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Posted: 16 years ago
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well personally I think Age matters. But for this case I love Manas. He seems mature. Mature enough to handle Rakhi's daily drama. beside he is so cute and playful. He won't bore her. 😃

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Manas is tooo cute =D
The age shouldn't be a problem, Rakhi saw how he protected her when the kiss ka kissa came on the show.. lol.. she saw that he is mature enough to protect her.. and besides that,. he has a good carriere, he is extremely handsome.. so the age shouldn't be a problem=)
he deserves rakhi more than others=)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Rakhi is 31, Manas is 22, BIG age difference and it will definitely create conflicts in the relationship maybe later on, if not at the beginning!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: peace_786

Rakhi is 31, Manas is 22, BIG age difference and it will definitely create conflicts in the relationship maybe later on, if not at the beginning!

Yes, Rakhi is 31, born in November 1978.. dunno why ppl think she's 28.. 😛... Age does matter.. even if doesnt lead to issues early in the relationship.. it wil create difference later on.. I personally wouldnt wanna marry a guy 10 years younger to myself...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: secretz

well i dont think age is a prob😕.Love is blind😳



but sumtimes its not really gud to be blind in love😳
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: samirah23

Rakhi I think is 28. From personal experience, I would say that I never recommend a woman to marry a man who is younger to her. I still believe what many say that men take longer to matrue than women. Often, it's not until they are in their later 20's or early 30's that they truly understand what responsibility is. Rakhi is 6 years older than him, and with at least 3 more years of maturity added (due to timing of puberty, etc for boys and girls), Rakhi has 9 or ten years totally over him. They are at different stages of their life - she has seen life, and he is just starting his.

whenever I give advice to friends and family, I tell them to search for a boy who is 4 or 5 years elder and this will make for a better match. So, all the dulhas who are below her age should not be in the running ... unfortunately, this means that Luv cannot be considered because he is 26. Elesh is at least the same age as Rakhi.



i completely respect ur point of view...well said👏 & for sum reason i think manas deserves a younger girl than him or a better one...no offence but u know wat i mean rite? as he's too young...he can get manyyyy gud brides for him😳
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Crystal-

No i dont believe that age difference is gonna effetc their maariage! i think Manas deserves her the most he si a true gentleman and he is soo true he does eveyrhting from hes heart and he is not at all fake!

example if aishwarya can get married to Abhishek then why not rakhi to Manas! aish is also older then abhi some years and they are happy together i think manas and rakhi well be really happy together too!



@bold...umm but abhisekh is really mature & can fulfill his responsibilities for aish...but manas is too young u know😳
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lats55



can't say... as we look at the issues with indian society.. sachin tendulkar got a good relationship.. though age his wife is elder to him 5 years (not 15 mentioned by rakhi).... now ash and abi..can't say since it is only 2 years.. but saif ali's relationship with amrita singh (13 years difference) was a flop.. but then again woman who are senior to man may be able to handle them since woman are more matured and will be able to adjust to them.. this is what i feel.. but not sure..



another example is farah khan & her hubby [dnt remeber da name] they have a huge age difference but then again they r happily married wid 3 kids😳 i think it all matters on how the 2 life partners compromise & trust each other in their married life...like sumtimes when wife gets more success...there's this conflict thts created in married life...for example (shweta tiwari & raja)...husband gets insecure & all tht...hope nothing sort tht happen in rakhi's life as rakhi's much more successful than all those guys...(though elesh cud be called same status as her as he's a resident in canada)..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

Rakhi is 28 years old, and Manas disclosed that he's 22. I personally do feel that as some point the age difference between the two could create a problem just because boys mature slower than girls. Unless if Rakhi is willing to adjust herself and change herself to match him, I don't think it will work. A woman usually does have to adjust more that the guy in marriage and since he's younger, even more so.

It's because they are both at different stages in their life. Rakhi is at the point where she wants to settle down and start a family, whereas Manas is just starting his life and career. I think Rakhi will have to understand and adjust to the fact that he is at a different point in his life. Marriage may not be his top priority right now. People only mature with time, so she cannot expect him to meet her at her level.
I personally really like Manas, and I see a genuineness in him love for Rakhi. I think he'd make a great husband for her, but I'm not sure if now is the right time for him. I think Manas is more deserving of Rakhi than the others, but the age gap is concern for me too!
Maybe Rakhi will see past their age difference and try and work things out? 😃



well said👏👏👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Rakhi is a very mature 31! She has been around the block😆 She needs a mature man, not some 22 year old guy! Don't know how old Mr. Canada is, but I think he is the best choice right now😊

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