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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

Chris if he was being tacit about his work I can understand...why u know, because he was not neglecting her in any way. He was working when she was not around or sleeping not like working away when she is near asking for his attention. There is a difference. And if she wanted she could have worked too when he wasn't there. So I won't call his working being sneaky! He was very open about it, he knew she knew he was working. He was simply smug about it.
What I feel is she thought he will crib & give in slowly but didn't realise he can be so thunderous in his rage. She thought she will get away just like she did everytime with Suraj. She had no idea that Shaan would be so volatile. But hopefully she learnt her lesson. All her life no body has said something so strong or has been mean to her in any way be it her parents or Suraj. She is defiant that way & for the 1st time in her life she faced an equal of hers. It will take a while for her to grasp this.



oh i agree. i wasn't saying him working was sneaky. just saying that she was upset at it and claimed it to be sneaky as she pointed out when he asked her if she called ram.

so the argument was if she felt that to be sneaky. how could she even think that this transfer would be anything else.

the more i read all of this and the more i look back at the updates/analysis...

the more i'm reminded of paula's words about them...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ok will be back after a couple of hours, phir se majdoori pe jaana hai! It was pleasure talking to u all girls. Carry on the brainstorm 😃 will catch up later.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

DJ the teens or tweens (no disrespect to them at all) have a rosy idea about marriage & life & their Prince Charming. They think the Prince only romance & sweep the wives off of their feet & is there at their beck & call.

But real life is very different & we who have faced it all know it better. A Man like Shaan would not react the way everyone thinks by being apologetic & sorry & asking for forgiveness from Khanak. A guy like that reacts a very different way & I have seen men like him. So that rosy tint in not there covering my eyes.
I had an uncle like him & my aunt was no where even near to Khanak in any way. She always gave in to him but still he is a total 'akroo'! The fights went on for months & my aunt would try her level best to sort it out but he wouldn't budge. In front of others he would talk to her like nothing has happened but the moment the guests left he would be back to square one.
Shaan may not be as bad as my uncle but he is atleast 10% of him. And here his action is justified as well.



Well said. This is so true in many cases. I feel both have strong characters, they need to stay strong. And being strong does not mean being stubborn, being strong also means admitting fault when wrong, admitting a mistake, when one is made. Shaan has been hurt and insulted by actions, Khanak by words. I feel actions hurt more than words.

Khanak should admit her mistake with actions, and Shan could do same with words, in his mind he has already done that. So the onus should be on Khanak.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: lghosh

DJ the teens or tweens (no disrespect to them at all) have a rosy idea about marriage & life & their Prince Charming. They think the Prince only romance & sweep the wives off of their feet & is there at their beck & call.

But real life is very different & we who have faced it all know it better. A Man like Shaan would not react the way everyone thinks by being apologetic & sorry & asking for forgiveness from Khanak. A guy like that reacts a very different way & I have seen men like him. So that rosy tint in not there covering my eyes.
I had an uncle like him & my aunt was no where even near to Khanak in any way. She always gave in to him but still he is a total 'akroo'! The fights went on for months & my aunt would try her level best to sort it out but he wouldn't budge. In front of others he would talk to her like nothing has happened but the moment the guests left he would be back to square one.
Shaan may not be as bad as my uncle but he is atleast 10% of him. And here his action is justified as well.





the sadder part is that ive seen and met people who live in such delusions still. and not they aren't the teens or tweens. grown woman. who've been out in the real world. lose one great guy after another. and then they wonder why they dont have a relationship or anything steady.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well said. This is so true in many cases. I feel both have strong characters, they need to stay strong. And being strong does not mean being stubborn, being strong also means admitting fault when wrong, admitting a mistake, when one is made. Shaan has been hurt and insulted by actions, Khanak by words. I feel actions hurt more than words.

Khanak should admit her mistake with actions, and Shan could do same with words, in his mind he has already done that. So the onus should be on Khanak.


Perfectly put!! 👏👏👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the sadder part is that ive seen and met people who live in such delusions still. and not they aren't the teens or tweens. grown woman. who've been out in the real world. lose one great guy after another. and then they wonder why they dont have a relationship or anything steady.


Chris so so true!! Yep have so many friends like this!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: christmas





the sadder part is that ive seen and met people who live in such delusions still. and not they aren't the teens or tweens. grown woman. who've been out in the real world. lose one great guy after another. and then they wonder why they dont have a relationship or anything steady.




Feel sorry for them , but this happens far too often than not.

Ok gotta get back to work. Will be back later in evening.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#38
Lana,.. not only Suraj... She thot she wld get away with Shaan as well...based on all their fights and he breaking the ice 99% of the time.. !
And as we discussed his work situation.. He was just to open about it.. and didnt even hide it.. & that was the reason i had mentioned sometime back guessing i was the only who was not ahppy with er attitude..

Infact she even made a fool of herself by calling Ram and letting him know she wld be back to work on the 7th.. She just does not think.! Does she...

Imagine the kind of impact Ram wld have..hearing her saying this.. That guy must be wondering what is going on here!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the girl is utterly hopeless...

ladies it has been fun and a pleasure. you guys are something else...

see you all later in the evening hopefully for a long update from aditee:) and another bone to pick on about the enigma that is kahank...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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"thalayvi"... when's the next update... long weekend for us.. so me going to read Casa and Katra Katra all over again... will have some evergreen lata and kishore da songs playing as the background score...

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