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Manita

@-Manita-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Friends.......I am here with the Discussion of the week.....

With so many new entries in the show and the story taking unexpected twists and turns, I just felt why not revisit our journey with Shanak.....

We all have seen how Shanak have come a long way in their relationship.
It started with curiosity and amusement turned into hatred followed by friendship and then love......

Whatever be the emotion and relationship between Shanak, since the day they met first, there was an instant connect between the two.....
as if they were meant to be.........
they did move on, happily though........

Shaan had always been irresponsible, crazy and childish......he was never a typical hero who carried a bagful of virtues with him, and he was termed selfish by Khanak herself as she thought he only cares for himself in this world.......
Khanak was always upfront, sometimes rude when she spoke straight, she was adamant in not taking money after Suraj's accident, and also when she decided she is not leaving K- house as Shaan is her 'pati'....
She makes fun of him, calls him burthal and nazuk.........
still they both connect.................

Relationships are nothing but journeys........ throughout the course - we keep changing, we evolve and become mature with each experience..... we become more stronger, responsible and intelligent with each interaction we go through or sometimes we take a negative turn and become opposites to the above..... my last question is related to that.

My questions for discussion are -

1. What connects Khanak to Shaan ? Is it just because she is married to him? or Is there something more - an attraction that brings her closer to him ? in short, what attracts her to Shaan?

2. What makes Shaan love Khanak more than anything in the world ? ....why does he find peace when he is with her?

3. Have Shaan and Khanak evolved as individuals in their journey? Have they changed in any way - negative or positive and how ?........plz explain....

I hope I am making some sense.....don't want to sound like CVs who wanted to depict something else and which turned out to be something else altogether.......😆

loves to all
Manita

Edited by rbo_fan - 14 years ago

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karishma

@shanakyasharan

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Posted: 14 years ago

awesome blossom post manita...very very well put together

so here goes my answers
1. u know frst of all khanak has always accepted shaan the way he is........she did bring in changes fr the better of him but always liked n then loved him fr the budthal he is

so the thing that attracts khanak to shaan is his careless cum loving cum responsible yet immature attitude

donno if my answer is that right but she likes him n accepst him the way he is

2.shaan loves khanak fr the way she is to...........wen he frst saw her the instinct thing that atrrcted him to her was her bubbly n innocent nature

she was always that different gal for him..........very different from all the regular grls he was ever associated wid n he too mentioned that many a times

the thing that makes him love her the most is her simplicity yet strong n adamant nature

3.yes both have equally evolved as individuals

from the time v frst saw shaan to todays time he has changed leaps n bounds.frst it was all abt him n his wrld around but 2 day its his wife frst n ppl around him....he has become a fairly responsible guy

khanak too has evolved leaps n bpounds much much more than shaan....................from the bubbly gal in dulwadi to the strong fighter fr her surajs death.........she was a strong lady n still is

she has always kept herfamily shaans family n very1 b4 her ownself.
she is a fighter..........

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iluvmanar

@iluvmanar

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ans. 2 the q. no. 1: I think the cheerful attitude of both connects 2 each other. at their 1st meeting they were teasing each other and their was a gr8 rapport between them. I think both were naughty and this clicked.

ans. 2 : I think shaan can share his thoughts so esailiy 2 khnak. her caring attitude 2wards him attracts him more. and 1 thing that attract him more is "khanak's caring attitude 2wards the person around her sacrificing her own benefits.

ans. 3: THey have changed not in their values but they changed 4 each other's likings. khanak tries to make happy shaan and vice versa. none of them never changed their dignity.

I hope it wasn't so boring.....😆

per sau baat ki ek baat, we luv our Shanak and will always do. No one can change our luv 2wards shanak....❤️

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Sneha Patro

@snehapatro

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

1st Q Ans: though he is careless sometimes he cares her a lot..whenever khanak used to runaway from house....always shaan used to go and bring her back....and ofcourse both are naughty which connects them....
2nd Q Ans: shaan has changed a lot only becoz of khanak....what attracts him a lot is simplicity caring and true nature of khanak.....
3rd Q Ans: both have changed a lot....first they hated each other and now they are in love..both are loving and caring to each other and becoz of khanak shaan has become responsible person...

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sana

@_sana.Magic_

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Posted: 14 years ago

Over the time Khanak has understood that it ws Shaan's immaturity which made him commit so many follies & mistakes but he's not bad at heart...on the contrary he always tried to behave peoperly with Khanak even after their disastrous marriage which is now a blessing....& he didnt kill Suraj purposely & durng her marriage also he helped her alot & he did stuffs which gave Khanak a reason to smile & even after Suraj's death he just wanted to give the money so that he can compensate their loss & the remarriage was for Khanak's welfare only....& Shaan has evolved as a character & a person & he taught Khanak english so that she dsnt feel inferior & many other stuffs which made Khanak feel attracted towards him 2]Shaan was mesmerized by Khanak when e saw her 4 the first time but didnt recognize his feelings & he didnt need 2 also but when he got married to her he understood that she is a very beautiful person & can handle all situations with brevity & she even stood with Shaan when no1 believed him except his dad...she not only helped him develop mentally but also emotionally & he became matured & it was only cozz of Khanak that he earned his first salary[rs300]totally on his own credit....so she's a support system for him 3]Both Khanak & Shaan has evolved as an actor & character..they have faced many challenges in life & gone through the worst & now r finally united....

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Manita

@-Manita-

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Posted: 14 years ago

awesome answers everyone.....am posting to bring this thread forward........

will discuss laterz as I need to go right now....

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dr swati

@supportkt

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Posted: 14 years ago

1. What connects Khanak to Shaan ? Is it just because she is married to him? or Is there something more - an attraction that brings her closer to him ? in short, what attracts her to Shaan? i thnk its pure love vch connect thm

after suraj's death dhulwadi ppl hd made her life hell........bt shaan brought all smiles 4 hr

n khanak wid hr he realizd meaning of lve/care/responsblty/family/bonding..........he start loving love

2. What makes Shaan love Khanak more than anything in the world ? ....why does he find peace when he is with her?

thy r bonded wid pure feelings.......don need nethng else fm each other except love

khank is nt a greedy wife n shaan nt a donting hubby

thy r so so comfortable n tht so naturaly........despite of all togethr diff bakground thy r so well connected

shaan alwaz says"hum dono ki soch kitni milti hai"

3. Have Shaan and Khanak evolved as individuals in their journey? Have they changed in any way - negative or positive and how ?........plz explain....

thy r in very early stages of getting changed............bt in couse of time thy vl .......n in positive direction for sure

I hope I am making some sense.....don't want to sound like CVs who wanted to depict something else and which turned out to be something else altogether.......😆

loves to all
Manita

Edited by drswati - 14 years ago

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destinylove

@destinylove

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rbo_fan
Hey Friends.......I am here with the Discussion of the week.....

With so many new entries in the show and the story taking unexpected twists and turns, I just felt why not revisit our journey with Shanak.....

We all have seen how Shanak have come a long way in their relationship.
It started with curiosity and amusement turned into hatred followed by friendship and then love......

Whatever be the emotion and relationship between Shanak, since the day they met first, there was an instant connect between the two.....
as if they were meant to be.........
they did move on, happily though........

Shaan had always been irresponsible, crazy and childish......he was never a typical hero who carried a bagful of virtues with him, and he was termed selfish by Khanak herself as she thought he only cares for himself in this world.......
Khanak was always upfront, sometimes rude when she spoke straight, she was adamant in not taking money after Suraj's accident, and also when she decided she is not leaving K- house as Shaan is her 'pati'....
She makes fun of him, calls him burthal and nazuk.........
still they both connect.................

Relationships are nothing but journeys........ throughout the course - we keep changing, we evolve and become mature with each experience..... we become more stronger, responsible and intelligent with each interaction we go through or sometimes we take a negative turn and become opposites to the above..... my last question is related to that.

My questions for discussion are -

1. What connects Khanak to Shaan ? Is it just because she is married to him? or Is there something more - an attraction that brings her closer to him ? in short, what attracts her to Shaan?
less like a child fun loving nature though much responsbile and matured than him..It is this similarity in temperments that attracted khnak to shaan....plus she realises he is a good hearted person ..in initially definitely shw as duty bound to him as a wife...but later she slwoly understood he is an innocent child at heart and she is also more or the deep..
she ahs also seen his love and care for her in many occasiosn like defending ehr to his motehr.,helping her out with mangal/hetal.,teacingehr english.,etc..so she is slowly attractedbased on his qualities..,

2. What makes Shaan love Khanak more than anything in the world ? ....why does he find peace when he is with her?

yes i think he senses that she is the one who loves him unconditionally without any expectations..and he can be what he is without bothering about anything only with her...he also saw a glimpse of her love and support when he visited theinvestors...she was even prepared to forego her long practice of being a vegetarian for his sake..

These things have clealrly bowled his mind./heart and makes him feel that she is the only one for him... and she is also a fun loving person like him...and also a family oriented girl a trait he ahs not enjoyd before...

Have Shaan and Khanak evolved as individuals in their journey? Have they changed in any way - negative or positive and how ?........plz explain....

i think shaan has still a long way to go compared to khanak..he is till a innocent child at heart waiitng to be loved and ampered always..

..But guessf rom the beginning he has been confused.,irresponsible so it is not easy to change over night..though he did make some attempts like bagging projects etc., but could not ssutain his focus because oflack of interest.... on the othe hand khanak has imporvoed a lot compared to shaan..

she came o mumbai as a young bride with literally knowing nothing.

.but once she entered she tried to fulfill her duties., did not force herself on husband knowing his intrest was else where.

, learnt to slowly win over akshay bha and father n law...slowly but surely gained a unshakable place for her through her patience nd sincerity..

in due curse she had her hubbys love as wll..she has become a resposuible young woman who knows very well that family is vy importan in life..she i also making shaan grow up as a matured person

I hope I am making some sense.....don't want to sound like CVs who wanted to depict something else and which turned out to be something else altogether.......😆

loves to all
Manita