Originally posted by: stormborn
I read what you wrote about Karna. Thanks for so much detailing.
I have always found Karna as an obsessive crybaby, a chronic complainer and a blame gamer who always plays the victim card to overshadow his own wrongdoings and never takes any responsibility. He always seemed very rigid and judgemental to me as well. But didn't know in such details. Thank you for that.
Krishna's all the brothers were killed by his own uncle even before he was born. Then he was born inside a jail. Inspite of being a kshatriya and a royal prince, he had to grow up as a milkman. Even then, multiple murder attempts had been made on him since he was an infant. The age when he was supposed to be educated and trained in weaponry, he had to graze cows and handle cowdung. He had to leave his parents and friends in a tender age forever and take up responsibility as an adult. He had to kill his own maternal uncle in a tender age and this can leave a scar in a boy's heart forever. He had to start his education, years after other kshatriya boys started education and still he emerged victorious from that. Again he had to leave his kingdom with his people and had to be stranded in an island in the middle of nowhere. To avoid destruction, he didn't care about his ego or reputation and accepted the name of ranchhod and a coward instead. He never could marry the girl he loved and instead only married the ones who needed him to be saved or to survive. He never married for himself. He even lost his firstborn when he was days old and never got to raise him. He even lost his nephew Abhimanyu whom he loved like a son. Even after everything he accepted Gandhari's curse without a frown and bore that in heart for 36 years. But no1 could ever hear him complaining regarding any of this.
Same with Arjuna. Multiple murder attempts since childhood by his own cousins, always the pawn for his older brother, always having the highest responsibility to compensate for everyone else's misdoings---starting from Kunti to Yudhisthir to Drona, spent about 80% of his life in the forest (even more than his brothers) and I can even go on about this as well.
I think the only good things that happened in his life were Subhadra and Krishna. But he too never kept complaining and blaming others and instead kept performing his responsibilities silently.
But Karna had a better fate than most (even Duryadhan was raised by two blind(literally and figuratively) parents who didn't perform any actual responsibility towards him).......But still all Karn did was complaining and victim playing.
I think he is romanticized so much in the current tales because love triangle between rival brothers separated in birth is like hotcake among most audience. So Karn is potrayed as the first corner in Draupadi's love angle and after the suta incident in the sayamvar, he is depicted as a heartbroken man who wants to avenge the man who got the girl and eventually gets killed in the process while he isn't even holding a weapon.
He is depicted as a grey tragic hero(not even anti-hero) in a love triangle because that shit sells.