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Posted: 11 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: nishaipkkdian


No not because she is women. Actually If a man does that I feel more annoyed about it. Yup Rudra has the choice and I just want her give him a chance to let him decide what he wants.


She has tried for a day... Laila had two attempts... so let's see how long paro tries...

Note: I am one of those people who always supported Laila's outburst ... I could understand that she had nursed feelings and was in a long term relationship and she was celibate except for the Rudra angle... so I may be the wrong one to be taking up the discussion... because

1. I feel its not wrong for them to express and give it a chance.
2. I feel its not force...

Rudra in the end is a man ... he is not a child... no one can force him...

Both Laila and paro deserve the chance to do what they have to do for their happiness.. even if it means that it lies with a man ...( in this day and age) and use their weapons and time for it!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sphobic

OMG ...just read ur reply...ganga is NOT lord shiva's wife...lord shiva had only two wives/...sati and parvati that too they were the same ...after sati left her body she again took birth as parvati


Ganga sits on Lord Shiva's head... Bhagiratha asked Siva to control her when she descended from the heavens and I think ganga asked for marriage before she was bound in Siva's locks...!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krishna_Sourav

OMG if a woman propose a man the she turn Besharam interesting

anyway respect ur opinion but it's harsh way to compare paro with laila or say Paro as besharam
there is far difference between Paro n Laila
For laila is lust one side story
for Paro it's Love, devotion care, respect n about Rudra who care, for Paro if u see from the time they met he has instinct nature to protect her...even today the moment Sumer said about paro or try to touch her
m not saying that every man who saved a woman can fall but here is different between saving n turning savior protector or possessive...
Love is deeper meaning deeper n complicated emotion...
Rudra has deeper feeling for Paro but don't want to realize it ...
n chilll it's story of PARUD n they haven't done anyting wrong ...that we need to say this...if a girl don't realize her feeling n man can woo her n make her realize then it's fine when A Man don't want to realize n girl is trying to make him see the mirror the it's wrong
y we can't judge both with equality


I never say women should not propose man and if she does she will become besharam. She proposed and he rejected. I am talking after that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: nishaipkkdian


I doubt If the creator of the story from the beginning wants his characters to behave like this. Looks like they changed it.

but i think it was like this way only.. because rudra's problem with beautiful ladies can be cured by the loyalty of another beautiful lady.. whom he has some feelings but not ready to accept because of the fear of betrayal..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lrlpam

I wouldn't have said a word against paro had she confessed her feelings,asked him about his feelings and then tried to woo him but she never did that. She has simply assumed that she's the right girl for him, turned a deaf ear to all his logic and forced herself on him. It's ok to bear insults if u badly want someone to forgive u but when it comes to love,a no means no. The truth is v would never have accepted such behaviour had a guy been doing that to a girl or hell,even if laila had been doing the same. paro has every right to fight for her happiness but love is 2-sided,one needs to consider the other person's happiness too.


Thank you that's what I am trying to say here. How much one persons loves somebody, how much they are nave and innocent or how much that person is trying give happiness or how much one can understand the person they love they need to respect their interest opinion too. Just imagine if some one GOOD person pestering us like this, are we going to accept it?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Newbiesoapfan



Ganga sits on Lord Shiva's head... Bhagiratha asked Siva to control her when she descended from the heavens and I think ganga asked for marriage before she was bound in Siva's locks...!



i know that dear...u can see my post just below the first one...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvipkknd4ever

but i think it was like this way only.. because rudra's problem with beautiful ladies can be cured by the loyalty of another beautiful lady.. whom he has some feelings but not ready to accept because of the fear of betrayal..


In one of Sanaya's interviews she said Paro won't love Rudra until 100 episodes some thing like that. So I am thinking they changed the track because closure of Takursa's role.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sphobic

OMG ...just read ur reply...ganga is NOT lord shiva's wife...lord shiva had only two wives/...sati and parvati that too they were the same ...after sati left her body she again took birth as parvati


Unfortunately in Hinduism we have lot of versions for each story. In some stories and places people considered Ganga as one of Lord Shiva's wives.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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laila had 8 year to make him follow in love with her but she failed
paro might force rudra marry her it wrong but its fiction character any thing can happen
okay lets hate paro ...for that đź’”

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sphobic

though seeing the love and devotion in ganga...lord shiva had given a special place to ganga in his hair...jata...we call in hindi


Hmmm, In our lives we won't let our man show this kind of sympathy towards a women who is love with him and allow her to live with us right?

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