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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello!
Loved your analysis! Betrayal is a devastating feeling that you never really get over and in Rudra's case he equates it with beautiful women - so poor Paro doesn't stand a chance of getting any reason or logic from Rudra
How easily he sees his mother and Paro in the same light and of course it's because they both affect him however much he tries to deny it - he is fighting himself with all his rage and of course taking it out on Paro - but little does he know how strong Paro is ( maybe this is where she differs from Thakurain?) she is not giving up on him and certainly going nowhere till he forgives her ( ok Danda guilt!😆)
I love that Paro and Rudra are equals and I love her silent strength

A fatal flaw that they both share is their gullibility when it comes to cunning villains - these villains have messed up both their lives and continue to do so - and the havoc they have to deal with due to them seems so unfair- but where would the story be if they both outwitted the villains straight away

Everyone was awesome today but of course especially Sanaya and Ashish mind-blowing both of them
Looking forward to more Parud battles and Rudraa and his mum confrontation!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#22
Great post and well analyzed...bring them on...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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DM, finally you made me happy😆😆. Good analysis as usual😳.

Whatever happens, happens for a good reason😛.

Every action has a reaction and every reaction is itself an action, this explains the situation between Rudra and Paro😉.

Rudra is not wrong from his side because he has never met any nice woman. All of the women in his life has either betrayed him or tried to manipulate starting from his mother, chachi , Laila and Paro (despite of him begging and making her realize the truth, she refused to believe him because of her blind trust in Thakur). Rudra failed to show proofs and evidence against Thakur to make Paro believe him and thats why his plan backfired. He forgot Paro only saw him killing her husband but not what led to that situation so it was words vs words. Same goes for Paro now, she is innocent but its hard to proof her innocence after what she has done - hitting him from behind - thats equal to betrayal from Rudras side. He would have blindly trusted her in any other circumstances but this was about his father which is his weak spot. Paro has no chance even if she speaks the truth as long as his father is in coma. Now with him finding out about his own mother being married to his worst enemy - it will erupt the sleeping volcano inside him.

She is the reasons for all of his miseries in childhood so a lot of bitterness waiting for him. Unfortunately once the damage is done, the clock cannot be turned back so Paro is going to pay for Malas betrayal. The time will tell Rudra that he cannot judge every woman based on one womans betrayal. She is not going to give up on him and will fight for him and herself. If one woman brought darkness to his life, another one will bring him out to the light:)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Truly said Jyoti... Couldn't agree more...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

I dint make any post on Friday because I was a bit taken aback with sudden Misunderstanding track and sudden U-turn of Rudra too , so wanted to wait till Monday to know why he actually misunderstands Paro 🤔 ... And my guess is right ... The misunderstanding comes from his already prejudiced mind about his mother and beautiful women in general

I agree but there is more to it isn't there???? It's true that his trust issues come from the betrayal of his mother and the lesson taught by his father that "Beautiful Women are never to be trusted" but here 2 factors actually aggravated that belief. The two factors being Paro and Sunehri. If you see Rudra was actually changing his views (Even if subconsciously) about Paro, but whet Paro did which is siding with Tejawat, refusing to take his hand, trust him and then eventually hit him with the rod all added to his beliefs being reaffirmed again. Matters worsened due to Mausam Vibhag's dirty game where both Ranawat and Sunehri witnessed Devayani in the bridal avatar and mistook her for Paro (Well game well played by Mohini) thus becoming witnesses. And for a guy like Rudra more than instincts he would go with proofs any day so totally nothing is helping here. Even if there was a small loophole it's been sealed shut.


Its clear that Rudra's heart wanted to believe Paro's innocence badly or else he wont feel the need to justify his actions to Paro repeatedly in headquarters when he pins her up against that transparent wall and reminds her about all her blunders in the Shiv ratri Mela all over again 😆 and when he sees Paro is actually confessing it all directly as her mistake with a pretty straight face without any counter attack or arguments with him 😆 , he gets a bit worked up and starts throwing up his age old logic about how her main sin is being a beautiful woman and so she is a traitor by default 😳 .. Why this over the top justification Rudra ?? 😉 .. If you believe Paro only tried to kill your father , just ignore her presense , dont talk to her , give her a royal ignore .. simple 😛 .. But why do u feel the need to everytime give justification to her for your hate towards her ?? 😉.

I agree but in a different way (Or may be it's one and the same thing LOL). More than him wanting to believe Paro innocence I think Rudra never her to be in the same category as his Mom, which for him is betrayal at the highest level, and here not only did she trick him and flee, she also caused his father's life and putting the two together to him what Paro did is almost as grave as what his mom did. And for him Trusting one does not come easily and if it's a woman or say beautiful woman then it's a task impossible. What causes him to pin her to the wall is when Paro asks him to trust her...that is what sets him off. " Bharose ke bheek maangne waali yaad hai, wahan pandal mein main tera bharosa hi maang raha tha". More than him trying to justify his actions and words he wanted her to feel bad for what she did don't you think ??? and perhaps that's why he was taken back when she owned up to everything and when she tells " Manne aap hi ke sath rehna hai" that too before Singh Sir to who she earlier peaded "Mujhe iss Jhallad ke sath nahi rehne". Look at Aman's expression he is the only one giving a smile after all he was witness to all that happened and Paro's transition from then to now when she finally knows the truth is what's making her do this. Royal Ignore toh nahi kar sakta, and when tried to matlab when he finally aksed Singh Sir to hand Paro's safety over to another officer she objected so royal ignore even if he does she won't allow after all now that she has come to know what happened it's going to be a long road to gain all that she lost.

In short its clear that his heart still believes she is innocent but his prejudiced mind is still stuck in the past where he believes if his own mother can betray his age old trust and leave his father all of a sudden which has no real logic yet , then why cant Paro try to kill his father too ... He feels there is no real logic behind why a beautiful woman will suddenly betray your trust and so Paro being a beautiful woman can well do such a cunning thing too 😔...Only Paro can prove his belief wrong now with her determination 🤔

Like I said Rudra is not a man of Instincts when it comes to people, when it comes to hims Job yes bit other than that Nope and so it would take him time to get there so I think the whole him wanting to believe Paro is innocent was limited to that moment when he confirmed from Sunheri that the person she saw was Paro, I think after that point he actually believes that Paro is behind this. Plus the happenings have been so sudden and unexpected that his Major Saab wala brain has gone for a toss else I am sure that he would probe Sunehri to answer if she saw Paro's face. Here everything is based on the Marriage wala dress, and when Sunehri called her Paro never listened and ran, just like she sided with Tejawat in the Mela. Yes only Paro can prove that his beliefs are wrong and she has already started too (Precap mein dekha????😳) plus once the whole Bachpan wala connection comes into play sab teek hi hona hai😉


In fact in all my last week's posts , I kept using the word "Betrayal" for this reason only as I knew that from Rudra's POV , he will take this as betrayal from Paro based on his past experience with his own mother and he will compare both because Laila clearly said how Paro affects him the same way like his mother 😉...Is Rudra wrong ? of course he is wrong in his belief but thats how CVs crafted his character .. he is not suppose to b perfect .. he is a human with a set of flaws and a prejudiced mind against woman due to a valid reason and thats what is shown today .. so I call it character consistency 👍🏼

We all know that Paro affects him like no other woman did all these years. Even Laila who he shares an 8 year long relationship with (Even if mainly bodily) does not have that hold on him like Paro does. He tries hard to not let himself be affected by her, but fails miserably. The reason is simple when his Mom left him he couldn't take that heart-break, that pain and it took him a lot of time to mold himself in the way he is today but somehow Paro has managed to make an impact and if she betrays him, it will break him perhaps to the point from where there is no return so he keeps himself safe from feeling that pain but here even if unknowingly Paro did give him a small test dose and a bigger one may not be something he can contain which would explain why he would try to keep his distance from Paro. That is what I love about this Guy, he may call himself an animal, let other call him a Jhallad but he isn't , he is very much human and it's actually wonderful to see a male character who in fact feels. 😊



If Rudra was not carrying this baggage of his past , then he would hv certainly believed Paro's innocence today since he knows well that Paro has no reason to kill his father when in the past she actually saved his father many times 🤔 ; But that past baggage of his mother's betrayal does the damage today as in both cases its a woman involved .. sighhh 😔.

But apart from the women factor and the whole past baggage factor here another big point is that Paro always wanted to run away from him and not once believes his words, haan she had no reason to but she never pondered upon it and always stood against him. Yes she has no reason to kill his father but lets assume that he thinks that what she was trying to do was not kill Ranawat but create a chaos so that everybody would be involved in it and leave her undetected. (Ok now I am saying bakwaas)


Anyways the new promo looks extremely positive with Paro sitting on a dharna in Rudra's haveli till Rudra forgives her and trusts her ... so I will only say Go Paro Go 👍🏼 ... show your woman power and loyalty to Rudra now and change his mindset regarding beautiful woman 😎


I am so in love with the new promo...I love the way she turns around and sits it was cute but on a serious note she is living up to the promise she made to herself. Remember he talks with Rukmini, she said that she would live, she would set everything straight and those words have found a new will-power and determination in the new promo.


Last but not the least Ashish was brilliant today in the last scene when he expresses shock and disbelief and also looks all shaken up seeing that photo of his mother with Tejawat ... that was some stupendous acting from him 👏👏👏... No wonder he carries such vengence for woman 😭😭... Imagine a son seeing a photo of his mother after so many yrs and that too with another random guy who is suppose to b a terrorist ...


Hayye mera Rudra God when will Ashish stop looking so gorgeously hawt and why why why the hell is he married???? 😡 Sighhh...anyways the entire episode rested on Ashish's shoulder he was the highlight, with good input from Paro and the supporting cast. And the last scene that shocked, like he had see a ghost or something was WOW.

The last part was symbolic but I can't quite put my finger on it. Maybe you can help, Rudra lights the candle walks to the photo, the lights come in and the candle falls from his hand bhuj jaata hai. Ek baat toh pucci hai the darkness from his life is vanishing for sure but phir bhi kuch missing hai. Anyways there you go my Ramayan in Blue😉



Cheers
Edited by rajla - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zetter

Mala walking out on Rudra and Dilsher sure did a number on Rudra plus Ranawat didn't make things easier when he kept telling a small Rudra not to trust a "beautiful woman" cause she belongs to no one...Rudra is in such denial his mind is saying one thing but his heart & soul are telling him something completely different and he isn't listening to them...he has shut his ears but Paro won't let him stay in denial no matter what.

I can't wait to see how Paro goes back to the mansion, the new promo sounds interesting so I'm very eager to see our butterfly Paro standing her ground and winning Rudra's heart.



Yess Rudra has serious reasons to hate women .. first his father's hate speech against beautiful women and second the way he sees his mother's photo as Tejawat's wife ... well if he connects both , it makes sense why he will feel terrible now and will actually believe that all beautiful women r like this

I hope Malal has a real valid reason for her actions 😕 ...

I guess as per sbb/sbs , Paro will go back to haveli in disguise with ghooghat as Gouri but as per promo it seems Rudra will soon find out because of that rudraksh in her hand ... so lets see how she manages to stay in haveli then ..

The blunder Paro did here was coming in disguise which I guess Rudra will again take as betrayal though we know her intentions r good and she just wants to b near her Rudra 😭😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonia_1

Great post 👍🏼

Loved the episode today. Ashish was awesome as Rudra 👏
Rudra is carrying the baggage of his past but also feels betrayed coz Paro did hit him from behind and there are supposed witnesses to her trying to harm his father Paro digging in her heels and refusing to leave him has him flummoxed 😆 Looking forward to some intense moments now 😉😃



Actually Rudra even told her that I would hv forgiven for the whole Mela incident and even that hitting too because he knew from that start that Paro is loyal to Tejawat but his main anger comes from fire incident as he feels his father dint deserve this betrayal from Paro ... this is where he is connecting his mother's betrayal with Paro because in both cases his father got hurt .. sighh
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parihoonmein_12


Likewise, I was quiet tense throughout the weekend and was not looking forward to watching today's episode. I had the impression that there's going to be lots of crying and depression (similar to Paro's capture). I was pleasantly surprise by the new Avatar of Paro. She is fighting back. Tables are now turned. I'm looking forward to how this plays out. Though I hope they don't drag this misunderstanding too long.



CVs cannot take anymore risk of showing depression and stuffs .. they do need the trps , so I had that confident that this MU will result in something positive and we might get a strong Paro because she is nomore carrying any baggages of her past marriage ... she is actually free from that depression now ... so she is all charged up for a new positive start and feeling much more confident than before 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06



Actually Rudra even told her that I would hv forgiven for the whole Mela incident and even that hitting too because he knew from that start that Paro is loyal to Tejawat but his main anger comes from fire incident as he feels his father dint deserve this betrayal from Paro ... this is where he is connecting his mother's betrayal with Paro because in both cases his father got hurt .. sighh


Agree. He is justified in his anger and now it's Paro's turn to convince him of her innocence ...we at least get some intense passionate moments between the two 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: neet2407

Hello!

Loved your analysis! Betrayal is a devastating feeling that you never really get over and in Rudra's case he equates it with beautiful women - so poor Paro doesn't stand a chance of getting any reason or logic from Rudra

true .. I guess Paro does understand his mother's betrayal part and so she is not really arguing with Rudra on this but just wants to make him believe that she is innocent ...


How easily he sees his mother and Paro in the same light and of course it's because they both affect him however much he tries to deny it - he is fighting himself with all his rage and of course taking it out on Paro - but little does he know how strong Paro is ( maybe this is where she differs from Thakurain?) she is not giving up on him and certainly going nowhere till he forgives her ( ok Danda guilt!😆)
I love that Paro and Rudra are equals and I love her silent strength

yup .. Paro is strong right from the start and now that she is no more carrying any baggages of her past marriage and stuffs , so it makes her even more confident and positive now 😃 ... u r right both women affect him equally and he sees both women in some way or the other hv caused hurt to my father .. I guess this is what is playing havoc in his mind 🤔

A fatal flaw that they both share is their gullibility when it comes to cunning villains - these villains have messed up both their lives and continue to do so - and the havoc they have to deal with due to them seems so unfair- but where would the story be if they both outwitted the villains straight away

and its actually a common villain Tejawat only because he happens to b Thakurain's husband too .. who knows , mayb in past Tejawat only did all the brainwashing to Thakurain against her husband and manipulated things .. we need to wait and watch for that angle now 🤔

Everyone was awesome today but of course especially Sanaya and Ashish mind-blowing both of them

yup both compliment each other so well 👏👏

Looking forward to more Parud battles and Rudraa and his mum confrontation!

same here 😃

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