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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika


Thank you and can i say i love how you noticed Rudra's desperate speech to Paro that she should not give her strings in Laila's hands. So true. Rudra even tried to knock sense into Paro that what heart is she scared about ? He never had a heart so what did he give to Laila?

Thank you. When Rudra said Raja can get his heart from Pari.. For as ssecond I wondered what heart was he talking about when he always said he doesn't have a heart. Today he cleared it and I am happy he did. Because Rudra I know has his heart locked in a dark dungeon and forgot the way to it. Paro needed that to hear that.

I mean, Rudra was the HERO of the day and he was totally awesome with and for Paro... but finally, his fear won once again and did not let him tell the truth of his feelings to Paro.

Ya. Unfortunately, now again Paro is right back where she started. Rudra just give her a tight hug, she so desperately needs it.

Paro is totally at sea and Rudra is giving her a boat, but holding the sail to himself. 😆

Hahaha, very nicely put. Perfect.





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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: -Nuzrath-

laila and paro friendship track ?😕
making paro weak and easy to exploit her why?👎🏼
rudra just need to slap paro tell her wake up form her stupid dreams 👍🏼
the big twist is going be laila marrying sumer or laila killing paro?🥱
anyway ankita going to stay till the end i think 😳


Thank you.😳...Paro has shown herself as white. So, just because her husband has a past with Laila , how can Paro go all ninja on her when she herself has given her shelter? For Paro, Laila is a spurned lover and if you think that way, Paro will appear petty and small-minded if she judges Laila only because Rudra has a past with her. Paro has a big heart and showing her petty and bitter is what character assassination would be.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: sweet_gargi

U want to tweet slaps?? Well m even tired of trying to hit her on my TV screen. Now I want to shake Paro n tell her that plz wake up from ur coma n cone back to ur ma parvati mode who only believed rudra to b bholenath n her to b parvati...ohh god whenever laila speaks to Paro n taunts I feel like giving my voice-over for Paro...in that daal scene I felt like saying in d similar tone of lailavwhen she says Rudra to khana adha chor deta hai..

" nahi laila baisa. Apko kyu lagta hai ki ap major Saab ko it a jaanti hai. Jab mei daal banati hu won pura khatam karte hai...ye dekhiye pura kha gaye..agli baar apni 8 sail ki ehsaas batane se pehle yaad kar lijiyega ki ap mehman hai jisse major Saab rakhna nahi chahte..kahi me I thak gayi apki 8 saal ke bare mei sun sunke toh kaun apko us haveli mei roke ga."


Thank you.😃 You know Paro. She trusted Teju till he almost took her life. Paro is giving Laila the same benefit of doubt and maybe she will regret it. But here, its more about what is between and is the reality of hubby-wifey relationship between Rudra and Paro. She did say that once and if she comes to know what Rudra feels for Paro, Laila's existence in the haweli will be immaterial.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: tvbuf

Love your posts Vicky baisa.


Will add more after work 😛



Thank you. 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Watching this episode reminded of an older dialogue of Rudra to Paro 'Tune kabhi mere bhaath na teekh se suni nah teekh se samjhi, tum aurat kis mitti se banni ho'. Hmmm then I went in solemn thinking about all that has happened between Rudra and Paro since the start and there is a pattern. Every time there is a crisis in this relationship which involves Paro's trust or when she is required to just listen to Rudra she has faltered, whether it was Tejawat, or just how their marriage happened or now Laila. It is always one reason or another with her first it was that he was jallad, then it was that he had no belief and she knew better, now she is drowning in self pity. I am not saying this because I blame Paro and think Rudra is the mahaan one. What I am trying to say is despite the fact that they are good communicators, they still have long ways to go in becoming an ideal couple. This is good a love story should be journey and it will have many love points.
Paro will always have excuses to come up with to not listen to Rudra. But what if just once she tried reverse psychology. Maybe what Rudra really wants to hear from Paro is that she trusts him. More than what Paro needs to hear from Rudra, Rudra needs to hear from Paro that he has the rights to make a call in their relationship and it is not she that is always going to dictate the terms. How will Rudra ever believe in Paro, in this marriage, in himself if Paro weakens him and he associates that weakness to a loss of his self, maybe Rudra needs to believe it is OK to love because I have some control over my actions and emotions and I can be strong. Rudra doesn't want to be in the mercy of another woman again, someone calling the shots and he is left pleading and begging.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: princessunara

oh lovely post!!!
this is exactly what struck me also today! he loves her! aww his words in the beginning melted me! sigh. if only he didn't say those words that brought everything back to square one? sigh..


Thanks Sunaara. Rudra abb chaahe hanse ya roye ya chillaaye, jhakk maarke ussko maanna hi padega that he is crazy about his Paro and loves her. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vicky, your post is a safe haven for RR lovers, who watch the show for entertainment, not to challenge the CVs every step of the way.
Loved PaRud today.
Both are right where they are, but Laila needs to go, or Ankita needs to go or both need to go.
If CVs want Laila to stay on, Paro will not allow Laila exit , Rudra will not tell Paro that laila manipulated the doll show Laila will stay and the forum will erupt😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: prettypri

Vicky...😳..

If that was indeed the takeaway for Paro then I am sad!

I loved the vapasi of the aggressive and assertive Rudra...he found his voice and told her that the pari cannot have the kings heart as the king didn't have one when the Pari was in his life..he also said the queen should understand that the king told her everything about the pari himself as he has moved on and there is no basis for the queen to feel threatened! And he also said the queen cannot go! That was clear to me...but I got it...not to Paro!

The thing is...now is she upset that Laila could still be in his heart or that she doesn't know what he feels for her??

If it's the former why is she bonding with Laila big time?? I mean, at the dinner table what Laila did showed her intentions clearly...after having told Paro she is over Rudra why would she be rubbing her knowledge of his habits in Paros face if she was indeed a well wisher??
On the other hand I wonder if it was poor acting from Laila that meant I understood it as an act whereas to Paro it looked like genuinely innocent banter😆.

Oh and if Paro is actually still upset and unclear totally about what she means to major I don't get what would convince her...he didn't say there is nothing between the two of them...he said as I understood...tere mere beech kuch ho na ho she has to leave...so put his actions acknowledging her I.e Paro as his wife and hs actions showing his love together with his words about Laila and you have a crystal clear picture of what Rudra is trying to say!!

I don't know how him saying he loves her in so many words will make it clearer..!

I hope this Rudra stays and really hope Paro doesn't fulfil Laila's desire by making sure she stays...I know Laila is needed for the story but hope she stays because of someone else this time!


Thanks Pri. 😳Yahee toh saari baat hai - "Kucch ho ya na ho"... and that is the same as saying - i don't know how i feel about you - lets sleep over it and we will think about it tomorrow. Paro's problem is the emotional insecurity and the post-trauma of the revelation. Her issue is that Rudra is not saying where she stands in his heart and life. For Paro, Laila is a problem but secondary. With what weaponry will Paro fight Laila if Paro has no emotional conviction inside that she is Rudra's wife in the true sense and she has every right to fight for him.

The debate between words and actions is never ending, Pri. What we can take away from that is that everyone functions differently and maybe everyone's emotional needs are different and need to be handled rather differently.

Dekhaa jaaye toh baat nazariye ki hai. 😆
Edited by MoronsKiMallika - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: Cara86


And in turn let us know too as this constant overdose of Laila has left me a bit traumatised and vulnerable too 😭

But as you said Vicky, its best for my heart & mind to leave the story in the CVs capable hands... hopefully this is the darkest hour just before the dawn 😳


Thank you and oh my baby! 🤗...Its a soap, so ups and downs , sadness and happiness will always be in permutations and combinations. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Vicky awesome as always,

And yeah a "Humare beech kuch ho yaah naa ho" goes beyond just puppet show and ILUs.

Radz too has done such a beautiful write up here...so won't add much.

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Thanks DD😳 and i think Rudra needs a remedy for his verbal diarrhea or else Paro will definitely go crazy. Radzie is my flawless butterfly. 😆

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