Originally posted by: prettypri
Vicky...short and sweet post😳.
You know I am confused after seeing today's episode!
Thank you and let me see what can i do about your confusions. 😆😳
If Paro is not feeling insecure about her relationship because Rudra did not commit to Laila after so long and claimed he never felt anything for her, then why is she suddenly pushing so much for a declaration of love from him...so much so that she refuses to even do normal things for him ..the tea for example...this I am asking from the POV of Paro not that a wife should do those things!
See, Rudra's confession and the details of what Rudra had with Laila with NO emotional attachment has made Paro think where she stands in Rudra's life. Even here, he says he has no attachment to her and this marriage means nothing. So, she wants to know if Rudra is just as clear about her as he was about his Siberia with Laila? The small acts of ignorance are her attempts to draw his attention to her state of mind that is demanding answers.
I mean to say.. She js ok with Laila in the house after seeing how Laila behaves but is suddenly insistent that Rudra should confess his love ...I know it's so that she knows where she stands but when Rudra said Laila doesn't mean anything and Paro does and then said Laila has to go from the haveli why stop him? If he declares he loves her will she then too accept Laila's stay in the haveli knowing the kind of antics she js up to? Did she see the swing scene for what it was or did she misunderstand it?
In short is she unsure and insistent for an answer from Rudra now that she knows his past?
In that case if he does tell her what she means to him...what happens when she leaves as you have questioned?
Paro is treating Laila as a 'guest' and an 'outsider' and she is not insecure yet about Laila's designs on Rudra. But Rudra's complete dismissal of any feelings for Laila in the 8 years they shared has made her emotionally insecure in a cocoon where its between Rudra and Paro - you and i are married but what standing do i have in your life? Even if i leave you, i should walk out knowing where i stood in your life for my own mental peace. That way.
And if she is insecure what was the relevance of those sequences where Rudra said she is different from Laila and she also said to Maithili that no matter how the marriage took place it was what she wanted and it was enough? And also that he was changing?
With Laila in the house there will be situations like in the precap where she tries to create misunderstandings...what happens then?? What is Paros stand there...is she thinking it doesn't matter or is she believing Rudra?
Paro's insecurity is the kind that is between two people when you don't know how your loved one rates you emotionally. She is not even thinking about Laila as of now - she has a question in her mind and its only to do with Rudra's sentiments for her.
And Dilsher...he damaged Rudra as much as if not more than Mala and then decided he should let go of all his pain and marry Paro...now that has happened and he actually knew about Laila?? Why would he keep quiet knowing Why Rudra was engaging in that kind of relationship? And now he berates him for actually telling Paro about hs past?
The kind of relationship Rudra had with his father, Dilsher never interfered in Rudra's life and he is not judging his son's character - it was in the past. All he is doing is that he is trying to make Rudra realize that he has to handle Paro delicately. Its all hypocrisy from his side but a father is a father. 😆
Overall I got confused 😃