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Posted: 11 years ago
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Whenever she was shown to be eager to meet a Rudra it was without any thought of his pain
She never gave him any thought in the real sense
This aspect beats me completely, how can they justify and redeem her in the story

Whatever might have been her equation with Dilsher she comes across as totally flimsy till now
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with everything you said. I can't understand what she expected him to do, did she think that he would welcome her by showering flowers. she is truly delusional. she left him so many years and all she can say is that she tried to take him away with her. she single handedly destroyed his life and now wants him back because her current husband turned up to be a traitor.😡

all I want to ask is whether she would have returned if thakur was a good man. she was living her life in bliss with him and did not even bother to visit her son till now. that explains how much she actually loves her son. a woman who felt guity and sad leaving her son would have tried harder to meet her son instead of enjoying life as thakurain when her son was struggling to survive without her.

just feel so much hatred towards her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That shayed irritated me a lot too, I agree with you that we should not be judgmental but yaar hadd hai, there was no remorse, she was in her la la land expecting a mother son happy reunion. She has no idea that her son's fifty shades are because she left him, I know I should not be jumping to conclusions without hearing her side but damn I am so angry!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

My thoughts exactly...Mala's regret seems to be more about not managing to take Rudra along with her on the way to abandoning her husband, her life, everything...my other question as I just said in my thread too...the fact that she was seperating a FATHER and SON too didn't factor in her mind for even a second?

Very unique breed of mother and woman, this.

Actually all the women concerned right now are moving remarkably fast in white-washing Mala's sins in this matter.

I wonder if the storyline will address this or just paint Mala as a shallow caricature and Rudra will be made to randomly forgive her at some point despite all his pain.

I think that's where we are headed, every one and any one pressurizing Rudra to forgive Mala...his so called mother. And Paro of course will lead the... forgive her coz she is your mother and everyone makes mistakes...crusade!! Seriously???
And one fine day, he will bend and break...and yay..we have another twist in the tale.
What utter sheer crap!! What kind of a mother is she...forget that..what kind of woman, a human is she?? I have to agree with Mohini for now...Mala is self centered...nothing comes before herself...no hubby...no son..no one!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shirinfarhaad

That shayed irritated me a lot too, I agree with you that we should not be judgmental but yaar hadd hai, there was no remorse, she was in her la la land expecting a mother son happy reunion. She has no idea that her son's fifty shades are because she left him, I know I should not be jumping to conclusions without hearing her side but damn I am so angry!!!

Same here...I had promised myself that will keep an open mind...will try and understand her situation, the circumstances that led her to take such a drastic step...but her words and thoughts don't deserve a second chance!! How insensitive can a mother be??
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am completely in agreement with your sentiments. Too much for me to handle... the thot of leaving a child behind is too cruel in itself... she does not deserve maafi. But I didn't see her asking for it ... it is just a realization that she has to come back to her son because Tejawat is a bad guy now.
Im too sad and pained at the moment ...
just cant relate to her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

Completely totally agree with you!!

Irrespective of why she left...maybe there was a valid reason...I cannot fathom how she could say maybe she wronged her son...that rankles!! Just as it did when she was living in la la land and sayng she would bring him to live with her during the wedding track!! That's plain insensitive!

I don't agree with the statement that he should get over tbe past...and I would have liked if Paro had stayed with him when he asked if she was going with him or staying back! She has seen his pain for his mother...and further she knows that Mala was happy with Tejawat and has only come now knowing js true face!! So the statement that as hs mother she has returned doesn't cut ice!

I hope Rudra does get support from Paro and unconditional at that..but don't think it will happen!

I, actually many of us were ready to give her a benefit of doubt. But today's encounter and her reactions only reinforce the bitterness...the fact that she does not deserve a second chance.
She simply ignored the ugly side of her actions, just pretended that that all was fine in paradise. Just imagine ..you abandon your child and husband, then settle down with another man, after years when your son marries, you think you can bring him and his wife along to stay with you?? What kind of woman even thinks that way??
And the least said about Paro's reaction, the better!! This mahaanta...coming from any quarter doesn't sit nicely with me...I am human with all the weaknesses and so is Rudra...and she needs to be more humane, at least with her hubby.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nancynair

Whenever she was shown to be eager to meet a Rudra it was without any thought of his pain

She never gave him any thought in the real sense
This aspect beats me completely, how can they justify and redeem her in the story

Whatever might have been her equation with Dilsher she comes across as totally flimsy till now

Agreed...the damage is done...redeeming Mala now..is going to a herculean task now. She will not win respect and sympathy easy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Has that woman been hit on the head ?

Is she still lamentinhg the loss of the handsome and rich hubby who turned out to be nothing less than a dacoit ?

She still doesn't have it together !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post... You have said it all... Also, she seems not bothered about her husband, the father of her son... She did abandon him, and as it seems till now, she has committed adultery... Being a woman I too understand that she too deserved love, happiness and all... But wasn't a divorce and a proper closure to a relationship nice rather than, one fine day running away from it? ..

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