Lord Ram is a GOD

Hey Kiran....dear like Purvi said u will find the explanations to this done very well by Vibhishna and Mandodari in the Doubts and Discussion thread!!!!! We all have put a lil bit of our input as to y we think it was necessary...and there are many POV's and many reasons that all make sense please do visit them dear..

Originally posted by: sam1903

kiran this topic has been raised before too
and yes i even don't feel that was injustice
even though
at times it feel why they got seprated but its a lesson for us people actually
tht should be understand by us...
he did all this for human race
if he sacrificed sita mata
then he himself suffered alot..
thing is tht ur cousin is not looking in that perspective...
his querry was very much obvious why he done this..
and to agree with this point we do need to come out from emotional sides..
as emotional human beings we at times overpowered by our emotions we do not look into the thing
which it trying to teach us...
so don't dishearten ur self
if your cousin get the learning angle of the ramayan then for sure he will understand...

Originally posted by: rupalip

hmm I agree with sam

n I said this before also

that it all happened to teach us all situations of life

SItaji is the first Single parent .

so its not necessary for a person to remarry or to die if single after marriage..

Ram-SIta both lived single for long time and took care of kids

She was maharani (Raja Rams wife) but still lived in ashram and never complained...

she dint opted living in Janaks house but lived in ashram all alone without family .........

and Ramji also dint married ....

Duties always comes first ...

there are times when we have to avoid our near n dear ones coz of duty ...

and He was Lord Ram... Maryada purushottam

how cld he disobey duties...Then again in valmiki ramayan

its written that

Sitaji wld live in exile according to her horo ..

someone predicted it before her marriage

so keeping this in mind

she always wanted to live in exile for sometime with Lord

we can say its destiny ...

no one can fight with fat e

Originally posted by: kiranraghu

Frnds!!

I am writing this topic to share my feelings with you. Sorry, if u feel the topic is a bit boring. When I am seeing Ramayan on 4th Feb, my cousin came to our home at that time. He asked what is happening in serial. I told that Ravan is dead and Vibhishan is weeping. He felt pity on Ravan and suddenly started arguing with me that Lord Ram has done faith to entire world except to his wife. I was shocked 😲and felt bitter in my heart as he is showing wrong on Lord Ram. I started arguing with him that how cud u say like that. Lord Ram loves his wife somuch and still today many of our elders bless newly married couple that their pair shud be like Sita Ram.

The point which he didn't like in Lord Ram is why had he sent his pregnant wife to exile by caring the words of a butler? Is this correct?

I answered him "Ram has given an oath to his ppl. at the time of Rajyabhishek (ceremony of adoring him as a king) that he wud rule the kingdom as per the commands of people and follow the path of dharma irrespective of his senses (kama, krodha, lobha, moha, mada, matsara). The butler had commented on Ram that king (Ram) has been going according to his feelings. When Ram had come to know abt. this, he felt very sad and even requests his bros. to take up the kingdom, so that he will go to exile with sita. The 3 bros. (Bharat, Laxman, Shatrughan) requested him not to do so bcoz. only Ram can do full justice to the role. So he decided to send sita to exile. He had done it only for the sake of his people and he suffered alot in his heart by separating from sita. He took all his feelings and senses in his control and accepted the fact.

Even Sita mata also know the mind of her husband and accepted the fact and took the responsibility of taking care of her children (the successors of Ikshvakul dynasty) If he had given oath to people means the oath is also given by Sita Mata to people bcoz. Sita & Ram are not at all different. Then she wud have definitely gone for exile for the sake of her husband's word."

Even then my cousin has not yet agreed with me. When I told this to my mother, she told me that Chintu (my cousin) had talked as an arrogant fellow. She gave her reason for sita exile in this way: "Sita has went for exile to Sage Valmiki hermitage becoz. Ramayan has to be written by him. It is a destiny decided by gods. Even though, Ram Sita doesn't stay together, their hearts are always together. If Ram don't love her & trust her, why wud he built a bridge across the ocean and go to Lanka and kill Ravan? He had done everything as per the customs of that period. (Tretayugam) . Ram has not only sent Sita , but also his happiness and personnel life to exile. He had taken care of people irrespective of his personnel life"

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I am posting this to u frnds, bcoz many people among us think in this way, by sharing with u , I will be happy in my mind. Sorry, if I have hurted any one of your feelings. My intention is only to tell that Ram has faced all the sorrows and pains for the welfare of the world., not to highlight my cousin's intentions.

Jai Shree Ram! Jai Shree Ram! Jai Shree Ram!