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Posted: 14 years ago
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Or she could have paid after 6 months to him...that's the time limit she has given to her marriage! She thinks Shaan will be done with her by then!
But this was a well thought out plan! I don't know whether she knew about the effect or not but definitely she knew it won't be taken too well. So the sly transfer instead of a khullam khulla check to him.
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Lana @ Bold.. She knew what was coming her way.. When she made up her mind she clearly said it.. "even if it means to pick up a fight with him" The only thing she didn't anticipate was the outcome that came..!

She prolly was under the impression it wld just be there another regular fight and she wld get away with it..!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

Chris she also wanted to marry this guy, she is also immensely attracted to him! And she knows if she had done that maybe the effect would have been on the marriage itself. Maybe Shaan might have refused the marriage...though doubtful but it could have been one possibility & obviously she didn't want that! Or else u r right she could have transferred it before the marriage itself. And even if he didn't refuse to marry her the entire marriage would have turned out into a battlefield with no discussions or interactions between the bride & the groom. No looks exchanged, not a nod or any words of any kind. No one wants such a marriage which only happens once in a lifetime. Many factors played into her mind & so she decided to do this after everything was over.
Or another reason she didn't know the amount to be paid to the hotel, maybe! She found it out & then paid it to him.
Or she could have paid after 6 months to him...that's the time limit she has given to her marriage! She thinks Shaan will be done with her by then!
But this was a well thought out plan! I don't know whether she knew about the effect or not but definitely she knew it won't be taken too well. So the sly transfer instead of a khullam khulla check to him.



not knowing the amount...perhaps...

refusing marraige...don't think so. it would've been a glitche sure. and there might've been a few silent treatments...but it would've gone like all other fights...with the difference that he would've made sure to deal with this one later when they got a chance...

it would've mattered but he would've taken it as one of her stubbornness and whatever other reasons he gives himself to let go of all her antics...

he was far too determined to be married to her. he wouldn't have let anything keep it from being a special day for her and him. he would've still been as serious into the rituals.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: christmas



not knowing the amount...perhaps...

refusing marraige...don't think so. it would've been a glitche sure. and there might've been a few silent treatments...but it would've gone like all other fights...with the difference that he would've made sure to deal with this one later when they got a chance...

it would've mattered but he would've taken it as one of her stubbornness and whatever other reasons he gives himself to let go of all her antics...

he was far too determined to be married to her. he wouldn't have let anything keep it from being a special day for her and him. he would've still been as serious into the rituals.




Agree with Lana on this one. It would have left a bad taste in whole marriage.

Considering the lengths Khanak went to get everything proper. She knew exactly what she was doing.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lana @ Bold.. She knew what was coming her way.. When she made up her mind she clearly said it.. "even if it means to pick up a fight with him" The only thing she didn't anticipate was the outcome that came..!

She prolly was under the impression it wld just be there another regular fight and she wld get away with it..!
Purvi I so so so don't want Shaan to give in!! Please Adi keep his self control on! If he has to take it out, main hoon na, the wall!! 😆😆😆 But on a serious note l don't want Shaan to give in. I want him to be there for her, to care for her, to look after her, to help her but not be taken for a ride by her.
If he gives in now it will be like this for the rest of their lives. Everytime he will give in & she will never realise what wrong she is doing. Shaan is not Suraj but a MAN in complete sense.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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and that has been my understanding as well... that she is an adult and knows what she is doing..

but now i have to question if she really knew what she was doing. i mean she couldn't have been so blinded to not realize that sure she needs to pay him back. but doing so int he manner she did would create a huge gap.

it was her only that was beyond mad when she learned that he was being sneaky and working even though he was on vacation. so what made her think that her being sneaky. in something not so trivial as work would be ok.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

Lana @ Bold.. She knew what was coming her way.. When she made up her mind she clearly said it.. "even if it means to pick up a fight with him" The only thing she didn't anticipate was the outcome that came..!

She prolly was under the impression it wld just be there another regular fight and she wld get away with it..!

Purvi I so so so don't want Shaan to give in!! Please Adi keep his self control on! If he has to take it out, main hoon na, the wall!! 😆😆😆 But on a serious note l don't want Shaan to give in. I want him to be there for her, to care for her, to look after her, to help her but not be taken for a ride by her.
If he gives in now it will be like this for the rest of their lives. Everytime he will give in & she will never realise what wrong she is doing. Shaan is not Suraj but a MAN in complete sense.

Oh def not Lana.. He is not going to.. What I meant above was... Khanak completely under estimated him.. ! She thot she wld get away .. in her wildest dreams she never anticipated that Shaan wld react like this.. This was her biggest Blunder..which she still does not realize. I

I swear ...i will be bump of if she gets Shaan to mend ways ! I have been chanting that Mantra all long.. Shaan shld not give in at all... It has to be Khanak to break the Ice this time and in all possible sense... !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

Lana @ Bold.. She knew what was coming her way.. When she made up her mind she clearly said it.. "even if it means to pick up a fight with him" The only thing she didn't anticipate was the outcome that came..!

She prolly was under the impression it wld just be there another regular fight and she wld get away with it..!

Purvi I so so so don't want Shaan to give in!! Please Adi keep his self control on! If he has to take it out, main hoon na, the wall!! 😆😆😆 But on a serious note l don't want Shaan to give in. I want him to be there for her, to care for her, to look after her, to help her but not be taken for a ride by her.
If he gives in now it will be like this for the rest of their lives. Everytime he will give in & she will never realise what wrong she is doing. Shaan is not Suraj but a MAN in complete sense.



Shaan bachao andolan chal raha hai...🤣


But Lana, agreed 100%. This is "it". Aar ya paar.

And you are right, this will set tones for the future of the marriage, how things play out, unfortunately, this is not a subtle play going on here, this was a full in face kind of situation.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: christmas

and that has been my understanding as well... that she is an adult and knows what she is doing..

but now i have to question if she really knew what she was doing. i mean she couldn't have been so blinded to not realize that sure she needs to pay him back. but doing so int he manner she did would create a huge gap.

it was her only that was beyond mad when she learned that he was being sneaky and working even though he was on vacation. so what made her think that her being sneaky. in something not so trivial as work would be ok.


Chris if he was being tacit about his work I can understand...why u know, because he was not neglecting her in any way. He was working when she was not around or sleeping not like working away when she is near asking for his attention. There is a difference. And if she wanted she could have worked too when he wasn't there. So I won't call his working being sneaky! He was very open about it, he knew she knew he was working. He was simply smug about it.
What I feel is she thought he will crib & give in slowly but didn't realise he can be so thunderous in his rage. She thought she will get away just like she did everytime with Suraj. She had no idea that Shaan would be so volatile. But hopefully she learnt her lesson. All her life no body has said something so strong or has been mean to her in any way be it her parents or Suraj. She is defiant that way & for the 1st time in her life she faced an equal of hers. It will take a while for her to grasp this.
Edited by lghosh - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

Chris if he was being tacit about his work I can understand...why u know, because he was not neglecting her in any way. He was working when she was not around or sleeping not like working away when she is near asking for his attention. There is a difference. And if she wanted she could have worked too when he wasn't there. So I won't call his working being sneaky! He was very open about it, he knew she knew he was working. He was simply smug about it.
What I feel is she thought he will crib & give in slowly but didn't realise he can be so thunderous in his rage. She thought she will get away just like she did everytime with Suraj. She had no idea that Shaan would be so volatile. But hopefully she learnt her lesson. All her life no body has said something so strong or has been mean to her in any way be it her parents or Suraj. She is defiant that way & for the 1st time in her life she faced an equal of hers. It will take a while for her to grasp this.




👏👏👏👏👏


Lana, kamaal hai apki analysis.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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DJ the teens or tweens (no disrespect to them at all) have a rosy idea about marriage & life & their Prince Charming. They think the Prince only romance & sweep the wives off of their feet & is there at their beck & call.
But real life is very different & we who have faced it all know it better. A Man like Shaan would not react the way everyone thinks by being apologetic & sorry & asking for forgiveness from Khanak. A guy like that reacts a very different way & I have seen men like him. So that rosy tint in not there covering my eyes.
I had an uncle like him & my aunt was no where even near to Khanak in any way. She always gave in to him but still he is a total 'akroo'! The fights went on for months & my aunt would try her level best to sort it out but he wouldn't budge. In front of others he would talk to her like nothing has happened but the moment the guests left he would be back to square one.
Shaan may not be as bad as my uncle but he is atleast 10% of him. And here his action is justified as well.
Edited by lghosh - 14 years ago

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