What makes Rudra Misunderstand Paro ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: preetal

Great post and well analyzed...bring them on...

Originally posted by: Aahaana

DM, finally you made me happy😆😆. Good analysis as usual😳.

I know why u r happy 😆.. well I was wiating for right moment 😈😆

Whatever happens, happens for a good reason😛.

Every action has a reaction and every reaction is itself an action, this explains the situation between Rudra and Paro😉.

Rudra is not wrong from his side because he has never met any nice woman. All of the women in his life has either betrayed him or tried to manipulate starting from his mother, chachi , Laila and Paro (despite of him begging and making her realize the truth, she refused to believe him because of her blind trust in Thakur). Rudra failed to show proofs and evidence against Thakur to make Paro believe him and thats why his plan backfired. He forgot Paro only saw him killing her husband but not what led to that situation so it was words vs words. Same goes for Paro now, she is innocent but its hard to proof her innocence after what she has done - hitting him from behind - thats equal to betrayal from Rudras side. He would have blindly trusted her in any other circumstances but this was about his father which is his weak spot. Paro has no chance even if she speaks the truth as long as his father is in coma. Now with him finding out about his own mother being married to his worst enemy - it will erupt the sleeping volcano inside him.

Exactly ... Rudra is yet to come across a woman on whom he can fully rely .. mayb he started seeing that woman in Paro but sighh the shiv ratri mela did all the damage ... Rudra even told her that if the betrayal was only limited to me , I would hv still forgiven u knowing your blind loyalty for Tejawat but u tried to kill my father and this I cannot tolerate .. so he made it clear to Paro , why he cannot forgive her .. mayb if he was not carrying the baggage of his mother's betrayal too , he would hv still trusted Paro and thought she cannot do this act but seeing what his mother did to his father , he feels Paro can do the same too ... From Paro's side , she definitely has a uphill task to prove her innocence now .. lets see how she does it ..

She is the reasons for all of his miseries in childhood so a lot of bitterness waiting for him. Unfortunately once the damage is done, the clock cannot be turned back so Paro is going to pay for Malas betrayal. The time will tell Rudra that he cannot judge every woman based on one womans betrayal. She is not going to give up on him and will fight for him and herself. If one woman brought darkness to his life, another one will bring him out to the light:)

Yup .. I m sure he will see that light in the dark tunnel via Paro soon who will bring that much needed peace and happiness in his life .. we already saw a glimpse of it in today's SBB/SBS wherre Paro is taking care of drunk Rudra by feeding him , healing his wounds , making him sleep on her lap , something he has been craving since childhood from his mother but never got it , today he finally gets it from his future wife 😉😛

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

Truly said Jyoti... Couldn't agree more...

Originally posted by: rajla

I agree but there is more to it isn't there???? It's true that his trust issues come from the betrayal of his mother and the lesson taught by his father that "Beautiful Women are never to be trusted" but here 2 factors actually aggravated that belief. The two factors being Paro and Sunehri. If you see Rudra was actually changing his views (Even if subconsciously) about Paro, but whet Paro did which is siding with Tejawat, refusing to take his hand, trust him and then eventually hit him with the rod all added to his beliefs being reaffirmed again. Matters worsened due to Mausam Vibhag's dirty game where both Ranawat and Sunehri witnessed Devayani in the bridal avatar and mistook her for Paro (Well game well played by Mohini) thus becoming witnesses. And for a guy like Rudra more than instincts he would go with proofs any day so totally nothing is helping here. Even if there was a small loophole it's been sealed shut.

Yess obviously all these factors just added up to his misunderstanding and misconceptions further ... he might hv still forgiven all that if his father was all fine and this fire incident never hapepned which he even told her .. the fact that yrs back his mother had hurt his father emotionally and yrs later another woman against hurts his father physically is actually interwined in his mind and thats what makes him give this verdict against Paro



I agree but in a different way (Or may be it's one and the same thing LOL). More than him wanting to believe Paro innocence I think Rudra never her to be in the same category as his Mom, which for him is betrayal at the highest level, and here not only did she trick him and flee, she also caused his father's life and putting the two together to him what Paro did is almost as grave as what his mom did. And for him Trusting one does not come easily and if it's a woman or say beautiful woman then it's a task impossible. What causes him to pin her to the wall is when Paro asks him to trust her...that is what sets him off. " Bharose ke bheek maangne waali yaad hai, wahan pandal mein main tera bharosa hi maang raha tha". More than him trying to justify his actions and words he wanted her to feel bad for what she did don't you think ??? and perhaps that's why he was taken back when she owned up to everything and when she tells " Manne aap hi ke sath rehna hai" that too before Singh Sir to who she earlier peaded "Mujhe iss Jhallad ke sath nahi rehne". Look at Aman's expression he is the only one giving a smile after all he was witness to all that happened and Paro's transition from then to now when she finally knows the truth is what's making her do this. Royal Ignore toh nahi kar sakta, and when tried to matlab when he finally aksed Singh Sir to hand Paro's safety over to another officer she objected so royal ignore even if he does she won't allow after all now that she has come to know what happened it's going to be a long road to gain all that she lost.

Yeahh actually I tried to say the same too 😆 .. he never wanted or never believed that a day will come when he will hv to compare Paro with his mother .. he so wanted to avoid this but sighhh today he finds Paro in that similar positiion since in both cases his father had to bear the brunt ... thats why I said his heart wanted to believe her innocence but his mind felt the betrayal as he hates to see how Paro replaced his mother today in a way when it comes to his logic related to beautiful woman


Like I said Rudra is not a man of Instincts when it comes to people, when it comes to hims Job yes bit other than that Nope and so it would take him time to get there so I think the whole him wanting to believe Paro is innocent was limited to that moment when he confirmed from Sunheri that the person she saw was Paro, I think after that point he actually believes that Paro is behind this. Plus the happenings have been so sudden and unexpected that his Major Saab wala brain has gone for a toss else I am sure that he would probe Sunehri to answer if she saw Paro's face. Here everything is based on the Marriage wala dress, and when Sunehri called her Paro never listened and ran, just like she sided with Tejawat in the Mela. Yes only Paro can prove that his beliefs are wrong and she has already started too (Precap mein dekha????😳) plus once the whole Bachpan wala connection comes into play sab teek hi hona hai😉

I think if he was not really carrying the past baggage of his mother , then mayb he would not really believe Sunehri either but might himself try to find out the real truth because he has not seen the incident with his own eyes in this case but like he told his chacha , just how his mother's betrayal in past had no real logic because noone believed she will do something like this , same way today Paro's actions need not hv any logic either , the fact that she is another beautiful woman is logical enough for me to believe that she did this cunning act ... and of course Sunehri's confirmation sort of added fuel to the fire further ...



We all know that Paro affects him like no other woman did all these years. Even Laila who he shares an 8 year long relationship with (Even if mainly bodily) does not have that hold on him like Paro does. He tries hard to not let himself be affected by her, but fails miserably. The reason is simple when his Mom left him he couldn't take that heart-break, that pain and it took him a lot of time to mold himself in the way he is today but somehow Paro has managed to make an impact and if she betrays him, it will break him perhaps to the point from where there is no return so he keeps himself safe from feeling that pain but here even if unknowingly Paro did give him a small test dose and a bigger one may not be something he can contain which would explain why he would try to keep his distance from Paro. That is what I love about this Guy, he may call himself an animal, let other call him a Jhallad but he isn't , he is very much human and it's actually wonderful to see a male character who in fact feels. 😊

yess he is very much human and carrying lots of emotional sentiments .. he actually gets attached to people too soon and even though he denies it but he did get attached to Paro too ... and thats what is hurting him the most .. he mayb wondering that despite learning such a big lesson in my mother's case , how the hell can I do the same mistake in Paro's case too , how the hell can I let some other woman affect me in same way all over again ... this is what is making him so frustrated now ...



But apart from the women factor and the whole past baggage factor here another big point is that Paro always wanted to run away from him and not once believes his words, haan she had no reason to but she never pondered upon it and always stood against him. Yes she has no reason to kill his father but lets assume that he thinks that what she was trying to do was not kill Ranawat but create a chaos so that everybody would be involved in it and leave her undetected. (Ok now I am saying bakwaas)

Actually Rudra was still fine with her loyalty towards Tejawat because he knew that Paro does not know the truth .. I guess his main anger comes from fire incident because its his father involved here who always supported Paro .. so he is not able to understand why Paro did this ..



I am so in love with the new promo...I love the way she turns around and sits it was cute but on a serious note she is living up to the promise she made to herself. Remember he talks with Rukmini, she said that she would live, she would set everything straight and those words have found a new will-power and determination in the new promo.

yess its a real positive promo .. we can say Paro is back with a bang 😃




Hayye mera Rudra God when will Ashish stop looking so gorgeously hawt and why why why the hell is he married???? 😡 Sighhh...anyways the entire episode rested on Ashish's shoulder he was the highlight, with good input from Paro and the supporting cast. And the last scene that shocked, like he had see a ghost or something was WOW.

Well yeah off late .. like last 2 epis or so , he is looking extra hot na 😳😳😳

The last part was symbolic but I can't quite put my finger on it. Maybe you can help, Rudra lights the candle walks to the photo, the lights come in and the candle falls from his hand bhuj jaata hai. Ek baat toh pucci hai the darkness from his life is vanishing for sure but phir bhi kuch missing hai. Anyways there you go my Ramayan in Blue😉

I guess they tried to hint about half truths here .. with a candle , u can only see the part u wish to see but not the whole thing and in this case it fits too .. Rudra's whole life was spent in darkness and negative thoughts only and he saw partial light only in his father's words but that too carried a tinge of bitterness only as his father too wished to tell him only partial truth about his mother and beautiful women ... but when the light comes in , he sees the full picture of his mother with Tejawat .. same way he now got to reach to the entire truth from his mother's side only .. that story from his mother's side is still incomplete . ...

Originally posted by: sonia_1

Agree. He is justified in his anger and now it's Paro's turn to convince him of her innocence ...we at least get some intense passionate moments between the two 😳

Originally posted by: sukhminderkaur7

Awesome post I was really missing something extraordinary from you I really hope paro can change rudra's opinion about khoobsurat aurat.

Originally posted by: deep0909

Rudra's acting was brilliant. ... when he was walking towards the portrait of his mom with the candle, it was almost like you could see the little boy and the boy already knew sub-consciously what he was about to discover... phew! fabulous!

Kudos Ashish... you were brilliant

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Jyoti, this is a sensational post.👏👏👏👏 I was all agog waiting to see how you would react to all that happened yesterday!

I dint make any post on Friday because I was a bit taken aback with sudden Misunderstanding track and sudden U-turn of Rudra too , so wanted to wait till Monday to know why he actually misunderstands Paro 🤔 ... And my guess is right ... The misunderstanding comes from his already prejudiced mind about his mother and beautiful women in general

Yes, finally that "beautiful woman" dialogue came out of his mouth! But anyway at least he has paid her a compliment!😳😳😳

Its clear that Rudra's heart wanted to believe Paro's innocence badly or else he wont feel the need to justify his actions to Paro repeatedly in headquarters when he pins her up against that transparent wall and reminds her about all her blunders in the Shiv ratri Mela all over again 😆 and when he sees Paro is actually confessing it all directly as her mistake with a pretty straight face without any counter attack or arguments with him 😆 , he gets a bit worked up and starts throwing up his age old logic about how her main sin is being a beautiful woman and so she is a traitor by default 😳 .. Why this over the top justification Rudra ?? 😉 .. If you believe Paro only tried to kill your father , just ignore her presense , dont talk to her , give her a royal ignore .. simple 😛 .. But why do u feel the need to everytime give justification to her for your hate towards her ?? 😉...

The part that I can't understand, Jyoti, is why Rudra is so ready to believe that it was Paro who set fire to the father's room? What enmity did she have with the father? You know what ... I think Rudra is not thinking straight out of sheer sudden relief that paro is safe and now knows the truth about Tejawat. This sudden U-turn from Paro has filled him with a shock-effect and he is grabbing at some excuse to distance himself from paro. It's like the Tejawat issue was giving him some safe distance from her so that he would not fall for her ... but after she changed sides, he needs some other excuse to stay far from her and this fire incident is giving him that rope?

In short its clear that his heart still believes she is innocent but his prejudiced mind is still stuck in the past where he believes if his own mother can betray his age old trust and leave his father all of a sudden which has no real logic yet , then why cant Paro try to kill his father too ... He feels there is no real logic behind why a beautiful woman will suddenly betray your trust and so Paro being a beautiful woman can well do such a cunning thing too 😔...Only Paro can prove his belief wrong now with her determination 🤔

How will she wriggle out of this fire incident? Will that extra set of shaadi ka joda be found which that second girl was wearing, so that it becomes clear that an impersonator was involved?

In fact in all my last week's posts , I kept using the word "Betrayal" for this reason only as I knew that from Rudra's POV , he will take this as betrayal from Paro based on his past experience with his own mother and he will compare both because Laila clearly said how Paro affects him the same way like his mother 😉...Is Rudra wrong ? of course he is wrong in his belief but thats how CVs crafted his character .. he is not suppose to b perfect .. he is a human with a set of flaws and a prejudiced mind against woman due to a valid reason and thats what is shown today .. so I call it character consistency 👍🏼

If Rudra was not carrying this baggage of his past , then he would hv certainly believed Paro's innocence today since he knows well that Paro has no reason to kill his father when in the past she actually saved his father many times 🤔 ; But that past baggage of his mother's betrayal does the damage today as in both cases its a woman involved .. sighhh 😔...


Anyways the new promo looks extremely positive with Paro sitting on a dharna in Rudra's haveli till Rudra forgives her and trusts her ... so I will only say Go Paro Go 👍🏼 ... show your woman power and loyalty to Rudra now and change his mindset regarding beautiful woman 😎

Paro is the new Arving Kejriwal with her dharnas?😆😆😆😆😆


I know there r fears of Rudra might hate Paro more now that he comes to know Thakurain only his mother and all this while she was married to Tejawat but going by the promo , I feel both PaRud and Rudra-Thakurain tracks will run separately and after so much of serious drama , I dont think CVs will drag this MU for long ... They might show how Rudra's heart starts melting after Paro sits on a bhookh hartal for him right in front of his eyes


Last but not the least Ashish was brilliant today in the last scene when he expresses shock and disbelief and also looks all shaken up seeing that photo of his mother with Tejawat ... that was some stupendous acting from him ... No wonder he carries such vengence for woman 😭😭... Imagine a son seeing a photo of his mother after so many yrs and that too with another random guy who is suppose to b a terrorist ...

OMG, what a scene that was when Rudra saw his mother's photo finally. I counted at least three or four times he missed seeing the picture, but the strange thing is he missed the picture even when there was light. But it was when there was darkness that he lit the candle and then it was as if the picture was drawing him towards itself for how else would he have seen the picture when the candle was downward facing at first in his hand and nothing on the picture could be seen. It was a lovely piece of direction that he got drawn to the picture, got magnetised by it so he had to turn the candle on it and take a look!