The 8 vows and decoding Rudra's perception

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Posted: 11 years ago
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All is well that ends well, eventhough the marriage leaves a sad taste with the darkness and the hurt of PaRud, still the last episode was a welcoming change especially seeing Rudra's involuntary love and care towards Paro and then the rightful attitude of warning his family to not utter a single word against the fiasco.
What i believe is that Rudra basically did not blame Paro for leaking the pictures, he was more about how she has created the mess, the situation and gave opportunity for others to take advantage of this. Atleast thats what anyone could depict from his words, or may be i am just wrong.

The 8 vows uttered by Rudra opened up his heart , the more scary they sounded they did have a deeper meaning.

1st vow :- Inspite of your blind love, i will never love you back .
This again prove sthat he forces himself, he tries a lot to not love her back. He does understand her bowing towards him, and tries hard enough to not acknowledge it and move on. With this vow he just spilled out the frustation he suffers from this whole hide and seek game, and now he gives her a strong reason for not loving her back .

2nd vow:- The way you never trusted me and my intentions, do not expect my trust for you.
Give and take kind of a thing, he hates beautiful women, he hates betrayal, he hates the fact that after constant trying she did not trust his single word, he hates it more that how she hit him from the back and ran away. I think so more than anything this has hurt him the most, he did not expect Paro to do that no matter how much repulsive her attitude was towards him, he still had not imagined her doing it.

3rd vow :- I will always stay 50 to 100 kms far from your beauty, attraction . In short no coshumashun. That explains Rudy, coshumashuns can wait, let him handle his brusied heart and soul first. This also shows that he does get attracted towards Paro, her proximity does make a difference for him.



4th vow:- The way my soul and dignity was hurt, it screamed out for help but nothing was heard similarly you will cry and beg and i will ignore it.
This, this truly explains that he blames her for the situation , he accused her about cretaing all the hussles and fussle in his life which was rather monotonous and smooth..LOL
But then this vow contradicts with his actions, a single ouch from Paro, Rudy goes all mad and helpless to fix her up, and here he claims such stuffs. Rudy liar you are.

5th vow:- Our union will be more worser than your nightmare. He is indicating that Paro, your shiv-parvati mythology is going to go for a ride, we are humans. This might indicate that his love is more of like some obsession that will sweep away Paro's feet..😆

6th vow:- If you are stubborn then i can also be . I love this one, clearly shows that they are equal in their resolve, none of them are losers and still they are trying to win over the situational mess created by themselves. i want to see if Paro is being stubborn for a coshumashum, how will Rudy counter her with his kind of stubborness ?😕🤣

7th vow:- In my entire life, i will never grant you any happiness. Ohh shut up Rudy, you stand like a pillar in between her and the whole world, nobody dares tell her naything becos of you and you still claim such nonsense ? A girl can only be happy when her husband supports her and gives importance to her self respect, and you surely do that. Yes the whatever MUs you both have will be cleared very soon, and you have to break your vow.

8th vow:- Rudra paro ka kabhi nahi hoga ... why do i feel he will create situations where Paro might decide to go back to birpur ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great analysis of all the vows :)
Although I don't think he will try to send her to Birpur.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post minus the last line... Why would she leave him & go to birpur? That will be like a betrayal like the kind his mom did.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Violet125

Great analysis of all the vows :)
Although I don't think he will try to send her to Birpur.

Rudra will try to send her away to Birpur, to prove to her and himself that women do not stay with the men they are committed to. Its the ultimate test of loyalty, him vs her childhood home. He may also force her to choose between Thakurain and himself later for the same purpose.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post on the vows! It will be a treat to watch Rudra get through this fight with each of these vows and accept Paro!
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Originally posted by: rithureuben

Rudra will try to send her away to Birpur, to prove to her and himself that women do not stay with the men they are committed to. Its the ultimate test of loyalty, him vs her childhood home. He may also force her to choose between Thakurain and himself later for the same purpose.


that will be interesting, and Paro better chooses Rudra.. nothing can justify Maala abandoning Rudra... i would never want Rudra to forgive her...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice take on the vows. 😊

The 8th one was included for the sole purpose of showing that every vow he'd taken before this was meaningless. It gave us an indication of his inner thought but his actions were so contradictory to what he was saying.

First he plastered her to him, clearly showing his possessiveness towards her. Then he took the phera going backwards, effectively erasing all the other pheras. He also uttered those words whilst doing so, which gives the phrase 'taking back my words' a whole new meaning! 😆

If that wasn't enough, he then goes on to put sindoor in her mhang and tie a mangulstra round her neck. Who is the guy kidding? He's already hers and announced it to the world in true Rudra fashion!

LOVE the creative genius behind that phera. ❤️
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that will be interesting, and Paro better chooses Rudra.. nothing can justify Maala abandoning Rudra... i would never want Rudra to forgive her...

I actually want Paro to give Mala a piece for her mind. Its her fault Rudra is such a tortured soul incapable of a normal relationship based on love, trust and kindness. Paro will be torn but she won't choose Mala.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rithureuben

I actually want Paro to give Mala a piece for her mind. Its her fault Rudra is such a tortured soul incapable of a normal relationship based on love, trust and kindness. Paro will be torn but she won't choose Mala.


u have a point here... its really mala's fault that Rudra still gets sleepless nights, fears affection and love.. and what makes it worser is that how easily she told danveer that she had come to take Rudra away .. really ? she ran away, she married someone else, and she still wanted to take back Rudra to isolate Dilsher who has nobody else ? disgusting indeed.

I hope Paro will be smart enough to support Rudra in this fiasco, no matter how heavenly a figure mala is for her..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh, yes. Forgot about that part when she told Tejawat that she wanted to invite Rudra and his new bride to their house. Delusional woman.

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