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Posted: 14 years ago
Exactly my point !
She expects him to read her mind...Kya hai wo?? Mind read karne wali spl powers wala vampire???
She thinks he will discontinue the marriage in 6 months...Is she giving him reasons not to?? Koi aur hota toh 2 din pursure karke hi bhaag gaya hota with this attitude...
I m annoyed at her behaviour...Ajeeb hai !
Itni hi problem hai toh nahi karni thi shaadi...kisne bola...Ussi time snub kar diya hota and parents ko bol diya hota ki m not interested toh m sure they wudnt have forced the marriage on her...
Wat if she had married Nirav?? Wud she behave this way with him??
Just coz she knows he pursued her and he is attracted to her...So she will take him for granted and behave like such a wacko ?😕😕😕 Wow !
And he shud be the one getting worked up that he was not the first man in her life...Instead here she is the one bitter about this being her 2nd marriage...Its sumthing like...She is miffed with him that - "Why didnt you meet me before I met Suraj"😕😕
Bingo!! 👏👏👏 Wonderfully put!! Main thesis likh rahi hoon aur tu ne itne chhote para mein samjha diya! 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
I think, she will need time to open up

Remember even wid Sooraj, she took her time...

Shaan is way too demandin n impatient, wants everythin quickly by hook or crook! Hence the misunderstandings!

I think it's coz of this that when she tried to open up she retracts immediately
No Neha with Suraj she was the one who took the lead, she pursued him, she was the talkative one, she used to chatter away & he quietly listened to her, she did the antics but he smilingly accepted it...she wasn't this quiet! There was a back & forth discussion with Purvi & me on this exact thing. I wanted to know if she was that talkative then what made her so silent & quiet? Being reserve is another thing but being quiet is another thing. So Suraj's death brought in this transformation, understandable! But she can't be like this in a new marriage, her husband does not have that much of time, patience or understanding to read her mind all the time.
Open flow of discussion is required to sort out this mess. Sulking is not going to help.
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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with Lana nd Vandu, kahank is beeing too rude, she wud haved waitied for a while nd then paid, shaan was nt running away, she is just married nd nxt day she transfers 5l in is acnt !!

come on khanak, u knw marriage dsnt wrk like that, u had experianced it before !!
I didnt expect this frm her 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
oye this Shanak are worse than Mr. & Mrs. Smith... war of words... and that too so harsh...


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Posted: 14 years ago
U girls are intelligent spunky and articulate
What an amazing combination
U are not afraid to speak ur minds
U are not afraid to critique
U critique with the same passion that u drool and gush
What an amazing group of readers I have
I cannot imagine where this FF would be without u all

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: lghosh

her husband does not have that much of time, patience or understanding to read her mind all the time.

No one does yaar ! Why the hell should they !!
She is not even telling them the issues she had...!
Koi sant mahatma nahi hota...Ki bina kahe sab samaj jaaye...
Uski 1st marriage hai...Not 20th marriage...! Even if 20th marriage hoti toh bhi tolerate nahi karta koi😕
If she graces him with her do shabd on WTH her problem with life is...Then koi kuch sochega na !!
Usne PHD on Widow Psychology toh kiya nahi hai !!😕
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: lghosh

I think, she will need time to open up

Remember even wid Sooraj, she took her time...

Shaan is way too demandin n impatient, wants everythin quickly by hook or crook! Hence the misunderstandings!

I think it's coz of this that when she tried to open up she retracts immediately

No Neha with Suraj she was the one who took the lead, she pursued him, she was the talkative one, she used to chatter away & he quietly listened to her, she did the antics but he smilingly accepted it...she wasn't this quiet! There was a back & forth discussion with Purvi & me on this exact thing. I wanted to know if she was that talkative then what made her so silent & quiet? Being reserve is another thing but being quiet is another thing. So Suraj's death brought in this transformation, understandable! But she can't be like this in a new marriage, her husband does not have that much of time, patience or understanding to read her mind all the time.
Open flow of discussion is required to sort out this mess. Sulking is not going to help.


Agreed her behaviour regardin payin back was absurd n kiddish

But i think she's still not comin to terms with the new entry n new phase in her life

It's all new, n Shaan n her have never been cordial much

It will take time for them to actually have "the talk"

Abhi to sirf shuruwat hai

As Paula said, She'll tame him n he'll make her live life..
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: aditee

U girls are intelligent spunky and articulate
What an amazing combination
U are not afraid to speak ur minds
U are not afraid to critique
U critique with the same passion that u drool and gush
What an amazing group of readers I have
I cannot imagine where this FF would be without u all

oye, I thoguht u r off to ur naukri , nd here u r reading our comments, update kaun dega phir? :P:P
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: togepe30

No one does yaar ! Why the hell should they !!

She is not even telling them the issues she had...!
Koi sant mahatma nahi hota...Ki bina kahe sab samaj jaaye...
Uski 1st marriage hai...Not 20th marriage...! Even if 20th marriage hoti toh bhi tolerate nahi karta koi😕
If she graces him with her do shabd on WTH her problem with life is...Then koi kuch sochega na !!
Usne PHD on Widow Psychology toh kiya nahi hai !!😕

aisa kuch hai kya ??😕😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
No one does yaar ! Why the hell should they !!
She is not even telling them the issues she had...!
Koi sant mahatma nahi hota...Ki bina kahe sab samaj jaaye...
Uski 1st marriage hai...Not 20th marriage...! Even if 20th marriage hoti toh bhi tolerate nahi karta koi😕
If she graces him with her do shabd on WTH her problem with life is...Then koi kuch sochega na !!
Usne PHD on Widow Psychology toh kiya nahi hai !!😕
Now finally u made me laugh!! 🤣 My point exactly! Muh kholke bol usko teri iraada kya thi!! But no she is saying on top of this yeah maybe it was for s** & it was from my parent's behalf who could afford to pay for this 2nd marriage! 😕 I mean why!! What will he gain by getting the money from ur parents? He knows its ur 2nd marriage & he willingly married u, didn't do any favor!! Then get a grip woman & face the scenario & make it work. U were a willing party too in this!
Adi kya googly chhoda hai tu ne early in the morning!! Dimaag ghum gaya poora!!

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