Paro 2.0: New and Empowered

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Although today's central characters were Rudra and his Maa-sa, the surprise package was the new and empowered Paro. She is no longer the gullible little village girl whom anyone could cheat. Rudra had told her a few days back both the truths- about his maasa and about Laila. And she has put this knowledge, the advance warning to good use in dealing will all the affected parties, emerging as close to a perfect diplomat as she possibly can.

1. Rudra-
The entirely unexpected arrival of his maasa has shocked and stunned him and he displays the usual fright and flight response. At that moment, Paro runs behind him because that's where her first loyalties lie. Rudra has managed to erect a barrier around himself to protect his feeling. But when Paro asks him, "Why dont you ask all those questions to your mother?" she manages to reach through that barrier to him. Rudra himself has confessed he's been running all his life- running away from problems and drowning them alcohol or mindless sex. By instigating a confrontation, Paro shows she is coming to understand her husband, her love. Yes, she lets him drive off alone. But she has got her point through before she did that and now he needs time to assimilate this, time alone. And he does just that, in his own way, however painful, he confronts his mother. And that's what Paro achieved there.

2.Maa-sa-
The 15yrs she spent away from Rudra, most of those she has spent being a mother figure to Paro. So Paro's response is instinctive- she hugs her. She bandages her and ensures her safety - by placing her in the BSD hospital. That is quite a development from the Paro who has welcomed Laila with a red carpet into her home. Ultimately Paro knows that if Rudra has to heal, he needs an explanation,a closure with his mother. So she gives her beloved Thakurainsa the comfort that she can by telling her she is married to her son, she will be there for him. And she tells her to give him time. And gives her the time that she too needs to recover from the rejection (well deserved, may be, yet) she just received from her son.

3. Laila-
Now this was cherry on the cake. The Paro talking to Laila today knows her place in Rudra's life and that's what distinguishes her from the Paro who made the mistake of welcoming Laila into her house. She puts Laila into her place- an unwelcome outsider. She knows the true face of Laila and has no hesitation to tell her off. My husband is hurting and he needs me. Problems in the family will be dealt by the family. Thanks for all the help, but your part ends here. No amount of screaming from Rudra would achieve what the calmly delivered words from Paro did. She ensures Laila is not around to poison the situation that is already in a sad state. Well done Paro.

It was this scene which answers why she did not go with Rudra when he asks her. He is running away and is justified in doing that too,considering the blow he has received. But someone has to clean up the mess, clean the wound, soothe the hurt and make sure all heals. Paro ensures this and will continue the same till the whole issue is resolved.

I confess I doubted Paro. Wondered how she will deal with this catch 22 situation where anything she says or does will be interpreted wrongly. Frankly I did not have much hopes either and came prepared to see some Paro bashing. But this Paro has left me surprised with her perfect control over the situation,her courage in dealing with it all. This is the character development that should happen. She learns from the past mistakes, adapts to the situation and despite her inexperience takes charge when its needed of her. Well done CVs.👏

The post would be incomplete without saying what a brilliant performance all the actors delivered today- Ashish, Sanaya and Sadiya... 👏

EDIT: (Thanks JJKKL)

4. Dilsher- Paro did not have the opportunity to really help him but her mere presence is a great deal for him. He fears for his son, how he will deal with this development, how he will lash out and he is held down but that how much ever he wishes he is not the person to deal with it. Here, the fact that Paro is with his son is a great consolation for this man, who has his own demons. And his implicit trust in Paro, when he urges her to stay with him just shows that.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today paro baisa rocked it...loved her calm way if handling all the issues.
Paro - laila was d best scene of d episode.
Loved ur post.
Hope cvs maintain this.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely analysis of Paro's character. She was indeed the rock wall with all her wits in the right place, I just hope that she stays like this and helps Rudra with this mess.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post ..
Paro has shown amazing level of maturity ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Absolutely perfect and exactly my thoughts on paro today..she was bang on. Yesterday's dialogue of rudra talking about running was used so well today..she had to tell him, don't run face it. When he questioned her u want to come with me or stay here,.she said again don't run major Saab, and he looked at her as if he knew what she was saying was right...n she gave him his space to calm down. And he did listen n come back to face mals...he had too..she understands him so well and he does the same about paro.
Her reaction to mals was perfect too..she was her mother figure for 15years, when she gave Laila a second chance who tried hurting her at haldi time,,why not mals, who was her mother for 15yrs..

She was super bang on with Laila..showed her the right place..which is out.

Loved cvs today yaar..brilliant acting by Ashish, Sanaya and saadiya siddique.

Thank u so much for such a beautiful post yaar..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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lovely Post and i totally agree with you

loved the way Paro handled all 3 with Maturity

She neither abandoned her mom like figure nor her husband but showed each one of them the right direction

This is the Paro i wanted to see⭐️

As Sanaya said Paro will grow strong with time and i am loving it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That is a very good take. Maybe this is the version of Durga. Though Paro being Paro they cannot show her Roudra Form. You forgot to add that after telling off Laila Paro went back to Rudra. Was there with Dilsher, Rudra and Danveer.. And then on DIlsher's insistence followed Rudra back to the hospital. Good decision Paro. Hope she stays this way.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with you totally.. Today I loved paro. I liked how she dealt with the situtation by doing justice to both the wife and daughter in her...👏
But I have only one request to the CVs- please please do not make paro bring mala back into the house. i hope mohini or dhanveer or somebody else brings her if they want to do it... but not paro... it is one thing to help Mala get back to her feet after her injuries and help Rudra face his demons and not run away from it (which i agree fully) its totally another thing to bring her back into their lives, make him forgive her and accept her back in their lives. especially since dilsher is still alive! his feeling too should be considered..I hope they will show Paro asking mala why choose to ran away and try to understand the situations and then go for the "forgive and forget" track. I don't like how she has been justifying mala blindly without knowing the full story... In my humble opinion, that is like belittling her husband's hurt and pain...

I hope in the race for TRPs they don't make paro a perfect bheedni material and do all that non sense...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I totally agree. You've explained everything really well.
Paro is protecting her marriage and family by keeping away Laila.
She is being a daughter and daughter-in-law for Mala because she can't ignore all the love she has received over the past 15yrs.
For Rudra, Paro knows that whatever he says, he still cares for his mother. She knows he needs to face his past so she's asking him to do that-with her support. But she never asked him to forgive or love Mala, just to question her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Ms.Foxy.Angel_

Today paro baisa rocked it...loved her calm way if handling all the issues.
Paro - laila was d best scene of d episode.
Loved ur post.
Hope cvs maintain this.


Here was some meaningful mythological symbolism. While Rudra is the raging avatar of Shiva, Parvati is the strong yet calm one. She did what was needed and kept her cool.

😆Paro- Laila scene was one I wanted to get up and cheer!!

Yeah, I hope they dont go butcher her in the very next episode, at least let us enjoy this for a bit.. I love this version of Paro.

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