DOTW:Would you have criticized Rama if.... - Page 5

It is a very tricky situation, And Like Kal El said, the best thing for Rama to do when Avadhis were suspecting Sita, was to abdicate the throne and go with his wife. Would have Taught the Avadhis to stop suspecting ppl
😛 . As much as Raj Dharam was his commitment, protecting his wife's dignity and honor was also important, considering how holy and pure Sita was.

Originally posted by: AngelTeen

For me, Sita's agni pareeksha was unncessary but even if Ram had to ask her to do it to satisfy Ayodhaya and carry out his Raj dharam, then there was no need for him to exile Sita or ask for shapat...that is when one has to criticise him...

He should have balanced raj dharam and his duty towards his wife..

Originally posted by: Rajnish_Kumar

Sita herself gave agnipariksha and it was not unnecessary. We cannot judge situation of those times with today. Ram is not called Maryada Purushottam for nothing. He always respected the existing tradition (Maryada) of that time.To prove her chastity Sita has successfully undertaken Agnipariksha. This was necessory for her to be accepted as a queen of Ayodhya. Ram supported Agnipariksha as it was only way to prove her chastity though he never ever doubted sita. Agni Pariksha was the noblest of the Maryada (best tradition) prevailing at that time and only very chaste, pious and pure person could have passed this test.it has religious sanctity and while other evidence might lack corroborative witnesses, Agni Pariksha was performed by Sita in front of entire army. Agni Pariksha, can neither be ignored or rejected by the King. So it was indeed necessory
Regarding Balance between RAj dharm and and duty towards wife it was not possible for this situation for a true maryada follower king. When people started attacking sita chastity Ram consulted Royal family regarding gossips. He has to satisfy his subjects in every way. This is the first duty of a king. The only credible evidence that need to be looked at was Agni Pariksha. While Sita has testified that to prove her loyalty and chastity she has successfully undertaken Agni Pariksha test, peoples argued that this age old ritual did not in any way certify the loyalty or chastity of any woman. It was true that it required some special skills but those skills in no way certify the loyalty or chastity of a female. They requested that this test for such purpose be abandoned and hence forth decision on such matters may be taken on the bases of physical evidence.😡. So Ram has no options left he has to go on taking such decision of which both ram and sita suffered. The tradision demanded this and he has to accept. Was there any alternative left where people could be satisfied. NO and so he bannished sita to satisfy avadhis.

Chandra bhaiya...Ramayan finish nahi hu aur aap ne apna ID aur cgs bhi change kar deye. kafi fast speed hai app ki!!!!!! Vrisha...nice one!!!

Rimi

Mei to aaj hi ID palti kar diya. Ramayan 3 din agey samapt ho geya. Vrish naam to doosra koi le liya woh hi mera first choice tha.

Lekin aap abhi bhi mujhe Chandra bhaiya naampe keh sekhta 😊 Sirf mujhe laRdki maat samjho mera avatar ke liye 😆

Originally posted by: Vrisha

Rimi

Mei to aaj hi ID palti kar diya. Ramayan 3 din agey samapt ho geya. Vrish naam to doosra koi le liya woh hi mera first choice tha.

Lekin aap abhi bhi mujhe Chandra bhaiya naampe keh sekhta 😊 Sirf mujhe laRdki maat samjho mera avatar ke liye 😆

Originally posted by: Vrisha

Rimi

Mei to aaj hi ID palti kar diya. Ramayan 3 din agey samapt ho geya. Vrish naam to doosra koi le liya woh hi mera first choice tha.

Lekin aap abhi bhi mujhe Chandra bhaiya naampe keh sekhta 😊 Sirf mujhe laRdki maat samjho mera avatar ke liye 😆

Oh! So, its Chandra Bhaiya!

I was searching for you and then realised you have changed your username . . .

Hmm . . .Vrisha (Vrishasena - Karna's son?)

Originally posted by: Vrisha

Rimi

Mei to aaj hi ID palti kar diya. Ramayan 3 din agey samapt ho geya. Vrish naam to doosra koi le liya woh hi mera first choice tha.

Lekin aap abhi bhi mujhe Chandra bhaiya naampe keh sekhta 😊 Sirf mujhe laRdki maat samjho mera avatar ke liye 😆

Wahi to. Looks like you were egerly waiting for Ramayan to finish so that aap apna username and cgs change kar sake!! But why did you change it. Kiya agar Ramayan finish ho gayi to aap Laxman ji n his family ke fan nahi rahe!??!!

Vrisha is a girl's name. isnt?? is that frm a serial? and who are those girls in your cgs???

By d way, would you like to let us know ur real name now? so that we can call you by that!!!!!! agar public mein nahi bolna to pm kar do, and i'll make sure ki use private hi rakhu!!😛

Well, hume to pata hai aap ladke ho, lekin ab koi aur newbie aap ko ladki mat samjhe!!😃 just like 'bharat' for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Chandra, you are Vrisha???😲 No wonder I could not recognize you. I thought you were a new member.😆

Originally posted by: _LalithaJanaki_

Chandra, you are Vrisha???😲 No wonder I could not recognize you. I thought you were a new member.😆

Di, he loves to give surprises!!! always!