I loved Paro's POV today (y) - Page 5

Originally posted by: DoJin

😆 I did read that. I thought it was posted late friday night after the epi.
Regarding paro's belief in the divine, I think she's not forgotten it but is just shaken by Majors 8 yr wala truth to put doubts in her head. Agreed, She can't hold on to major saab if he wants to be with someone else. Hence the question what am I to you.

Originally posted by: Barunsanaya1

ya her pov is good but when she has decided to leave whats the need for thinking so much

Originally posted by: jyoti06

U do hv a point but see its human to hv these doubts .. earlier she wanted to leave mayb with a hope that Rudra will stop her but now she dont hv that hope or hv some doubts about it and thats why she wants Rudra to b clear about their relation status ..

Originally posted by: BHAVII

You said it all Jyoti🤗

Today it was day of Paro. She was just brilliant and so was Sanaya👏 👏 .

She had just simple questions and they were so apt. No OTT no bashing, no crying, Just straight to the point questions that made Rudra speechless😆.

agree fully .. I loved the way she is looking into the whole thing practically and not emotionally ... she is not so weak like Laila thought and I loved it 😃

For any woman this is so much required. Her talk with Maithili was so apt.

yess .. she was so clear about the whole thing ... everyone can hv a past .. in past she too had feelings for her ex-husband till she knew the truth ... same way Rudra was involved with Laila too ... what matters for her is present where she made it clear that Rudra is her life but he is yet to make it clear to her and thats what is bothering her and not exactly his past ...

I loved Rudra today when he said - I care for your khushi, I can not see your puppy face and can not see big tears in your eyes. He too was so straight to the point. Seedhi baat no bakwaas😃. For the person like Rudra its more than confession for him😛 He thinks that Paro will understand his care and love when he himself does not understand it😕

but still Rudra need to b more clear about his relation status with her .. why does he care for her .. why cant he see her in pain ... thats the reply Paro is looking for .. a specific word .. and Rudra need to use that specific word or the sentence here for give her the assurance 😉😳

Today with no Mohini life was so better😆 and the dream was😲 😲 😡.


yeah scary dream but thank god its a dream .. phewww 😆 ... and yup mohini free epi 😃

Maithili was as always using her brain👍🏼

agree 😃

PS - could not update my response as saw the epi just today😳

no prob 🤗

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Yes I support Paro and her POV today 👍🏼

Kicking out Laila from the house is very easy but will that solve the problem .. Will that give peace to Paro ?? ... Nope ... She will always hv that doubt in her mind about what if Rudra too had any feelings for Laila ... isn't it 🤔

Paro wants to keep Laila in the house because she wants to see if Rudra feels affected with her presense or not ... If she sees Rudra is indifferent towards Laila , she will automatically get her answer but the fact that Rudra does feel affected with Laila's presense is further giving her doubts because a man feels affected only when he carries some emotions for that person

In this case we know Rudra has nothing for Laila and he feels affected because he cant see Paro in pain with Laila's presense which he even tells her privately in room which was a wonderful scene 😳😳 But Paro need to b fully convinced on this which is only possible if Rudra gives her that assurance with his actions and not just words

So far Rudra never comitted to her in a husband-wife relationship nor he told her if he loves her or not .. He just said he cant see her in pain but that is not the kind of commitment Paro wants ... Paro wants a lifetime commitment of love and marriage which Rudra need to assure her or else she will forever hv her doubts and reservations on his relation with Laila

Thats why Paro wants Rudra to commit to this relationship of love and marriage with her right in presense of Laila because that will automatically make sure Laila leaves on her own which I thought is a smart move from Paro since that will keep no doubts in her mind as well as Laila will b forced to accept defeat on her own too if Rudra confesses his love to Paro right in front of Laila ... isn't it 😉😳 .. So this is what Paro wants and I m totally with her on this 👍🏼

Today if Paro throws Laila out of the house , will that make Rudra confess his feelings for Paro or will that clear Paro's doubts surrounding Rudra and Laila relationship ... These doubts can clear only if Rudra confesses his love to Paro and that too in Laila's presense which is what Paro wants now and I feel this is a right and bold move by her 👏👏👏


Paro is no mood of sacrifice here but at the same time she dont want to force herself on Rudra either if he loves someone else and thats why Rudra's confession matters to her more than Laila's presense or absense in that house 👍🏼

Paro is holding no grudge against Rudra here about his past because like she told Maithili , its his past when she was not part of his life but she wants to know who holds a place in his heart in present which only Rudra can tell and this is where she wants him to tell it right in front of her and Laila both so that there r no confusions or misunderstandings involved 👍🏼


Like I said in my previous post .. this is Rudra's Agni-Pareeksha .. He need to make it clear about what his heart wants right in front of Paro and Laila both ... Laila will automatically vanish in thin air then 😃

Superb post Jyoti, this was exactly the question on my mind also!

Originally posted by: Barunsanaya1

but after rudra's confession she leaves it will be a heartbreak for him as well as her... if he stops her from leaving its well and good

Originally posted by: skanda12

Superb post Jyoti, this was exactly the question on my mind also!👏

See Jyoti, I have one extra argument to add to your points. This Paro must be in a real quandary as to whether Rudra is in love - or likes Laila - or not because Rudra has shown such ambivalence even in the case of Paro herself.

Exactly ... 8 yrs is a huge time span and so its natural for her to doubt if there was any emotional attachment at all from his side 🤔

He is always acting even with Paro as if he doesn't care about her ... but his actions speak exactly the opposite language. So isn't it natural for Paro to think "He says one thing but does another even with me. So how can I trust his words even if he says he doesn't care for Laila, when he may be actually meaning the opposite?"

yess ... he keeps saying Paro is noone to her but he cares for her .. same applies for Laila too .. his words r always different than his actions and this is where Paro wants to keep Laila in the house to chk on his actions than words .. thats a very good point actually 👍🏼

But one part of this whole story is one that I am not liking (as a viewer). There are a set of chain-reactions that Paro is taking which I don't quite like:

- She is first having doubts on whether Rudra means what he says when he says he has no feelings for Laila.

- Therefore she seems bent on allowing Laila to stay on in the house in order to give the Laila-Rudra relationship a chance.

- And just in case there is a relationship potential between Rudra and Laila, she is mentally ready to yield Rudra to Laila, (which will also fit in with this Shivji ka prarthana that she will give up Rudra.)

If paro is just asking Rudra if he loves laila just to know the real truth that is one thing. But if paro is asking this so that she can do maha tyaag and fulfil the Shivji ka prarathana that will get my goat!

Mansi we got to wait and watch for it .. I think right now from her end its just about knowing what is Rudra's liking and based on that she will decide .. I doubt she wants to sacrifice because if sacrifice was on her mind then she would not b waiting for Rudra's confession or his wish ... she will then as it is want to unite both in the name of sacrifice .. so I feel here she wants to know what his heart wants and then take a decision on whether to leave or not ... 🤔

I feel, if this whole attitude of Paro is shaping towards how fast she can fulfil this Shivji ka prarthana, then she will be in a hurry to get an immediate "Yes" from Rudra's mouth when she asks about his love for Laila. While one part of paro may be disappointed if Rudra has feelings for laila, I feel that the other part of her will actually be stronger where she thinks she can give a big tyaag for the Shivji ka prarathana sake.

hmmm u hv a point here .. I dunno how CVs r gonna merge both ends .. I feel it will b combined .. like Rudra wont commit till last min and Paro will assume he likes Laila and will decide to leave as part of her promise but that day itself Rudra might decide to commit to her as a husband and so stop her on time ... 🤔

So I am getting very uncomfortable every time Paro asks Rudra if he has feelings for Laila. I feel as if everytime he says "no" paro is actually reading it as a "yes" with this tyaag mentality.

Actually I dont think the whole tyaag thing is in her mind right now at least in yesterday ka epi .. I think she genuinely wanted to know whats in his mind here 😕