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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: THE_BOSS

Obviously sanam can stay back with shaad ...as long as the sweetness and cuteness level remains high...


how does some fans finding them cute and sweet matter to gul or cv's or actors ? she will anyway do what she wants to do ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Adulter is a wrong word. No one calked her like that. As far as I know everyone was looking forward for this s3 & triangle between shad sahil. But the way cvs executed it was horrible. No where any sort of naturality is applied. Wth they rushed so much? They could have shown sanam's confusion when shad said that she is his wife. Her efforts to recall her past. Her helplessness. Not like in show where she dances carefree. Where she not bothered to ask why does shad & she had a secret nikkah? Where is her family? Why did she end up in this amnesia? So there is no naturality. And I feel shad is using her. I know he saved. He is protecting her. His lie is for a noble cause. But fact is he is using a women who has memory loss just because he wanted to arrest shashi Kapoor. Here also sanam has not seen sk face nor sk saw her witnessing the murder. So there is no need to hide truth from her. Ya doctor did say she shouldn't be stressed but what made him hide truth is he went to panic mode when doctor said if she is stressed she will get her old memories back & new one will fade. As an army man he is not thinking of the consequences this lady will face once she regains her memory. He made her belive that she is his wife & she trusted him. Once when the truth comes out about there nikkah in a conservative country like Pakistan how will she be treated! Also sanam will get bad name in society. After all she lived with a stranger as his wife. They may not share a room but she trusting him & people addressing her as his wife, once sanam gets back memory that thought only will kill her. As a married women I can get how violated she will become that she lived as someone else wife even though unknowingly. Also this guy is not bothered to think about this girls family. He is an army he can secretly try to find about this lady. What if this lady turns out to be sk team? He should suspect that way too right as a responsible officer. After watching last few episodes I felt bad for jannat & Misbah. It's not there fault but shads fault. But this women will suffer because of his fault. See I am not a sahil fan. But I really can't get what cvs are showing with shajan! They could have been more careful in execution & shouldn't have rushed like this. See I too like vt & sj as a pair. They looks good. But cvs should have given a better portrayal of shad.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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^^ i definitely agree to everything u have said, but this show was always all about horrible trauma's in sanam's life, so how does it matter ?? she got floated to pakistan, if some men manhandles her and rape her or sold off to some prostitution area or if those goons attack her then ?? is it all making sense about how sanam2 sold off sanam to dubai sheik and aahil still not knowing any idea about her ??? leave about shaad, he is just a new man about whom we dont know anything of his past, but we know about aahil right ?? if he can stay careless getting conned by the witch then he shouldnt bother about the horrible state of sanam after she goes missing .. she is atleast alive now, imagine if she is in dubai ? do anyone of her family will have any clue of how she is ? when aahil will come to know abt her whereabouts, she will be in the state to commit suicide ... before judging the new man shaad, we should see how cv's are butchering other characters, if sahil love is true by now he would have saved sanam and he will be the one saving sanam not some new guy
ps : again im saying some fans are shipping shanat doesnt mean cv's are going to unite them or show any romantic angle to them ..
Edited by tejaswie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

Look. Sanam/Jannat can commit 'adultery' knowingly or unknowingly and I wouldn't care--if it weren't the result of manipulation and trickery.It's Shaad who is the problem, not Sanam. (Jannat is also acting like a.clingy OTT bimbo but that's another matter; and bimbo or not, she doesn't deserve the situation she is in and what Shaad is doing to her.)


He is lying and deceiving a girl into thinking she's married to him. It is in no way cute, sweet or romantic. It is actually more than distasteful that such a horrendous situation is made made into some romcom and comedy track on the show..

But oh, no. All of Shaad's actions are so noble and praiseworthy, even though he is acting like a grade a tool. He's acting nice and sweet to Sanam and acting a good husband. How sweet. Except he is not her husband and he knows it, while she doesn't.


. (Jannat is also acting like a.clingy OTT bimbo but that's another matter; and bimbo or not, she doesn't deserve the situation she is in and what Shaad is doing to her.)[ Firstly I don't understand how clinging to ones husband makes anyone a bimbo?? And as far I've noticed she doesn't really cling to him the way you guys are exaggerating it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909



you do know how he got married and how he was manipulated by tanveer and now by that same so called wife. he never considered her his wife or had any relationship with her and was completely in love with sanam (even now). since sanam into his life he has not even so much looked at other women like he use before sanam.


So how is sanam's situation any different from Ahil's?? In fact to be honest I'd blame Ahil for all that is happening to Sanam. Agreed that he was tricked into marrying Sanam2 but the fact doesn't change that he is still in fact married to her.. And being rude to her and treating her badly is also a reason why Sanam2 has turned negative and is also coming in between Sahil. Moreover since ppl here are ready to pounce on shaad for manipulating jannat how is it that their ready to support a guy like Ahil who us ready to treat his own wife like a servant ?? This obviously shows his true nature if the situation doesn't seem to favour him in any manner. Don't give me the excuse that he was hurt and all.. The point is he can't abuse any of his wives either way
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I actually only found her clingy in the episode when they were sitting beside bonfire.

The reasons as to why Shaad is doing what he is doing have been made clear. He's not doing anything for his own selfish motives but in order to catch a terrorist. He has been time and again shown to be apologetic as well.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswie

if sanam is adulterer what about aahil ? according to him he slept with sanam2 and is going to celebrate the jashn for their unborn baby by announcing press conference .. though he claims that he love sanam don't change the fact that he is willing to keep sanam 2 as his wife for the sake of his child .. how will sanam tolerate all this nonsense ? agree she is his wife but she is better off without past memory rather than being the other woman for sanan2 n aahil ... I am being blunt but its a fact that sanam will have a very sad life by going back to aahil to see her sautan pregnant .. I bet she will even make aahil to accept and love sanam2 .. And about major shaad and jannat , it has only started , we will see and talk if they really involve in romantic relation or not .. right now there is no such thing so can't assume what's going to happen in coming episodes ... here I'm talking about sanam and aahil so pls don't bring about how jannat is getting conned being someone else wife .. I have that much faith in gul that she will make jannat know soon about her not being wife of shaad ..


It doesn't matter if she's really in a romantic relationship or not. She has no choice in this situation. Jannat is being conned.Good God, not everything depends on sex or physical intimacy.

Sanam has no choice in this matter. She has no agency.

It is not about Sanam thinking she committed adultery or not. I put adultery in quotes .And as I said, if she did it anything, nothing, everything, it wouldn't matter as long as she was making those decisions. It is not the case.

Aahil too was tricked, yes. But guess what, he is tricked by the outright villain of the show right now. Aahil was in a similar situation as Sanam right now with AaHer, but Sanam's situation is even worse. But it's okay. it's shown as a light romcom.😃

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswie

^^ i definitely agree to everything u have said, but this show was always all about horrible trauma's in sanam's life, so how does it matter ?? she got floated to pakistan, if some men manhandles her and rape her or sold off to some prostitution area or if those goons attack her then ?? is it all making sense about how sanam2 sold off sanam to dubai sheik and aahil still not knowing any idea about her ??? leave about shaad, he is just a new man about whom we dont know anything of his past, but we know about aahil right ?? if he can stay careless getting conned by the witch then he shouldnt bother about the horrible state of sanam after she goes missing .. she is atleast alive now, imagine if she is in dubai ? do anyone of her family will have any clue of how she is ? when aahil will come to know abt her whereabouts, she will be in the state to commit suicide ... before judging the new man shaad, we should see how cv's are butchering other characters, if sahil love is true by now he would have saved sanam and he will be the one saving sanam not some new guy

ps : again im saying some fans are shipping shanat doesnt mean cv's are going to unite them or show any romantic angle to them ..


They were all done by the villain. They were not shown as romantic situations or some romcom.

You are taking away Sanam's choice. Even if she didn't remember, she could've had a choice instead of being lied to and tricked and conned.

There in lies the difference.

So for her protection, Sanam can be lied to to and conned by another, and it's all good. Her life is better!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_Smith

I actually only found her clingy in the episode when they were sitting beside bonfire.

The reasons as to why Shaad is doing what he is doing have been made clear. He's not doing anything for his own selfish motives but in order to catch a terrorist. He has been time and again shown to be apologetic as well.


Yeah, he is shown feeling bad. So? He has a 'noble' cause so that makes it all right!

Give me that explanation if/when story will have her lash our and ream out for what he did, and when a woman with no choice is not used as ship bait and romanticized.

Sanam has a lack of choice here, a complete lack of choice and that is romanticized. Amnesia is not what makes her have a lack of choice. It is Shaad's lies which make her not have a choice.


Edited by KhatamKahani - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909



you do know how he got married and how he was manipulated by tanveer and now by that same so called wife. he never considered her his wife or had any relationship with her and was completely in love with sanam (even now). since sanam into his life he has not even so much looked at other women like he use before sanam.



A marriage that could have been annulled.. Aahil used his second wife to show Sanam that he doesn't want her anymore.. He could have let her go.. Making Sanam believe that she is no longer needed.. He announced that Nayi Sanam is his wife of all purposes.. That is adultery.. No matter who says what.. Aahil did cheat Sanam.. I am not talking about sleeping with the new wife.. Blindly following his mother's order was wrong.. And making his marriage legal in front of everyone.. That was adultery..

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