Swati's story made me shudder - Page 3

Originally posted by: akash08

why are u so anti swati?(I have read ur previous posts too)swati is the person with the highest self esteem.. she is the only girl who has not been cheap and despo for Rahul..she has enough self confidence to clearly state she does not love Rahul but just likes him..she also never bad mouths anyone.. is this is not self esteem.. what it is then?

and softness is the virtue of a girl.. you may not like it.. but there are many people like me who thinks that is the asset of a girl.

hopefully u remember she is the only eanring member of her family.. who knows what had been her compulision.. may be the guy was providing financial assistance?may be her unemployed parents were dependant on the guy?

I have never seen people criticising such badly a lady who has been abused! Shame..

Originally posted by: taral83

First of all I am not "anti swati".....I don't have anything good or bad about her that I like or dislike..I find her boring...I am just pointing out basics.....general info.....there are many studies done that state that people in abusing relationships, the victim suffers from low-esteem and has other personality issues that makes them silent to the abuse and continue getting abused. I was giving general info. And I didn't say that she has low-self esteem, she APPEARS to have low-self esteem. I could be wrong on that as well. And whatever her reason may be to stay with a man that abuses her, I think its a SHAME that she will be repeating her mistake. Yes she has not presented her self cheap or despo directly like the other girls........but she is just as despo. You know the saying "dood ka jala, chas be phoonk phoonk ki petha hai"..........after being in a abusive relationship, why repeat your mistake and try to marry another wife beater??? That sure sounds despo to me. What appears on the outside is not always what is true on the inside. You may find her soft and naive but I don't she is the smartest one in the gang...........and I am not criticising so badly a lady that is been abused.....I am criticising a lady that is REPEATING a mistake......sorry I don't pity that

p.s. I actually don't like any of the girls to be honest.......😆

Originally posted by: Anastacia

When I saw the episode, the fact that shuddered me the most was that she was talking to Rahul, the wife-beater. Does she want to make the same mistake again?

Originally posted by: akash08

This is the post I could retrieve:

Nikunj

Pro- Very Lady like, knows how to carry herself very independent women

Con- Conceded

Harpreet

Pro- Very mature for her age(though she sounds fake) if you listen to her without judging she has some very mature and fair answers

Con- Toooooo Fake that you can tell she is fake

Dimpy

Pro-very friendly, she also seems like she is very "dil ki saaf" like I don't think she would do anything to hurt someone on purpose,like evilness. And even though she sounds like a air-head, she also has very mature and fair answers

Con- Awara and acts stupid

Mrinmai

Pro- very to the point, agressive in a good way and very independent in nature, smart

Con- very mean and rude sometimes and cunning

Swati I don't know what is good or bad in her......she is just boring....I don't know I don't like her.......she is going to be the black horse that wins the race. lol 🤣

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There was yet another post which I could not find.. where you wrote big paragraphs stating why you dislike Swati..

Quite clear you do not like her.(and no it is not that you do not like anyone.. you can find pro for everyone and not for her.. shows your strong dislike) and that is OK .. we all have our choices..

Why I wrote today because it appeared inappropriate to bash a person who has been abused just because of personal peference..

Anyway enough said.. I wrote because I felt bad..

Originally posted by: Xserial_queenX

whew! I feel an heated "discussion" between you two! Cmon you guyss shake handss kiss kiss make up =] this show isnt supposed to bring out harsh feelings towards one another. It's so we can have harsh feelings toward the show!

Originally posted by: taral83

😆 ....exactly...y fight for this dumb show...!!!....no hard feeling from my side...😛.........

Originally posted by: gossipgurls

Yaar she is plain boring to start off.............. next though she has nice Voice , but when she talk she talk like as if she is half drunk 🤪

Next thing.. she should have told are Sob story off camera to Rahul, as its not the end of the world ..as after the show she has to go back to Real world and ppl can take advantage of her vulnerability.

I have a strong feeling that Swathi is the Ran a way bride 😆