Hats off-Sky the Limit!!!For Our forums patience

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Posted: 14 years ago
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HI friends., wish u all a very happy new year 2011
please dont skip this since this post is long...
have been observing that so much troublesome posts were made by certain forum members (or so called members)
donno....why ..may be ..trying to damage our love for yashashri.
sabotage our happiness on celebrating 200 episodes.
.plus recongition for ShaNak as one of the most popular couples of 2010 at many places a proof of their acting talents...whatever is the reason ...they are the best to reason out...
We people never ever discuss any actors private lives here.
.I have been in this forum for nearly as old as the show.
, whenever some one tried it also immediately she was corrected and it never was put in separte threads ..like certain forums..openly discussing these things..
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Now time for taking pride in our selves
I was feeling so glad that we have stood up like a rock in supporting following India forum rules strictly without violations ./opposing strongly
bashing against yashashri who is a very good actress sincerely doing her job and nothing else.
We people are clearly very mature enough to distinguish between professional/personal lives.
Let us see how much we have endured during the past ten days especially:
we had bad news kt was ill at peak time of the story..We knew these things are not in our hands so tried to maintain calm and sincerely wished him speedy recovery
Now what we are told:
1.We have been told baselessly that we are prevoking others..
, where as we have never ever done that..
always dragged into verbal wars ..never we did it first...
we being humans might have reacted but never used any bad lagauge or made fun of any actor/actress...going to their fourms.,and posting threads..
2.On the other hand if people enter post as they wish use damaging words and even use fowl language in pms we have been magnamious to pardon them knowing fully well they are asking fake sorries and are not truly apologising..
3..this drama has been a regualr feature., coming here and posting bad ., acting as though apologising and getting away easily.,
then after a while coming back and repeating the same things..or bashing in their forums..
What does the sorry really mean then?
donno How long we can bear patienlty since we are human too..especially with professional natutanki... sorry requests.... without any real meaning to it...But still we are patient .............
3.And why are they targetting Yashashri in particular? and this time they have made fun of another physically challenged girl (character name Bharti)
who gave them this right to make fun of that poor girl character Bharti..
What did she do to them to deserve this..i ws extremly pained to read those remarks.
,and what about physically challenged peopel who are members of india forumsIf they read what would they feel.
They are the people writing so badly stalking our happiness but we are told we are stalking someone....
..No never we have done this.
...we are not interested in others at all.
But if they attempt to breach India-forums code of conduct even within their forum walls then we can report by all means
That is not stalking at all, but basic right of a member to demand justice..politely following codes of conduct..
they must obey India forum rules...they are not special here.. and cant bash anyone...as they wish
None of us have posted anything on any actress/actor of their show that it self is a proof as to who is mature.
4....So hats off girls we have been extremely patient so far...replicas of Sita maiyyas...
Now have a request to make to all of u..
1 report strongly/seriously/fearlessly any such posts first by pressing report button and making comments as to what made u report..this reaches India forums desk.
next to moderators of our forum veena., tomiko and dancingdoll ....if u read them in our forum
and to the concerned moderators if u read them in otherforums
.,any discussion of private lives., any bashing against actors etc., Be a pratigya..Dont have fear....But be careful in ur reports using right choice of words..dont abuse in reports....
2if u get prevoking/obscene /unwanted pms dont reply to them urself..but report them to moderators., sending them a copy in pm as well.
3Avoid internal fighting at any cost..Unity is strength
..dont fight with our own people..even if they are fans of someone u are not comfortable with.,respect their views..
Sky has been the limit for our patience..and hats off for every one for being so patient...Be brave in standing up and fighitng not verbally but by reporting...
I know it is tiring to report but let us try it with full heart and trust moderators would be unbiased..
I am not a moderator I know it very well.,i am also a forum member like u nothing else.
but still i wanted to write this since many youngsters are feeling bad and asking over pms..when will this stop?...what to do?how to report etc., or feeling shy/fear to report
that is why put up a long post.
.Love u all girls ............U are extremley patient..and moderators have told they are looking into matters let us trust and wait in patience.
Have no fear...Just believe in urself..and also forum..follow the rules and if u happen to see some one disobeying some where just report..
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-YasharanArshi- thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well said Shriya .... Guess some people cant see success & recognition which RBO & SHANAK deserve ...

Believe in RBO ... and as Shriya said .. United we stand for RBO ....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well said Shriya....We should respect all acters and all fans....As members of the RBO forum & IF, we should respect everyone's prefereance too....We all want a peaceful forum, so we have to do our bit to make it happen😊....
Special mention to our moderaters who have been working so hard to resolve all issues....Lets make their burden a little lighter😊.....
Love this show and this forum.....Group hug all🤗......
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thnx for the post didi!!....even though u r not a MOD yet....u r a very imp member of the forum...
as May said, Group-Hug!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well said Shriya.....

I have always loved this place due to its peaceful and friendly environment....

You have put everything very well and the only thing that I would like to re-emphasize, to all who read this, is ---

We never talk about private lives.....my dear friends, actors are human beings after all and they have an equal right to make mistakes, affairs, fights, friendships and everything a human does .....they have a right to exercise choice in personal equations no matter what their reel story is.......please try to understand that and please do not talk or mock about ANY actors personal life...... when I see such posts it really disturbs me because it simply reflects the immaturity of the member and forum in general, which our forum is fortunately not...................
Please have some sensitivity and please do not encroach on someone's personal space............

Above that......we'll take it as a resolution this year-- not to answer rubbish posts that are clearly from a disturbing element and simply report it......................answering a post keeps it on page 1 which gives it unnecessary and undeserved mileage........

Love You All........................................Group hug from me too..........!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very well said shriya..
i love this forum..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very well written Shriya! Gosh... what all happened just in the last 2-3 days!

I will only second your request to all my friends here... if you see a post whose only aim is to provoke anger, do not reply to that person directly on the thread. Just click 'report' and mods will do their job.

Thanks.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Very Well Written Shriya!

I have been meaning to write something along the same lines...

my request is to everyone the same, please please refrain from commenting actor's personal life.

Believe me no one wants that. moreover you are pushing ur actors away from u as fans and we never get to see them interact as people on tv or in pictures and as you all know we demand that. We want to get close to our fav. actors and actresses and if we interfere or comment on their personal life, we only push them away.

Also please respect your fellow members, we have done that in the past and i'm sure we can do it again. sure we don't agree but that doesn't mean we need to be harsh. I have learned that if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all and i think we should all do that.

Again great job Shriya! I hope my fellow friends would agree too and work best to show everyone that we can be people and welcoming.

rooj
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Good job Shriya! Definitely we should do whatever we can to keep this forum as wonderful as it has been for most of us! Reporting damaging posts is very important! So I think we must follow this consistently so as to maintain the decorum, decency and warmth that we have all become used to, and cherish dearly! Love this forum!!!! Your post is really timely with the relevant steps of action to take given clearly! I am sure it will help make reporting easier now! Thank You!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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wow... shriya.... amazing post.. totally agree with u dear

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