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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: SachDJ

Lana, always love it, when you come and post. You know for exactly same reasons that you said...Shaan is almost unreal...he is way too good, I am sure there are men like that, I have yet to meet one like that, I see a little bit of Shaan in a lot of them ,never all of it one person.

Khanak seems close to real...hers doubts, her ego, her pride, her stubborness. Khanak is spoilt, so is Shan. I think she is having tough time since the marriage, she not sure of herself...her confidence is faltering and it makes behave like that. She is unable to share her frustrations with Shan, and that makes it difficult relationship at this point...it will get better, as she realizes that Shan does not "want" her for just what he indicated for marriage, but a lot more than that. She is wary and scared of being let down and hurt.
They both need to open up and share. Men don't talk about it, actions are speaking on Shan's behalf that he really cares, she probably scared to assume anything of those. And that is her weakness and insecurity. Only Shaan can fix it.
Edited: forgot to add, I love them both.


DJ ... i will kinda disagree with you here... Its not difficult at all to share her feeling with Shaan.. Shaan has been there with her thru thick and thin.. & he lets her rant , takes in her Tantrums, pampers her .. etc etc... without an uff... ..Time n again i have said he has nutured this relation.. He wants her to talk and even pinpointed ot all.. The question here is She is the one with issue who does not want to a dman thing about it..Soory to say.. It time she shld have moved on from now but barely 4 days & she is on guilt trip..🤢 Hideous in my dictionary..

I understand it not easy for her to accept it overnight.. But see and at least acknowledge it.. I see neither of it.. When she cannot even see it.. Ack.. ing or acceptance is Far sighted.. She is one maha confused soul...who does not know what she wants... ! & who has dug her own grave of uncertainties..! She just does not want to see the brighter side of it !

In short.. She does not deserve this Shantanu Gujral... Give him... to me.. now.. I want this Shaan... Big time.. !

Again my point of view.. Do not mean to hurt anybody's sentiments..!!



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Posted: 14 years ago
Will there me a 87C soon ... some more details ke sath?

Ye dil mange more!!!!

~Cheers,
Dish
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: purvimeh


DJ ... i will kinda disagree with you here... Its not difficult at all to share her feeling with Shaan.. Shaan has been there with her thru thick and thin.. & he lets her rant , takes in her Tantrums, pampers her .. etc etc... without an uff... ..Time n again i have said he has nutured this relation.. He wants her to talk and even pinpointed ot all.. The question here is She is the one with issue who does not want to a dman thing about it..Soory to say.. It time she shld have moved on from now but barely 4 days & she is on guilt trip..🤢 Hideous in my dictionary..

I understand it not easy for her to accept it overnight.. But see and at least acknowledge it.. I see neither of it.. When she cannot even see it.. Ack.. ing or acceptance is Far sighted.. She is one maha confused soul...who does not know what she wants... ! & who has dug her own grave of uncertainties..! She just does not want to see the brighter side of it !

In short.. She does not deserve this Shantanu Gujral... Give him... to me.. now.. I want this Shaan... Big time.. !

Again my point of view.. Do not mean to hurt anybody's sentiments..!!



I agree with you, this Shan is outtaa this world...I want him too...Khanak ko koi chance mat do...😊
I don't know why she feels guilty, I am not in her shoes... I am just trying to imagine here and probably not convincing enough.
I do think your points are valid...however I inclined to give her some leeway for her moving on, She is trying, in her way... Lucky her, that this Shaan is being so tolerant, it is unusual, but then this Shaan is unusual. She does come with her "emotinal baggage"
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Posted: 14 years ago

HAILAAa

Ad..main bolu...please make my life easier..shall email you my address..come over and knife me...that death is just easier than this slow tarture...hey raaam... btw..Lana and Dj loved reading your takes..
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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with you, this Shan is outtaa this world...I want him too...Khanak ko koi chance mat do...😊
I don't know why she feels guilty, I am not in her shoes... I am just trying to imagine here and probably not convincing enough.
I do think your points are valid...however I inclined to give her some leeway for her moving on, She is trying, in her way... Lucky her, that this Shaan is being so tolerant, it is unusual, but then this Shaan is unusual. She does come with her "emotinal baggage"

DJ.. ..u really think she is trying.. GIVE ME A BREAK !!! If she was she wld not have reacted the way she is.. She wld not be on guilt trip but ack her new relation..taken a step.. rather than lash out on him day in and out .. She does not even let go of him in her sleep !

& By the way.. Thuje sharma nahi aati.. chori chupi sneaking in to see what ur di and Jiju are doing in the room.. Even bai and Ada walked out.. Shameless kahanki ! 😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
Hahahahaha
I loved the part where he says 'Will you go... in Boston?'
SO like a man!
You confess to murder and they will ask so the movie you watched before was good?
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Posted: 14 years ago
I agree with you, this Shan is outtaa this world...I want him too...Khanak ko koi chance mat do...😊
I don't know why she feels guilty, I am not in her shoes... I am just trying to imagine here and probably not convincing enough.
I do think your points are valid...however I inclined to give her some leeway for her moving on, She is trying, in her way... Lucky her, that this Shaan is being so tolerant, it is unusual, but then this Shaan is unusual. She does come with her "emotinal baggage"

DJ.. u really think she is trying.. If she was she wld not have reacted the way she is.. She wld not be on guilt trip but ack her new relation..taken a step.. rather than lash out on him day in and out .. She does not even let go of him in her sleep !

& By the way.. Thuje sharma nahi aati.. chori chupi sneaking in to see what ur di and Jiju are doing in the room.. Even bai and Ada walked out.. Shameless kahanki ! 😃

Yeh khud itne besharam hai, bechare bai aur ada had to walk out...hadd hai!! Mein to sirf Saali hoon.
I know so many girls like this Khanak, they have the best hubbys and they cannot appreciate it, strangely, all these gals are really nice, I mean they are great girlfriends,, they are really good freinds too, and I really like them, for some reason, the relationship with hubby is different, I don't get it...Ouch
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Posted: 14 years ago
DJ its nothing to do with loving both of them! Its like loving both ur kids but when it comes to point out who went wrong a mom always does it, isn't it? That too for the betterment of the kid who erred. It doesn't matter whether we love one or both its just saying who is wrong here.
Khanak would have induced my sympathy big time if I did see she is making her best efforts to extend a hand towards Shaan in some way, trying to make amends in some way to rectify her wrongdoing, to open up in some way to him to make him understand why she did what she did! But not once I see her trying to take a median or make an effort to patch up.
She is high handed, totally spoilt, moody, sulking away whereas Shaan though adamant, proud, stubborn, egoistic is doing all things possible to come forward in his own way when she needs him, when he is seeing she is riled up, upset, anxious or angry!! Atleast he is making some efforts!
He didn't need to be concerned about her but he is & told her to go with Pradeep along with his phone, woke her up to remind her to visit her family, went there to bring her back & meet her parents, did whatever to soothe her in the night & even accepted he is wrong & cause of all her discomfort...seriously never thought I will see this side of Shaan but I did! But am waiting to see an effort yet to be made from Khanak.
She is feeling bad for Suraj, nobody wanted her to pine for him for the rest of her life, its natural for some1 to move on keeping the memories treasured in a safe corner of one's mind. But here she really forgot about him? I thought she will be reminded of the disparity between Suraj & Shaan, between his family & Shaan's almost all the time. Ok I understand she was enveloped in the vibrant warmth of Shaan but why take it out on him when she realised it was her mistake? if she had shared with him I would have understood but here she stood him responsible for her upheaval state of mind. A big mistake if u ask me!
I feel like taking a duster & dusting those cobwebs & dirt all piled up in the corners of her mind!!
Anyway to each her own I guess. As I said its just my opinion!! Not meant to hurt anyone.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Oye Saaz medam tu yehan kya kar rahi hai?? R u going to update tonight or not?? 😃 Waiting for that ride on the jeep!! 😍
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Lana... bingo to every word... Very well put... A second mistake she created...! Big big time.. ! Sigh*

I really want to see a change in that women now..

& its not like Shaan who will not hear her out..or be upset abt it.. He knows she is coming with a baggage.. He has accepted her with the baggage.. even made efforts to make her open up... but ...in vain

Trust me the day she does that he will wipe all away from her... She just needs to take that step..! Again All in My POV here... !

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