone and everyone u need to absolutelylove and adore urself and above all respect urself accept urself d way u areeeeeeeeeeeee not forcefuully but wholeheartedly...only and only then life ka web wld stop entaggleing and suddenly everything wld feel and appear so simple....why?...coz of one thing self pride....Ranveer was d only one who right till d very end tried to develop self esteem in her...

and as for Meher aah i just don't understand her char at times she is so good at times she is a vixennnnnnnnn...i remeber so so many times wen she has backbited both tia and pri against each other....thats one reason i couldn't ever relate to dese three ka friendship i felt there always lacked a basic sense of trust btw dem...tere was immense love btw tia and pri but pri ki insecurity never allowed her to be totally true and faithful wid Tia..i mean people like Shyla who were do din ka mahmaan types could cme and make Pri pplot things against Tia..though ultimately tia ka love wld always win her back but all dis shows na how deep rooted her insecurites actually were....

and u have to give one hting to her...she really really loved Ranveer from d core of her heart...i guess thats why she got so obsessed i wnt even called obsessed she got way too carried away coz dis was her first rendezvous wid love yaarrrrrrrrrr..before dis she had never ever felt love ka magic wat it is to be beautiful truely beautiful in someone's eyes..for her it was d happyest feeling ever and every time every second the thought killed her ki she might loose it thats y she wanted to cling on to it lunatically...but den wen she realized its not for her Ranveer isn't for her and he actual main loves Tia toh she was one of d strongest proponents of Ranveer and Tia as a couple...ander se she was happy for dem and could have done anything to see dem together...and is shows ki rela main pri is full of warmth and love and would do anything for her friend's ka sake...she basically is a strong person its just that soemtimes coz of her mom ka outright nonsensical crappy behaviour and sometimes coz of Tia n Meher she got over shadowed and coz of it se couldn't bring her own real self out in d open...maybe dis was d reason why she hid behind dis facade of eating and hogging endlessly..maybe it was her way of getting noticed getting d attention of people she loved...dunnoo...but watever it is...i toh can't stop saluting Archna for doing dis role so so convincingly...she so doesn't know she has kinda helped so many other obese girls who too might be suffering from d same insecurities d same hazards...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Smrits I guess I can understand from where you are coming ...given the importance Tia and angels give to beauty...it gives Pri all the more depression to live up to their standards...so yeah somewhere they are wrong too.But for me its understandable since all teenage girls feel that way..all of them, including Ashi want to feel wanted...they all want to look beautiful and the sense of comparison is also very pronounced and thus,the insecurities.I feel if you are brought up well the level of these insecurities is lesser since your parents make you feel that you are loved no matter how you look and whatever may be the opinion of other people about you.Guess its not a fault of Tia or Meher for Pri's current condition, it was just one of their ways to solve her problems cuz they would have done the same if they were in her place ..tried to look more beautiful.

I agree with what you said about Ranny...he has always been to her side.

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