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Posted: 11 years ago
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Swathi, lovely post... Paro is truly trying to be sensible in all this mess and I tell you, it is not as easy to do that as they are showing. I think the main reason people find it difficult to understand Paro is because we never get to see her side of pain or thoughts. CV's concentrate on every action of Rudra but fail to do the same with Paro... I agree she is innocent and what you see is what she is..And that Rudra has more layers to him but that doesn't mean CV's expect us to understand Paro without them showing anything from her side. Rudra, his pain, his hurt and Rudra himself are so much projected, that I don't blame if few viewers find it hard to get past his pain and try to understand Paro.

It is the creatives fault that one character is explained very well while the other is left for viewers to understand.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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LMAO could not agree more... people let's try to distinguish between real and reel. Its becoming insanely amusing to read some of the posts that bash the characters as if they are real entities. Let's remember that every word they say was scripted. Most people might act differently in real life but we are watching fiction here.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13
much needed 👏 awesome post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

OTT much? You would think going by some of the reactions tonight that Paro and Rudra actually do exist and their tangible actual lives are being played out for our vicarious viewing pleasure in real time ala Trueman show Kudos to the actors for making it believable but bottom line actors enacting characters subject to a script written by jaded uninspired paid by the word sort of writers and this lot have misogyny written all over Guess the ratings have not spooked them or are they taking us for granted we will watch whatever drivel they try to sell us I think the forum posts speaks for itself when we have more of newspaper website articles and reality show bytes as opposed to analysis and discussions on the story line I remember another time in another forum for a time when a post would hardly stay for 5 minutes before pushed to the second page and it was all not about oh cor blimey actors expressions acting but more about the episode and the story and the excitement over what next and what a rich variety of TM's we had there Here I can count on my fingers and toes and not being insulting Just sad how RR is reduced to this Paro vs Rudra who is superior and if we can lets take swipes at fan bases

Ok for arguments sake Paro should not have brought Mala home so where will Sadia Siddiqui be hanging around till the time Rudra is ok ? she is an actor she is not going to hang around forever TK seems to have made his swan song ergo his getaway dialogues RR is nothing but a set in some downtown Mumbai suburb and there is something called costs and salaries meaning its all about the money honey and how we can cut production costs and RR has always gone through story tracks at break neck speeds like the train in Unstoppable so nothing new in this twist

My POV this track is all about Paro learning to understand him just like the montage indicated she discovered her warrior was human all her preconceived notions of her Rudra now shown false She worshipped him as the infallible idol then now she is learning to love and understand the man with all his flaws and weaknesses and Rudra he has miles to go before he even understands Paros psyche which I guess is the basis for the next track He still has no understanding of her as indicated by the way he has sullenly treated her and asked her to choose my way or the highway For all his declaration of love he still is not able to understand she is selfless in her love He asked a question how could you love some one like me well there was your answer when she also showed her compassion to your ex lover and now your mum Selfish Love vs Selfless love is where we are now headed
Dilsher was the villain so to speak Hmm interesting and I guess his alcoholism had a role just like Rudra's penchant to drink away his pain and sigh this is fiction so I guess him downing 3 bottles in a span of few hours were showcase his pain but real life he would need 12 step program anyway digressing probably an analogy would be made over his drinking and his relation with Paro
Conference calls await me and hope this post remains civil
I know I am always at the wrong side of the stadium but still hold on to my convictions
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Hola S 🤗 So good to be back.. I have been busy with real issues like studies beckoning me so, berang rasiya took a back seat for sometime.. 😆. now that I have caught up on the episodes, I thought I will air my views on the last episode..

You said it my dear.. all the actors are doing full justice to the script.. AS looks a bit tired.. perhaps it is due to the two shows he is tackling...

getting back to the serial, if you see the past episodes Rudra had a track of jumping to conclusions without much proof or analysis.. Paro was the one who came across as calm, collected and even though naive at times even foolish, she believed in goodness.. that is how she was and is.. naturally she will see the world based on her thinking and experience.. she always thought that everyone deserves another chance.. Writers love playing to the female audience.. especially when the bad boy image sells... 😃

So here's my question to you, since when does one have to experience the same tragedy/calamity to feel the pain of the other? both lost their parents at a very early age.. I guess Paro was younger when the incident took place? Being an orphan and being a girl in rural India, living with another family must have had its own challenges.. so aren't the situations the same? The loss of a parent? should the situations/circumstances too be the same to understand the plight of the other? This is like saying one who has not had an abortion is unable to feel the pain of a mother who lost her baby.. I am sure any mother would be able to identify with the pain.. Rudra made a futile effort to say his suffering was more than hers.. he is wallowing in self pity/sympathy.. is this a competition or what? he cannot see the pain of another because he thinks he has suffered more... there is no measure for pain.. it is how one copes with it.. To me Rudra may be physically strong but mentally, Paro is stronger.. Rudra has been shown as the person wallowing in self pity and will continue to do so till he pauses to hear the other person's story..

Taking sides? As Paro aptly put it, it is not about taking any side... it is about viewing the situation objectively... Paro has poor timing.. she should let him wallow and come back to his senses on his own.. foolish Paro why does she try to din sense in a guy who is an inebriated state and that too on a guy has already passed judgement before finding proof.. ? Surely he is a grown up man and knows when to eat.. she does not have to run after him with food.. if he can find his alcohol so can he find his food 😃 There is too much mollycoddling of the so called bad boy in serials.. 😆

It is too early to say why Mala left.. was it an abusive spouse which made her leave her family? Not much is known... so we shall wait till the plot unfolds..

I am not sure why all the heroes of the serials need a woman to heal them.. they blame it on women when things go wrong but cannot live without them... when Rudra was young he was a momma's boy.. when she left she clung onto Laila.. then he stumbled upon Paro and clung on to her.. so he knows he needs a woman in his life to fill the void yet, manages to mouth that beautiful women are never to be trusted all the while falling for beautiful women.. 😃



Edited by LadyLaLa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think not agreeing with Paro's actions means that we are "bashing Paro". I don't agree with what paro is doing. But I love Sanaya. I love her acting, her persona from all the interviews I see.
But I still disagree with what her character is doing... Please, this is a forum to discuss the characters and our opinions of them. It shouldn't be characterized as bashing...
There are many Paro scenes which I love as well...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hope

Swathi, lovely post... Paro is truly trying to be sensible in all this mess and I tell you, it is not as easy to do that as they are showing. I think the main reason people find it difficult to understand Paro is because we never get to see her side of pain or thoughts. CV's concentrate on every action of Rudra but fail to do the same with Paro... I agree she is innocent and what you see is what she is..And that Rudra has more layers to him but that doesn't mean CV's expect us to understand Paro without them showing anything from her side. Rudra, his pain, his hurt and Rudra himself are so much projected, that I don't blame if few viewers find it hard to get past his pain and try to understand Paro.

It is the creatives fault that one character is explained very well while the other is left for viewers to understand.


Totally agree with u

they need to more focus on Paro's character
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guinea

Swathi , today is paro bashing day and you made a post ...a wonderful one at that👏👏



🤔 emm.. excuse me .. but when is it not Paro bashing day... I didnt know that there can be a dont bash Paro day
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Posted: 11 years ago
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S🤗
How did I missed this???
Totally agree with your post hun, problem is it has become oh poor Rudra, sad Rudra, his mommy left him and what not so everyone is pitying him to think straight that's my way of thinking.
I totally get it that mom left,but oh for crying out loud lets look the things from situational POV. I kind of thought that him being a BSD officer and all and forget the mom angle he has someone whom he to help as his duty or atleast send her to the right people he just tells her to go? talk about character assassination there. If the cops wont help when help is needed who is going to help then? he could have send Aman to sort her but instead he says you go????facepalm😕
Another thing the whole oh Paro you shouldn't have done this...why not? technically my thinking is if you look she is completely in her character, she has never had bad experience with Mala and yes I am not making mala a saint here but she is his mother...he is refusing to acknowledge it fair enough but that doesn't change the fact. And its the writers who are doing this anyway so I am sure in few days the whole suspense will be out and something new to look at.
As always darling love to read your posts...and talk soon...check your PM
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa



Hola S 🤗 So good to be back.. I have been busy with real issues like studies beckoning me so, berang rasiya took a back seat for sometime.. 😆. now that I have caught up on the episodes, I thought I will air my views on the last episode..

My soul sistah bang on as usual...berang rasiya you said it babe😆 all the lead has done since last week is getting drunk and driving...that scares me honestly that are they really promoting drinking and driving? or someone is driving him whilst he is drunk and then went to rant at mommy?

You said it my dear.. all the actors are doing full justice to the script.. AS looks a bit tired.. perhaps it is due to the two shows he is tackling...
Is that the dance show? haven't watched it I prefer my dancing with the starts...lol heard one of the contestant from that show is going to judge?

getting back to the serial, if you see the past episodes Rudra had a track of jumping to conclusions without much proof or analysis.. Paro was the one who came across as calm, collected and even though naive at times even foolish, she believed in goodness.. that is how she was and is.. naturally she will see the world based on her thinking and experience.. she always thought that everyone deserves another chance.. Writers love playing to the female audience.. especially when the bad boy image sells... 😃
Agree, what bothers me is Rudra is a BSD officer who has taken a vow to uphold the law and help those in need. My thinking is forget the mom angle as an officer you cannot just tell someone to go, if you don't want to see her get your other officers to help her but you have to help her..thats you duty..also I don't get the whole oh why Paro is doing this? she always has so there is nothing new...he obviously is a person with dee dark issues and honestly it needs to be resolved for his own benefit...bad boy? isn't he a man???lol oh well boy works too😉

So here's my question to you, since when does one have to experience the same tragedy/calamity to feel the pain of the other? both lost their parents at a very early age.. I guess Paro was younger when the incident took place? Being an orphan and being a girl in rural India, living with another family must have had its own challenges.. so aren't the situations the same? The loss of a parent? should the situations/circumstances too be the same to understand the plight of the other? This is like saying one who has not had an abortion is unable to feel the pain of a mother who lost her baby.. I am sure any mother would be able to identify with the pain.. Rudra made a futile effort to say his suffering was more than hers.. he is wallowing in self pity/sympathy.. is this a competition or what? he cannot see the pain of another because he thinks he has suffered more... there is no measure for pain.. it is how one copes with it.. To me Rudra may be physically strong but mentally, Paro is stronger.. Rudra has been shown as the person wallowing in self pity and will continue to do so till he pauses to hear the other person's story..
Empathy is unheard of yeah hun? I agree with every single word you said it here...Rudra lost it for me when he got drunk and drove...that is sending such a bad message...thank goodness this is a show is all I will say

Taking sides? As Paro aptly put it, it is not about taking any side... it is about viewing the situation objectively... Paro has poor timing.. she should let him wallow and come back to his senses on his own.. foolish Paro why does she try to din sense in a guy who is an inebriated state and that too on a guy has already passed judgement before finding proof.. ? Surely he is a grown up man and knows when to eat.. she does not have to run after him with food.. if he can find his alcohol so can he find his food 😃 There is too much mollycoddling of the so called bad boy in serials.. 😆
I think we should bring Laila back and let her do what she did...which is what everyone wants Paro to do...then lets see what happens? atleast now he has changed somewhat to be considered decent...before he was the same angry guy who used to growl and everything...I didn't get the food bit either I thought great let him have a horrible hangover in the morning and don't give him breakfast...but then you can imagine the 1000 and more Paro is so bad posts..lol I think the mommy issues are getting old now...oh gosh you would think the world came to kill him after his mom left...yeah I get it the pain I totally do but he has done well for himself and he should atleast think rationally not take a bottle and proceed to get drunk ...

It is too early to say why Mala left.. was it an abusive spouse which made her leave her family? Not much is known... so we shall wait till the plot unfolds..
I personally think everyone has right to be happy. If she fell out of love she did the right thing by leaving...who wants to be in a loveless marriage...that's my thinking. To leave a child there has to be a very good explanation, I am reserving my judgement on her as well. If she didn't love the dad then she was correct in leaving. why should a female has to live with someone whom she is not in love with anymore?but that's knowing she loved him to begin with so I will wait on that one

I am not sure why all the heroes of the serials need a woman to heal them.. they blame it on women when things go wrong but cannot live without them... when Rudra was young he was a momma's boy.. when she left she clung onto Laila.. then he stumbled upon Paro and clung on to her.. so he knows he needs a woman in his life to fill the void yet, manages to mouth that beautiful women are never to be trusted all the while falling for beautiful women.. 😃
100% correct👏 I think Rudra needs to live without women for a while. And technically apart from his mother everyone else he knows are all loyal and trustworthy. Mohini bad as she is she is with her hubby, the SIL is too, so was Paro and lets face it Laila did gave her 8 years to a man who just wanted to get laid...fair enough it worked for her but then he dumped her too without a proper explanation. Rudra needs to learn that the problem is him not the female. 😃

Lovely post as usual darling, missed reading your views

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello Swathi,
How are you doing ?
Nice post and its been a very long time for me going through your post.I missed you and others for more than a yr by now.
EDIT: It was nice to read few wonderful views from others in your thread.😊
Edited by Ash_Rajendra8 - 11 years ago

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