Originally posted by: vinuchand
Aaisha or sweet ashu ? I don't know what I can call you.
But the good old forum of PKCM is definitely missing.
My two tids bits (probably a thesis according to you) on your post.
Don't blame or question Karmaners for it or ask why only KARMAN fans are there but no Sumrans. It is not a KARMAN forum and we never intended it that way. We believe in live and let live.
We KARMANS never ever asked anyone to leave or made personal attacks. SUMRANS take everything personally even where it is not warranted for. We never say anything rude about Shoaib the person. We only speak about Karan the character or his characterisation. But why should people take it personally.
The amount SUMRANS have bashed Karthik with word like calling him characterless, some one had bad intentions towards his brother's wife, some one who is a cheat to just name a few. A few nomenclature for Karthik for KARMANS, giraffes, onion, wood, etc. They even wished his death. We never wished Karan's death and even when Karan came back we wanted that to be justified.
SUMRANS have called us fokats ? we made a big party out of it. That's because we like fun. A SUMRAN fan who is a married woman commented on why KARMAN fans which includes wquite a few married woman like him in the most distatasteful manner. Did we complain. We laughed it off.
We initially ignored it but then when it went out of control we started back. And it was in pure humour. Every analogy or adjective that was heaped on Karthik, we converted it to Karthik's advantage and laughed off. Beacsue we see humour where none exists and you SUMRANS see abuse where none exists.
We did not go crying and complain or report abuse or post msgs saying we insulted some one senior and demand an apology especially where there was no such thing done. Most of the reports and abuse notification has gone from SUMRANS.
I recently saw innocents' post and Kavy's reply if I am not mistaken and it was to the use of the word 'Kameena'. Read the context in which Kavya has used it and take it as a joke. Why is there a need to say don't bash. She was not bashing. It was an analogy given to the cartoon posted by Hamsini.
Personally SUMRANS's moderator on this forum has a personal problem with me. I still don't know what. So I will not take her name. But when RoKA PRAneev posted something on choices for Karan's bride I just replied to her as her language was rude. She went on and on about it. I will bet my wager on this, I know the moderator stopped her. I believe she threatened to go Vijay, the creator of this forum. I got notified on this. Please read what she and I have exchanged and you can figure out if this kinda of an outburst was required!!!!
Just because you are unable to answer us back don't say we made this a KARMAN forum. No way. You answer we will back answer. So be prepared to take it. Just don't take it personally.
None of us know Sumeet and Amrapali personally on KARMAN Side. However, we do know some people know Shoaib. But what can we do about it.
We all believe in fun and fun alone.
You don't believe check out Kavya and hamsini who do nothing but discuss physics and maths, revise their portions and convey the message. I also tell them not to do it. I don't know if they take it personally. But Bids , Rakhie, Kavya and hamsini along with me have a blast out here. Don't even know if we make sense most of the times. But enjoy.
Well with Bids and Rakhie, I have a no holds barred conversation, I call them names, tease them and they do it back. That's because we are friends. What we do here is fun and even my lustings for karthik are nothing but fun and a de-stresser. Just like you guys like Karan we like Karthik.
But yes, we all know the difference between Karthik and Sumeet while most of you equate Shoaib and Karan on the same level.
To us KARMANS this is a serial and we move on. You know what our Karaman villa (I am sure SUMRANS would have sneeked peaked there nevertheless), we discuss about work related problems, fights with hubbies, children's mischief, food, movies, sports ( tennis and foot ball big time) and what not.
And we are the first to criticise Karthik and his acting me included.
I had asked this question which no SUMRAN has every replied to me till date:
1. Would Karthik and Suman have married if they knew Karan was alive?
2. If Karthik did not stand by Suman after Karan's death, where would Suman have been if she only had to hug Karan's photo and cry (let others beat the shit out of her life).
3. I questioned Sumanrans defending Nandini and asked them about it as they wanted justice for her. She was using SUMRAN"S 'KARAN" and at what cost. Feeding him lies. And look what a monster Karan has turned out to be.
4. Karan was declared 'dead'. None of them knew he was only 'absent'
And this point of first love, first husband and others have been beaten to death. Nobody understands or rather don't want to understand and I will not go down that road. Getting fake khap panchayat laws of wife asking to be returned to first husband is hilarious.
Whatever the justification, has Karan ever bothered to question why Karthik and Suman married each other? Did he try to reason why the family stood by them?
Is it fair on some one to send his own brother to jail on a false charge and also plot revenge on the family?
We KARMANS have always said this and continue to say this ? if KARAN had to be brought back, justify his entry. Don't spoil the pleasant memories of Karan which viewers had. Now its become a mockery. And this is what is discussed.
All are welcome and we welcome them. If you don't like what some one says ignore it (like I do most SUMRANS read what we write but ignore it). Period.
At the end of the day, whatever your personal equation with the person playing the character ? don't forget he is only doing a job. Karan and Shoaib are not the same.