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Posted: 10 years ago
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@07sid01

I think everyone is missing the point I am trying to make! I am not saying we should "Forgive" Seher, or that being a con women "Excuses" her for what she did!


But being a Con women EXPLAINS what she did! WHY don't the people on this forum appreciate the difference? Seher was a girl who grew up tough. She was brought up by a thief and a call girl. She conned people out of money and possessions and that was HER way of life. All she knew!


Even Sanam was telling her the other day that "Haya and I had Badi Ammi, but you were alone, and sometimes I tremble to think what your life would have been like!" I know to SOME people on this forum, a child who ate out of the trash and forced to fend for themselves is a JOKE, and such a child deserves NO sympathy. But I am a normal human being with empathy and I DO sympathize with a child like that!


It's ironic that Aahil who was abused by his Dad and used by his Step Mother DESERVES sympathy for his bad childhood, but Seher doesn't, because now she is a Con women? Really? How many kids who were left abandoned do you think DON'T go on the wrong path? Either out of desperation or even choice, how many choices do they actually have?


I am not saying going into someone's house and conning them is the right thing to do! Or that it is not a punishable offence! But if Sanam will eventually forgive AAHIL for treating her this way, then why should we blame her for CHOOSING to forgive her sister for messing up her life?


I don't think Aahil and Seher are comparable, TM it is you who compared them! I was merely pointing out the fact that Seher was a con women who CHOSE to con Aahil out of his wealth, by taking Sanam's place. Aahil is Sanam's husband who claims to love her, and is CHOOSING to believe the worst of her! Even to the point of calling the Police on her!


I was merely stating that out of the two crimes, Aahil's is graver, because he is mistreating the one he loves! Where as Seher AKA Suneheri had NO ties to these people and it was just a JOB to her. So if she treats them badly it is what we should EXPECT, but from AAHIL we expect BETTER!


I STILL don't understand why people cant grasp this simple concept? It is quite straightforward really!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am not blind to support zeher 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: chaith5

I am not blind to support zeher 🤣



Just because some of us can see that Seher's behavior and Aahil's is NOT comparable, that dosen't mean we support her! At least I dont! But I have enough of an unbiased mind, not blinded by my own prejudice to not see two sides to every story!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaanKeNiche

Hahaha finally a voice of sanity on this SJ worshipping forum.

To answer your question, it's because SJ's loyal fanbots can't differentiate b/w real and reel, loving and supporting criminal Seher and everything related to her (Rondu Rehan) is their duty. How did you ever think they'll let down that booriya?

Personally, I ship Tanveer-Aahil now, so I don't give a shit about SaHil or Ronehri. Tanveer looks dayyum good and younger than the aged SJ. Not to mention the brilliant chemistry she shares with KV too. 😳

Now I don't need any preaching here, especially from Seher/SeHan phans kay. If you can support hypocritical, crook, busybody liars, then I can def ship this hawt and happenin' mother-son duo.

@bold-🤣🤣

and i realised amrapali is quite good looking...

but i'm trying to ship kvb and aditti ...(aditti is very beautiful)...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Seher is just one of the million reason for sahil separation. Ahil ATM is under the misconception that sanam ran away from wedding & he doesn't know it was seher not sanam. But fact is that he never understood his lover. Instead of torchering sanam for running away from wedding he didn't even had the common sense to ask why you did that sanam? If he truly loved her that would have been the first question he would have been asking instead teying to romance with new sanam & making hurt the real sanam. At least I am glad that they showed seher saying that she shouldn't have impersonated sanam. In season 1 when asad traded zoya to Ayaan for saving NikhAt marriage he said that he did the correct thing ATM. He was not even shown 1% guilty for trading his love.
I heard someone saying that seher said to Rehan that she didn't know sanam was her sister while she was impersonating her. Seher was always like that. She was money minded. She was greedy. Her 20 yrs of life was in a world like that. Once when she was in love with Rehan she wanted to come out. But she was late & that made her much more worse person. That was the sole reason she agreed to impersonate sanam. Sanam was no one to her at that time. The moment she came to know sanam is her sister & sanam's life is in danger she ran to save her. I heard some one saying that seher ran away from wedding. Why did she ran away? To save her sister. ATM it was important for her to save her sister's life that clearing the MU in front of Ibrahim mansion people.
I am not completely supporting seher. But I have seen in this forum people blindly supporting asad for trading zoya & many many disgusting things which he did to her. Same with ahil too. When men is grey shaded or doing wrong things can be supported then why not a female character can be supported? I am not opening a stage to argue & I am not even interested also. Just gave my opinion.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I agree Seher is wrong. I didn't like her behaviour at all. But we all forget that Tanveer was about to stab Sanam after the Kohinoor party, because she knew Sanam knew the truth about her and the Nawab. But because it was Seher there, she broke her arm! If it was Sanam, God only knows what would have happened to her! Even thought Seher ruined SAHIL's relationship to a certain extent, she also saved Sanam from facing Tanveer's murder plots at the time. Like the Faluda poison and the car bombing. (Funny how Aahil didn't call the Police EITHER of those times, but NOW he is willing to do so?).

Because of the swap, the twins finally met and now they are together! Everyone needs to move on from this or else it will never end! At the time of the swap, Suneheri was a CON artist, trying to con some rich people out of money! HOW are her actions comparable to those of AAHIL?


I love Aahil too, actually he is my favourite character of QH 2, barring Sanam. But what he is doing now, has nothing to do with Seher! He is choosing to only believe Tanveer, and not even giving an opportunity to the women he so called loves, to explain her side! From the moment they met again, all he has done is try to get revenge, or become confused about Sanam, but NEVER has he tried to TALK to her. Not once, even for the sake of the love he once felt for her, has he given her the benefit of the doubt! Not once has he given her a chance to explain!


Even if she did, he won't beleive her anyway. This is a losing battle for Sanam. Aahil by agreeing to call the POLICE has shown that he is not a good lover or husband. I mean, he is willing to hand Sanam over to the police, without even talking to her. Just coz AMMI is telling him? But when Sanam was about to be murdered by a BOMB, he stopped calling the police coz Ammi said she will hire a private investigator! I mean COME on? There is a limit to blind faith and blind obedience. I am seriously SICKENED a by Aahil ATM!


By continuously going back to Seher and blaming her for everything, won't make Aahil less guilty! Like I said, SHE was conning strangers out of money! HE is willing to throw his own wife in jail! NO comparison between the two things! Both are wrong, but anyone with half of logic can see which is MORE wrong! Conning strangers, or mistreating your own love?


P. S: I am NOT an SJ "fanbott!" So please don't insult my intelligence by suggesting that I am! I just like to look at the bigger picture, and that is what I am trying to do! Just constantly coming back to blame Seher won't move the story forward, and NEITHER will it justify Aahil's action! They are NOT justifiable from the POV of a husband and lover who claims to have loved Sanam without reservation! I am a KV fan, but I am still using my RATIONAL mind to make this argument! :)

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I couldn't do better Mandy ! Bravo ! We all should move on about Seher. What's done is done ! Nobody can go back in the past ... if someone can Sanam will be already dead !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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^^ on the above, it is just assumption that Sanam is a weakling who could not have dodged the knife attack from Tanveer.
It is just an assumption that Sanam could not have in her sure and steady way started Aahil to start thinking like her.
It is just an assumption that Sahil would not have gone for a romantic honeymoon and cam back stronger than ever. In that amorous mood Aahil was, he would have taken away Sanam and they would have come back stronger.
Someone came between them and spoiled their tough won love. But it is important to move on and celebrate coz that someone has gained a remorseless and easy won love.
I hope she and her lover now don't force Aahil down Sanam's throat. Let her decide if she wants back Aahil after what she heard from him yesterday.
Also with regards to Sanam , no one really needs to be sorry for causing her any harm. It is all okay. She is eternal punching bag afterall.
The sweet caring couple will take pity on no good Sanam and try to make Aahil sympathise with Sanam and make him take her back so she can mope and sweep the floors of IM and look after his kids born out of wedlock from Sanam 2
Edited by JShukla - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@07sid01


I think everyone is missing the point I am trying to make! I am not saying we should "Forgive" Seher, or that being a con women "Excuses" her for what she did!


But being a Con women EXPLAINS what she did! WHY don't the people on this forum appreciate the difference? Seher was a girl who grew up tough. She was brought up by a thief and a call girl. She conned people out of money and possessions and that was HER way of life. All she knew!


Even Sanam was telling her the other day that "Haya and I had Badi Ammi, but you were alone, and sometimes I tremble to think what your life would have been like!" I know to SOME people on this forum, a child who ate out of the trash and forced to fend for themselves is a JOKE, and such a child deserves NO sympathy. But I am a normal human being with empathy and I DO sympathize with a child like that!


It's ironic that Aahil who was abused by his Dad and used by his Step Mother DESERVES sympathy for his bad childhood, but Seher doesn't, because now she is a Con women? Really? How many kids who were left abandoned do you think DON'T go on the wrong path? Either out of desperation or even choice, how many choices do they actually have?


I am not saying going into someone's house and conning them is the right thing to do! Or that it is not a punishable offence! But if Sanam will eventually forgive AAHIL for treating her this way, then why should we blame her for CHOOSING to forgive her sister for messing up her life?


I don't think Aahil and Seher are comparable, TM it is you who compared them! I was merely pointing out the fact that Seher was a con women who CHOSE to con Aahil out of his wealth, by taking Sanam's place. Aahil is Sanam's husband who claims to love her, and is CHOOSING to believe the worst of her! Even to the point of calling the Police on her!


I was merely stating that out of the two crimes, Aahil's is graver, because he is mistreating the one he loves! Where as Seher AKA Suneheri had NO ties to these people and it was just a JOB to her. So if she treats them badly it is what we should EXPECT, but from AAHIL we expect BETTER!


I STILL don't understand why people cant grasp this simple concept? It is quite straightforward really!


I guess out of all the 5 pages, this one comment is the most sensible.

Others are busy trashing. 😆

You made a great point. 👍🏼 And if still people disagree with you...they're a lost cause. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Whether or not Sehr was there, Aahil would've always sided that Tanveer. Sehr didn't know who Sanam was in relation to her and had no reason to trust Sanam whom she didn't even know, Aahil on the other hand knew Sanam for a longer time.

Besides Sunehri has grown up this way. So we can't blame her.

and lol.. I guess you guys said it all.😆 why am I always late joining the discussion🤪🤣
Edited by Pookhi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pookhi

Whether or not Sehr was there, Aahil would've always sided that Tanveer. Sehr didn't know who Sanam was in relation to her and had no reason to trust Sanam whom she didn't even know, Aahil on the other hand knew Sanam for a longer time.

Besides Sunehri has grown up this way. So we can't blame her.

and lol.. I guess you guys said it all.😆 why am I always late joining the discussion🤪🤣

But Aahil trusted Sanam over Ammi's accusations many times before Seher impersonated her.

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