.:DOTW Ranveer-Sahiba relationship:.

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armyofspooks

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hello friends.

This week's discussion is on Ranveer and Sahiba's relationship. In this one week we saw how Ranveer left Sahiba at the very last minute, yet she remained strong.

Do you think Sahiba is being too naive? Do you think the trust that she is putting on Ranveer will backfire her? Does Ranveer actually love her or does his dream come before love?

What are your opinions/views?

Thank you.
-Ashfi

(I am posting it on Friday since I won't be there tomorrow. I hope it is alright)

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Posted: 13 years ago

For Me Shahiba Is Being To Naive And Completely Blind To Ranbeers Love

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Masooma Bukhari

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Posted: 13 years ago

ranveer shud hv informed the family before leaving and this is what cannot be denied...

but as we saw in today's episode that ranveer was sad that he left sahiba there... urrmmm i think he likes sahiba too... bt obviously not more than his dreams

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Taahir

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Posted: 13 years ago

At this stage Ranveer should phone Sahiba & at least talk to her . Sahiba is not naive rather she trust in Ranveer's love . He wanted to badly to go to London that in all this he forgot about his love . His dream came first

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mariyam

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ranveer loves sahiba, but he'a blinded by his dream..
But in real life , i would like for a girl like sahiba to be not so blinded.
In the show , i think sahiba has no idea what she's getting herself into... Being totally naive and

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ranveer; do love the gal , but keeping his dream in before her isnt wrong either ...

more of less , he left knowing shahia will clean the mess, the trust they had on each other , he could not tell his family members that he will be leaving on wedding day , that will be like asking for death and all his dreams of London will shatter as none would leave him alone ... i wonder why he cannot go after wedding ?

Saiba , is sort of blinded by his love, she is living and breathing about him and she havent yet thought whats next ? just like him , she followed her heart and supported him with out forseeing the result and all

Edited by breezy - 13 years ago

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VishaD.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel that Ranveer does loves Sahiba but for him, his dream comes first and even Sahiba knows that and always says that 'Your dream is my dream' and that is why she was not angry but happy once she knows that he has safely arrived. However, Sahiba is still at the losing end because no matter how much the dream matters to him, Sahiba is his love and leaving her behind on the wedding day was certainly not the right thing to do. If he could leave her today for his dream, what is the guarantee that he would not leave her when she has any problems or sickness? 😕

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-SilverFlames-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Do you think Sahiba is being too naive?

I think in general, there is one reason I can't fully like Sahiba is because she is so naive and 'obsessed' by Ranveer. Her entire life revolves around him and whilst that is amazing, sweet and great for the drama. I wish she would be slightly more realistic than so relaxed at the fact Ranveer left her. Whether he loves her, whether she is obsessed with him. He did what he did. Leave her. He never thought of the impact it would have on Sahiba, her family and bitter and arrogant as Ranveer's dad sounded he was speaking the truth. Sahiba is in love so deeply with Ranveer that she can't see past that. He humilated her yet she saw it as him fulfilling his dream. Ranveer could want or do anything and Sahiba would back him which makes her naive and stupid at the same time. She should have told him that if you leave now then there is no going back but she still is adamant that he is the one for her.

Do you think the trust that she is putting on Ranveer will backfire her?

I don't think it will necessarily backfire- but she will have to face some truths in the process of finding true love which I hope is with Daljeet but that is another debate for another time. In respect to the question she will find that she did make some naive mistakes in trusting Ranveer who may possibly leave her at the next possible opportunity. I don't blame Ranveer for that instead blame Sahiba because she has never established any ground rules. She went on about Ranveer's happiness, dreams and everything is hers but her own dreams become nothing.

Does Ranveer actually love her or does his dream come before love?

Does Ranveer love Sahiba- Yes. Does his dream come before love?- well Ranveer's true love is him being in London. I don't however blame him here because like I said above Sahiba hasn't ever set any ground rules. She hasn't ever said NO essentially to Ranveer and instead of stopping him or explaining to him she gave away her wedding heirlooms to Ranveer. Had she said that I think we should marry then you decide about going to London this situation would never have arose. She has always let him take her for granted which I think is belitting to her really because it seems as though she has no self respect. Love is in it's own place but one can only love you if you love yourself and I don't think Sahiba does.

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Priya

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Posted: 13 years ago

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agree wid visha & silverflames..

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So yeah.. I'll begin wid Ranveer(RV), sure he does love Sahiba(S).. But plainly speaking, his love has got a selfish edge to it.

Why should he leave her on her wedding day? Sure Sahiba always told him that his dream is her dream & she'd support him & all... but, he still ditched her. Didn't even think for a moment about wat problems Sahiba would face, if he left the wedding rituals...

Is that the way one cares for a girl of his dreams? No.. But Ranveer did it, the reason is his DREAM. Nothing can come before it, not even Sahiba..

I think, though RV loved S.. he made a msitake by leaving her. S too made a grave mistake leaving her dad.. she's childish & they both need to suffer a tiny-weeny punishment for that.

I adore the bond they share, how they are free wid eachother and all.. I don't dislike Ranveer or Sahiba, both are very good persons, nice hearted.. but in life some mistakes can't be corrected..

I think these small mistakes will turn their lives into something else.

Edited by Priyamvada - 13 years ago