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Posted: 15 years ago
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Guyssssss i just would like to say ..... he is looking girls beauty and Figureee... and nothing else... do u remember guysss...when he elminateeee priya and charmiii ... he told themmmmm i cant see love or lustttttttttt in you...........😡 .... that's meannnn he is onlyyyy for .... lust relationship here lol😆 ... or something like this.......😡 he is not lookin Serat atallllllll ..... that for sure .... that's why in the begining .. he elminateeeee Sonia kaur ..... 😕... because she was not one of those like Dimpy ,nikung, or like harpreet ..who showofff their body ... sonia kaur was decent sanskariii type of girlllllll

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Posted: 15 years ago
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no yar, sonia kaur used to do a lot of bad mouthing......i was glad wen sonia was out
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Atleasttt she was better then themmmm
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: alishahprincess

Guyssssss i just would like to say ..... he is looking girls beauty and Figureee... and nothing else... do u remember guysss...when he elminateeee priya and charmiii ... he told themmmmm i cant see love or lustttttttttt in you...........😡 .... that's meannnn he is onlyyyy for .... lust relationship here lol😆 ... or something like this.......😡 he is not lookin Serat atallllllll ..... that for sure .... that's why in the begining .. he elminateeeee Sonia kaur ..... 😕... because she was not one of those like Dimpy ,nikung, or like harpreet ..who showofff their body ... sonia kaur was decent sanskariii type of girlllllll

Though I do not like Rahul, I must correct you..
He said he needs both love and lust..
And I salute him for his courage to be truthful on national TV.
There is absolutely nothing wrong in it.. Marriage has to have both mental and physical aspect. Without physical attraction marriage can not succeed.
Anyone who does not think so either is bluffing himself or need to see a psychiatrist..
And I will again say hats off to Rahul for saying he does not feel physcially attracted to those two ladies and hence can not marry.
Very few people can call a spade a spade.
And there is no reason to change his words to say he is only looking for lust.
and also why are we trying to force granny's choice of sankari type girl on him? It is his life and let him choose whether he wants sankari and modern/outgoing girl.. This is year 2010 and not 1810..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: akash08

Though I do not like Rahul, I must correct you..
He said he needs both love and lust..
And I salute him for his courage to be truthful on national TV.
There is absolutely nothing wrong in it.. Marriage has to have both mental and physical aspect. Without physical attraction marriage can not succeed.
Anyone who does not think so either is bluffing himself or need to see a psychiatrist..
And I will again say hats off to Rahul for saying he does not feel physcially attracted to those two ladies and hence can not marry.
Very few people can call a spade a spade.
And there is no reason to change his words to say he is only looking for lust.
and also why are we trying to force granny's choice of sankari type girl on him? It is his life and let him choose whether he wants sankari and modern/outgoing girl.. This is year 2010 and not 1810..

Ok … I was just saying my Point of View .. I am not Forcing Rahul to marry who don't he like😡 .. Let me Clear here😳 … the way you mentioned here … he is got full rights to complete his physical needs or lust… whatever….. So I don't agree with you because .. marrying someone is not only complete all your needs .. . it's also important your commitment .. to make the right decision .. .. that whether YOU live with that Person .. … the Person beauty is not all the requirements😳 ….for marrying Someone … For Example: if I say Harpreet or Dimpy is beautiful .. and she is the perfect bridge for Rahul or even Rahul thinks in the Same way .. if after marriage Rahul found out that …they can not be committed, she can't fullfill all the promise that she made it with him.. and also he found out that She don't even Care for him.. she never loved him ok Etccccc … …. Then beauty … it Dosent mean anything … or not even Exist … and this relationships not even long lasting .. and never works out… … 😳 ok i know this is 2010 not 1810.. 😃

Whatever Rahul said about love or Lust ... ok then what he is .. he is superman or somekind of a Actreeeee ... 😡 ... and he is not good lookin Atalllllllllllll .... so that mean he only for here physcially needsssssss ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: akash08

Though I do not like Rahul, I must correct you..
He said he needs both love and lust..
And I salute him for his courage to be truthful on national TV.
There is absolutely nothing wrong in it.. Marriage has to have both mental and physical aspect. Without physical attraction marriage can not succeed.
Anyone who does not think so either is bluffing himself or need to see a psychiatrist..
And I will again say hats off to Rahul for saying he does not feel physcially attracted to those two ladies and hence can not marry.
Very few people can call a spade a spade.
And there is no reason to change his words to say he is only looking for lust.
and also why are we trying to force granny's choice of sankari type girl on him? It is his life and let him choose whether he wants sankari and modern/outgoing girl.. This is year 2010 and not 1810..

SEX and LUST are a very small part of marriage ............ but not marriage as whole, and married ppl will be able to tell you more that for sure, physical attractiveness just last fr few mnts and then the reality kicks , Marriage is abt family , handling issues , being supportive , compromises , sacrifices ,kids and they upbringing ........................ when you look into all these I dnt see a single girl on that list who is matured enough to get married to Rahul as he not kind of a normal person he has too many Issues.
These days I feel that even if you tie a tree a saree............. he will wag his tail and try to kiss it 😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgurls

SEX and LUST are a very small part of marriage ............ but not marriage as whole, and married ppl will be able to tell you more that for sure, physical attractiveness just last fr few mnts and then the reality kicks , Marriage is abt family , handling issues , being supportive , compromises , sacrifices ,kids and they upbringing ........................ when you look into all these I dnt see a single girl on that list who is matured enough to get married to Rahul as he not kind of a normal person he has too many Issues.
These days I feel that even if you tie a tree a saree............. he will wag his tail and try to kiss it 😆😆

👏 I completly agree viv uuuuuuuuuuuu 👏👏👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgurls

SEX and LUST are a very small part of marriage ............ but not marriage as whole, and married ppl will be able to tell you more that for sure, physical attractiveness just last fr few mnts and then the reality kicks , Marriage is abt family , handling issues , being supportive , compromises , sacrifices ,kids and they upbringing ........................ when you look into all these I dnt see a single girl on that list who is matured enough to get married to Rahul as he not kind of a normal person he has too many Issues.
These days I feel that even if you tie a tree a saree............. he will wag his tail and try to kiss it 😆😆

oh god. so much gyans.. for what!!
who ever said physical attraction is only thing in marriage?
neither I said this nor Rahul said this..
what is the point of discussing by changing what one said and assume things as per your convinience?
he said both love and lust required.
love = mental (all that u think required)
lust = physical (all that I think also required along with love)
None said lust is the only requirement, so no point debating on something which I never said.
Also, I do not know him personally. Like all of you I also have image of him from media and BB show which probably says that he is an womaiser.
But the post is not to discuss Rahul or his character blah blah, it is just to state that his statement for marriage both love and lust required is correct.
Really, can not argue if you take it to another dimesnion and start putting facts based on your personal judgement of a person.. that is not logic.. that is pure emotion.. so I go silent.
Edited by akash08 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wah wah sonia kitniiiiiiiiiii sanskari thi.. itni keh shaadi ka form bharna zaroori samjha ma kay operation kay paison say.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Mahajun* can say whatever... Love AND Lust, Love OR Lust, ONLY Love, ONLY Lust... it is just an irrelevant detail and a diversion from the original idea, the idea being that the guy is on the track to getting a trophy wife, perhaps with the intention of covering up his closet homosexuality.

In general, the way I see it, saying that he couldn't arouse lustful feelings for the two girls was utterly disrespectful. He could've avoided that... I believe that this was what Gossip was trying to say as well. His reasoning was inherrently flawed when he started talking about LUST, because he could've approached the issue without sexually rejecting the two girls. He could've just said he can't see eye-to-eye with the two of them on crucial matters, or something like that.
Instead however, he chose to use these girls to create an impression that he can lust for the others, except for these two (thereby also showing that he is not gay). Bravo!

Akash ji, even though I believe that sexual compatibility is essential for a partnership/marriage, I don't think that he has done anything admirable by talking about lust. Actually, by doing so he has instead given it more attention and provoked the kind of unbalanced question(s) that this thread poses. 1810 or 2010, even liberal blokes like me will frown when a woman is told on national televison that she isn't worthy of a sexual intercourse. (That was what it amounted to. And it is shameful.)

Besides, I'm not sure what this thread is about... As stated already, I believe that he is looking for a trophy wife. Or, this could just be like Rakhi ka swayamvar... Too bad, it didn't even get the TRPs...

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