Intezaar Mohabbat Ka Naseeb Hai. - Page 12

Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Vicky,

Lovely post...and what a beautiful quote.

I will copy paste what I posted on Sush's thread, to explain why I believe its not complicated but instead Paro's questions & Laila's WD40 spray paves the way for Paro to leave Rudra.

Another lovely episode and I must say wasn't the least confused with Paro's questioning or wanting some answers for herself or from Rudra.

Glad that all of my favourite characters had value screen time today. Kakisa MIA and Laila was as good as not being around.

In my previous post, I did say that Laila's presence and this revelation has only cemented Rudra's 8th vachan. This makes it easier for Paro to keep up to her promise.

What is the problem is that most of us are reacting episode wise and seeing no consistency in Paro's character. But I see it this way. Is Paro on the path to justifying leaving him?

I will go back to the laddoo track? What really made Paro offer up the love of her life to Bholenath in the first place. It's plain and simple. Because that is what RUDRA WANTS. HE wanted her out of his life. He participated in the SN pooja only so that she walks out of his life. So Paro's promise to is give up something that she wanted (her own desires), her love for him.

Now back to Laila track...who is simply a catalyst to the PaRud relationship. The Laila matchstick/WD40 that works to spark a stagnated/standstill relationship between P & R.

The CVs did right in bringing in Laila because there was nothing much happening apart from laddoos between R & P.

Paro asked these questions, because on the basis of these answers will she justify to his family and him that her sacrificial tyaag was a selfless act. And does not measure up to what his mother did to him. It shouldn't because he has no feelings for her nor any bandhan. .

Note, she already has a dejected look and has accepted that she won't get any answers ever. If you notice she spoke of Laila but not of her leaving Rudra to Maithli. Why did she hide this bit from M?

It's like this, he never married me in the true sense. He does not want this marriage with me. So I am only forcing myself upon him. Now that it's clear, I can walk away without any guilt feelings.

Don't know maybe I am completely off track and it all sounds pretty illogical, but it's the typical filmy tyaag way of thinking if you look at it.

hugs

dd

Originally posted by: loveanime

That is a fascinating take but I am not sure Paro is capable of emotional scheming like that. To search for an answer to justify her own actions hmmm. But what we have yet to see in this show is does Paro feel any sort of guilt, or remorse or fear for Rudra when she leaves him. She has thought about how this is going affect her but she has yet to think about how this is going to affect him. This is before Laila came into the picture even then they didn't show her conflicted in this matter. So what if he did confess or does something dramatic to prove to her that he loves her what then. The thing is if and when Paro leaving she should just tell him she is going, communication they are win an award for this, if that is maintained I am a happy camper.

OH LA,

I think the way I wrote came out all wrong. Paro is white as snow to be scheming over anything at all.

Her questions are to pacify her heart and mind. Her heart bleeds to know that Rudra is not giving her a definite answer and is not taking the marriage any further than where it is and at the same time is at peace to know as well that when she leaves him, it won't hurt him since he wanted it and is dwelling the past (his silence yesterday and her statements as well)

Now this is what she thinks. Lets say if the CVs decide before she leaves he confesses, she would still keep up her promise. It will be Patidev vs Bholenath. Yet again the argument would be she cannot go back against her promise and was made in return for his well-being. PLus that just before her promise he wanted her out.

Then it would be for Rudra to nullify her promise as he claims his rights as a husband. And yes she lives with this same hope that he will come back to claim her as his wife.

Hope this clears the confusion,

For after all RS and ST have said many a times Paro is the only white character in the show.

hugs🤗

dd