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Posted: 11 years ago
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I hear you! I too feel for Paro. She is a victim of circumstances and unfortunately she's became a pawn for everyone. Each has an agenda and only wants a piece of her. Takursa used her as a means of getting his ammunition and money across the border without a fig about her fate or future. Rudra to get a sense of recognition for his fallen men and to proof he was right in his mission; Dilsher as a means of getting his son's happiness back; Chacha to keep Rudra and Dilsher home (if it was not for Paro - they probably won't be back also); KCM using Paro as a scapegoat to get kill Dilsher; Even Matili doesn't seem to sense Paro's inner turmoil and conflict (not really making an effort to seek the answers. she has questions and concerns but she brushes them aside - I find that weird!).
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jalkukdi1

Agreed but than again Paro also has said numerous times to Rudra that she doesn't know anything about gun smuggling so should I say Rudra is stupid enough not to see wether she is actually telling the truth...shouldn't he realize by now (even if he believes that Paro is a part of that conspiracy theory) that she is a tough cookie and try to get some other proofs?


agreed that paro has said that numerous times that she has nothing to do with smuggling but so far rudra and paro's situation regarding this is concerned, it is quite different. even in reality if a police officer catches someone at the crime scene esp when the crime is being committed, each and every person at crime spot is considered guilty unless they have some concrete proof to prove otherwise. agreed that rudra should collect proofs but paro (main witness) tejawat and his (rudra) family is not making his life any easier. my point here is atleast rudra is not blindly trusting everything. he has doubts, questions and he atleast makes an effort unlike paro is who has shut her eyes, ears and most imp part her brain. paro has been constantly deflecting his questions and she is supporting her family openly which makes her all the more guilty in his eyes so the question of trusting her is out of the window. i would have supported paro if she was not so blinded by her own perception of reality. so far hating BSD is concerned, she is just like rudra in that case. just coz one BSD officer supposedly killed her parents, she blames them all and hates them like rudra hates women. paro hates rudra and she can find he truth about other brides just to prove rudra wrong. did she do that? no. she kept mum and blindly supported her family instead atleast making an effort to prove rudra wrong and herself right. it is ok to trust others but blind trust is not good for anyone
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
😊 Jalkukdi sa How are you? Nice to read a post by you here

I am very skeptical about RR for I am quite aware of ST penchant for creating larger than life Male Characters He writes them super hot and gives them all the weapons of emotional verbal physical empathy in his arsenal so that it strikes a direct chord to the viewers who immediately sympathize and feel for the hero even if his thinking is skewered and beggars belief I experienced it first hand with his other show season 1 where it started off alright with a spunky girl but soon degenerated into the ML turning psycho and all this within 2 months I got off that band wagon fast and swore never again One push pull shove desi show was more than enough for a life time thank you very much

I found the RR promos intriguing SI reeled me in because of her last hit show I stayed because I was awestruck by the method acting of Ashish and had my own phangurling phase for a very short while I was smitten by Tarun and his natural talent and fascinated by Ananya's style and enjoyed watching SI in a role that seemed in direct contrast to her other iconic character The costumes the settings the ambience all spelt quality and luxury and I was satisfied for a while till the rosy glasses got all grimy and I removed them and now I wonder is this history repeating itself

Take a look around the forum a majority of posts are all for him feeling his pain his angst his betrayal by her ( this one takes the biscuit for they were not in a relationship in the first place) his need to win and how stupidly blind she is and how dumb can she be how she deserves everything that is coming her way all forgetting that she has seen nothing that we the viewers have been allowed to see and hammered repeatedly till kingdom come about his side of the story We have been privy to his breakdowns his childhood traumas his patriotism in short every single bit of his life except the color of his chuddis have been revealed and even that I am sure someone will have an answer for that as well

In a masterstroke they have also shown him now suddenly in love with Paro which adds to the verbal diarrhea heaped over her now He is in love and how dare she reject him Has anybody thought it out that in no way she and him are in a relationship she believes her life is over and she is widow and she just wants out Freedom is what she craves
We have only seen one dimension and that is Rudra's and based on that we want Paro to react which is really unjust and unfair to her
Logically Rudra's Rambo act is the reason why he is in trouble with the BSD and rightfully should be subject to an inquiry and he forcing Paro to sign an incriminatory piece of paper is very ludicrous as his captive knows nothing
Everyone asks why can t she believe him then I want to ask why can't he believe her? yes they showed one scene where he doubts but he still goes ahead with his master plan of railroading and intimidating a prisoner into submission and acceptance Its called coercion and a strict no admission in any court of law but here very few see that and think everything he does is right why because he looks hot and seems upright and oh yes he is a patriot so that automatically cancels any of his own silly actions Seriously he is not been shown a good strategist nor does he think his plans thoroughly anticipating every possible contingency He has put her in the line of fire by faking her death and sending her back to her village without expecting any fallout I wonder if this story would have worked with an ordinary looking fellow an Aam Aadmi sort

What have they shown about Paro? They gave her a couple of nightmares which the writers have gone amnesiac about There has not been one powerful soliloquy to reflect her own soul ache her very short lived marriage before being plunged into a state of widowhood My fear In the name of Divinity and penance Paro will be made to go through such a vicious redemption track probably till the end of RR she will be subject to a lot of nastiness allowing the ML the liberty to badly treat her walk over her feelings Many will join the chorus and say she deserves it and I wonder how pray tell its not like she cuckolded him or ran off They were not in a romantic relationship period only he romanticized about her in his head and that too for just one episode so all Dejavu and something I have zero interest in watching Fool me once shame on them fool me twice shame on me They did not need SI for this role any pretty face would have done and that is the mystery

Now having said that the fact that SI was mulling over leaving the show for fear her character sketch would be diluted or compromised (though I was rolling my eyes in surprise and wondering what character) and confirmed by ST makes me want to stick around just a bit to see why she felt so deeply enough to want to quit There must be something real unique and interesting for her to lay her professional reputation on the line and I hope SI proves herself right and me wrong for I am still unconvinced I am assuming SI knows from past experience and would never want history to repeat itself but if it is the same old same old then I will bid RR adieu I am not interested in watching another Traumatic past excuse for mistreating manhandling and mauling the female lead and all in the name of dark intense love I am not a starry eyed tween teen all giddy headed for romance no matter how abusive as long as the male is hot and the female accommodating nor am I looking for escapism from my life and this story is the perfect recipe for a romance I can live vicariously through the Female nor am I a hard core phangurl to be content happily staring at the TV when my favorite comes onscreen and story be damned
I like watching desi soaps where the leads are evenly balanced out I don't like women centric nor male dominated shows they do not make for interesting viewing The 11 pm show is the perfect example of why it is reeling in viewers so RR is skating on thin ice as far as I am concerned so will take a watch and see attitude

My days of emotionally investing in a show are thankfully long over ergo I don't make posts like I used to elsewhere but I always look out daily for posts that stand out or seem different and interesting in their view without parroting common sentiments or opinions that I can reply too so thank you for allowing me the space to rant and vent
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34
Swathi, you put my own feelings into words, so am not going to bother to repeat much.
Just one question to those who say that Paro should have tried to prove her innocence ... my question - HOW??? In case it escaped attention, she is effectively prisoner in the house, not allowed to go anywhere, doesn't have access to any form of communication ... how is she supposed to find the proof for either her own innocence, or proof about the missing girls? Rudra has the entire force of the BSD at his disposal, besides, isn't that his job? The BSD knows Tejawat is behind the arms smuggling deal, yet THEY haven't found the proof to convict him ... and people expect Paro to find the proof? Or to believe a stranger who has shot her husband in cold blood in front of her eyes, that he actually did it for her own good? When he has done nothing but harass her after that?

So far all I saw Rudra do was harass Paro that she has to sign a nebulous piece of paper certifying something she has NO KNOWLEDGE OF ... or else she has to marry him. I really don't see why she would have any faith in him about that. Yes, she thinks he is a good man ... he has protected her more than once ... and he has mommy issues, so she feels sorry for him.

But as for betraying him ... Paro has never said yes to marrying him, she has all along maintained her stand that she will neither marry him or sign the papers. She may be stubborn, she may be ignorant ... but she is steadfast ... where did the feeling of betrayal come from? If anything, Rudra should have kept her under major guard the day of the marriage because he knows she doesn't want to marry him ...

Her scene with Dilsher said it all ... all she wants is her freedom. Freedom to make her own choices, without being forced ... right or wrong ...

And that honestly is what I want to watch. I want to watch the journey of a woman finding her way in life, finding her hidden reserves of strength and using them to punish the ones who betrayed her and her loved ones.
I am not very impressed with Rudra's character as of now ... and I'm not the type who watches a show for its hot male lead ... I'm much more invested in the FL's character , so I hope Paro's character strengthens enough to make this show watchable.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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While everyone has their own viewpoints and accordingly express what the feel about the show and it's characters on this forum there is one point I would like to understand...
Why is it that if an opinion is expressed in favour of Rudra or the ML in this case...it HAS to be because the TMs find him hot...that HAS to be one of the reasons...whereas if it is Paro who js being spoken about favourably it is not her beauty but of course fact that is the motivation.

Talking about the forum we do have a lot of posts praising Paros looks and beauty etc...so are all the posts in her favour and completely against Rudra taking that as a major consideration?

Can people never see anything favourable about the male character and make a post...do they have to be drooling over his hotness if they try to point out a more balanced viewpoint from POV of both characters and the story instead if just one character?

I see this ...they find him hot...refrain against almost every post that says anything good about Rudra so I am asking this question...
Edited by prettypri - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow... fairy liquid soap...kya damake se likha hai...
What i feel the situation onscreen is of the crying baby gets the milky milky...

Rudra crys more, he gets more attention on IF.

I want my doll to be just like this, his equal half, always ready with a retort to his questions laid with beneficial to him answers. She is shown strong, and i appreciate it.
Remember the tale to blue butterfly, old paro will die and new paro will emerge. I believe in that.
Edited by sara_in - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaS

Swathi, you put my own feelings into words, so am not going to bother to repeat much.

Just one question to those who say that Paro should have tried to prove her innocence ... my question - HOW??? In case it escaped attention, she is effectively prisoner in the house, not allowed to go anywhere, doesn't have access to any form of communication ... how is she supposed to find the proof for either her own innocence, or proof about the missing girls? Rudra has the entire force of the BSD at his disposal, besides, isn't that his job? The BSD knows Tejawat is behind the arms smuggling deal, yet THEY haven't found the proof to convict him ... and people expect Paro to find the proof? Or to believe a stranger who has shot her husband in cold blood in front of her eyes, that he actually did it for her own good? When he has done nothing but harass her after that?

So far all I saw Rudra do was harass Paro that she has to sign a nebulous piece of paper certifying something she has NO KNOWLEDGE OF ... or else she has to marry him. I really don't see why she would have any faith in him about that. Yes, she thinks he is a good man ... he has protected her more than once ... and he has mommy issues, so she feels sorry for him.

But as for betraying him ... Paro has never said yes to marrying him, she has all along maintained her stand that she will neither marry him or sign the papers. She may be stubborn, she may be ignorant ... but she is steadfast ... where did the feeling of betrayal come from? If anything, Rudra should have kept her under major guard the day of the marriage because he knows she doesn't want to marry him ...

Her scene with Dilsher said it all ... all she wants is her freedom. Freedom to make her own choices, without being forced ... right or wrong ...

And that honestly is what I want to watch. I want to watch the journey of a woman finding her way in life, finding her hidden reserves of strength and using them to punish the ones who betrayed her and her loved ones.
I am not very impressed with Rudra's character as of now ... and I'm not the type who watches a show for its hot male lead ... I'm much more invested in the FL's character , so I hope Paro's character strengthens enough to make this show watchable.


Diya now you have added what I left out 😊 well put She is just a simple village lass with no access to any medium of communication she is under house arrest and lets face it she is just waiting out her captivity hoping her Higher Power will find her a solution Rudra should have used the resources at his disposal and shown her some proof Now with this bit about him being secretly enamoured of her only adds to the hogwash And yes for someone who is supposed to be a master strategist he has been shown leaving her vulnerable in the lair of his adversary who would do anything to stop the wedding which he knows very well but surprisingly acquiesces I think they did all this to build up for a mother of all MU and for TRP dramatics to keep the viewer speculating
You know what might throw me off balance she comes back he believes her they get married and then all those around him start working on their destruction Now that would be different
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

While everyone has their own viewpoints and accordingly express what the feel about the show and it's characters on this forum there is one point I would like to understand...

Why is it that if an opinion is expressed in favour of Rudra or the ML in this case...it HAS to be because the TMs find him hot...that HAS to be one of the reasons...whereas if it is Paro who js being spoken about favourably it is not her beauty but of course fact that is the motivation.

Talking about the forum we do have a lot of posts praising Paros looks and beauty etc...so are all the posts in her favour and completely against Rudra taking that as a major consideration?

Can people never see anything favourable about the male character and make a post...do they have to be drooling over his hotness if they try to point out a more balanced viewpoint from POV of both characters and the story instead if just one character?

I see this ...they find him hot...refrain against almost every post that says anything good about Rudra so I am asking this question...


Pri Sa 😆 why this kolaveri We are just expressing our frustration You should know how often it happens here and the need for a thread that lets it all out
all of us are shallow at various intervals lord knows I have been and at times we can get pretty irritated and express our own POV I have seen posts that seem to want to condemn Paro to a lifetime of penitence and misery but I don't argue there for I see their own anger because of their attachment to a character Right now some of us are pretty fed up over the one dimensional lopsided track of just one character I signed up for 2
once we are over our irritation we will get back to our lives
so chill and peace out
everyone needs a hangout to vent this be the one today
one irrefutable fact Rudra is hot 😛 and Paro is beautiful 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sara_in

Wow... fairy liquid soap...kya damake se likha hai...

What i feel the situation onscreen is of the crying baby gets the milky milky...

Rudra crys more, he gets more attention on IF.

I want my doll to be just like this, his equal half, always ready with a retort to his questions laid with beneficial to him answers. She is shown strong, and i appreciate it.
Remember the tale to blue butterfly, old paro will die and new paro will emerge. I believe in that.


😆 good point
thank you
I do hope Paros sketch is like that and will keep me interested enough to continue watching RR I so want it to be a battle of equals and each standing for the other which makes for very interesting viewing
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap


Pri Sa 😆 why this kolaveri We are just expressing our frustration You should know how often it happens here and the need for a thread that lets it all out
all of us are shallow at various intervals lord knows I have been and at times we can get pretty irritated and express our own POV I have seen posts that seem to want to condemn Paro to a lifetime of penitence and misery but I don't argue there for I see their own anger because of their attachment to a character Right now some of us are pretty fed up over the one dimensional lopsided track of just one character I signed up for 2
once we are over our irritation we will get back to our lives
so chill and peace out
everyone needs a hangout to vent this be the one today
one irrefutable fact Rudra is hot 😛 and Paro is beautiful 😛


No kolaveri...only curiosity at best FLS!
But it's a fact that anyone who says Anything about Rudra that does not show him in a negative light or condemn him is automatically shallow!
I simply don't see that word ascribed to those who only support Paro...is it only when women speak in favour of the guy then that this applies?
Again no intention of offense...I don't get this part so pooch dala😊

I like both characters in the show so I tend to also see the sadness or pain of both...I know I am certainly not drooling over his hotness alone and watching the show because the male lead is hot so just wondered how many feel similarly aggrieved when their POVs are dismissed as rankings of a shallow mind!

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