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sylvia99 thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
I feel they are out of track or lost somewhere or building a complete new track.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
i totally agree with u...
gosh i have actuallyy stopped wishing for anything for them n this show, cz i know they will do such idiotic things that me keeping expectations would hurt me only

btw reading ur post I right now just want Sanam to go to Aahil n say she wants a divorce, how i wish i could see that, how i wish i coluld see that look on Aahil's face.
its not a healthy relationship, previously it was, even when they were fighting or watever but they were almost at an equal level, Sanam giving it back to him at every step pf way...

but now???? we r more concerned about his 2nd marriage, n the things hes doing to her, shes simply not...

u know teh day Aahil brought her back n declared that shes the servent, i was like so pissed off, i wanted to yell "Who the bloody hell u think of urself, who r u to make her a servant, just because shes ur damn wife, no it doesnot give u the right to publically or privately humilate her like this, and who the bloody hell r u to decide whether she should stay with u or not, she can walk out of this marriage anytime she wants and u cant stop her from ending the marriage, shes an adult and able to make decisions for her life, if she wants to end the marriage she can . no body can stop her

i bet they wont give any redemption track, the way they r goinf, MAHAN SANAM will never feel bad about anything bad that will happen to her, she'll just forget and forgive everyone and everything. Aahil with his puppy face n teary eyes will say sorry n she'll melt n just forgive him... dekh lena aisa hi hoga 😡😡

And if shes so MAHAN Why is she taking revenge from Tanveer, she should forgive her too, 😡

p.s i want to strike something in CV's heads, wont they ever stop showing Aaher, cant they understand its purely disgusting,
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Posted: 10 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: PrettYSmile

I totally agree with you ..

I mean what rubbish...she is zoya n aaks daughter..
Moreover the independent girl who always fought alone with the world behaving like bechari dukhyari...I mean seriously... Get a life yaar.
I have seen Dumbo's like sahil.
N yes not to forget now rehaan us joining that group. Wooow.

Better they change it asap...or else whatever audience they have..they ll loose it...


they could make Aahil mean, as mean as possible, but Sanam should be sad, yes, but strong willed.

Instead of crying pathetically like that she could cry of course but will herself to stay strong and finish what she's there for.

I don't like them weakening Sanam to make the differences between the twins clearer... Hell no!!

Right now Sunehri behaves as though she thinks she can manage the house hold schemes better than Sanam. But every time she poses as Sanam she's making things worse...


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Posted: 10 years ago
#14
Yeah ahil is moron a dumbo😡 More than than I just dont like this new sanam. As soon as sehar entered her life she became bechari, who cant even handle her husband. Where is old sanam who fought with aahil, and stood for badi ammi and haya, who ran a dhabba herself.She even gave the goons a taste of their own medicine. Now sanam ithat sanam has vanished into thin air. Sanam should def teach Ahil a lesson give him the same kind of treatment, but still i am a huge sahil fan, so I want them back. Let him be redeemed propeerly unlike sehar. I love sahil so much and hate the CVs for ruining my Sahil like this😭
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Posted: 10 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: Surbhiholic.

Completely agree with you sage
Ahil really need to redeem himself that too for a very long period ..This time i won't accept his sorry or innocent face 😡 he is a jerk ,idiot and a big time dumb 😡 😡 😡
Sometimes i think sanam should move on and never look back 🥱 ahil reallly don't deserve sanam at all ...he is beyond redemption now 🥱
But still a fan in me wants my old SaHil back and i really want to see both of them happy but for that ahil have to redeem himself which is not possible till sanam is with him ..
God only knows why sanam is too forgiving? 🥱she should be angry with ahil but no she is blaming herself and thinking what if ahil hates her 😡 i mean really?Does she really have any self-respect left?or after falling in love people lose their self respect and just keep cry like a victim😲
Uff sanam should leave ahil so that he can redeem himself
But i'm really scared what if she forgives ahil and ahil live happily ever after without any guilt like seher is living right now 🤔

Anyway glad atleast sanam got new clothes 😭


Of course I too want SaHil back. But their relationship is so battered and bent out of shape right now I wonder if they can get back there.

Everything I set an absolute limit in my head as to how bad it can go... they go and cross it.

I love stories about strong family women and how they withstand the pressures and come out victorious. That was why I Loved Dilshaad and Zoya... Even Razia in a convoluted way was protecting her family from breaking apart ...

But Sanam's spirit has been crushed but she's unable to see past the pain. Living like this with Aahil is better than without him at all? That's emotional blackmail.

It's all so toxic really. Unhealthy.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: darkice7_12

I do agree that I don't like this weak Sanam that we have been seeing since she was "rescued" by Seher after her kidnapping. Even during her escape attempts, she began making questionable decisions.

This weak Sanam is just accepting everything that Aahil has thrown at her. It has been her decision to not question him about his second marriage and what he's going to do about his second wife even when he calmed down. Or choosing to hide the truth of her twin, which then means hiding the truth about her kidnapping and reason for not being at the wedding. Finally, she is choosing to hide Tanveer's truth, but what is that going to do? Aahil will continue to believe Tanveer until something shows him he's wrong. Maybe revealing Tanveer's murderous past may cause him to begin questioning certain things. He will only doubt Tanveer if someone gives him a reason to, and it's not like he's not doubting Sanam now about every little thing. And what is he going to do? Kick her out? She owns half his property. Or marry someone else? He's already done that!

I don't like the fact that her newly weakened character makes her the damsel in distress, when she was the rescuer/savior for her family all her life, and it seems to take away her right to question Aahil's actions when he is her husband. There are other smarter ways of getting around Tanveer than staying as a servant in that home.

I'm still hoping to see improvement in the show. It's what SaHil used to be together and apart that's keeping me around. Let's hope that we can see some of those characteristics back in these characters. 😃


I believe they are going somewhere with this slippery downward slide. Tanveer has taken drastic measures to strengthen her grip on Aahil... and in between all this Rehan finds Sunehri. .

I fervently hope that Sunehri, for once in her life, comes clean to him and seeks his help. But he's thrown off his steady stance after seeing his Ammi dying. He might react badly to Sunehri's revelations and expose the twins...

But once upon a time he promised Sanam he'd do everything he could to help her find her family's truth. I really hope Rehan's character steps up because Aahil plummeted.

I don't want Sanam to forgive Aahil easily. After this fiasco, I'd like Sanam to go up to Aahil and say "Mujhe iss rishte ko azaadi chahiye, I want an annulment "

Then he'll realize he's lost her.

Gosh I want to see Aahil realize what a colossal fool he is
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Posted: 10 years ago
#17
Great post sage and I am so glad that this came from you!

Going through the thread I'm just glad that finally pretty much everyone is ready to call the spade a spade without much window dressing for a change. I admit even I sometimes slide back to trying to make excuses for Ahils behavior and sometimes even Sanam's, but at the end of the day its quite clear that these are not the same characters that we fell in love with during the first 7 months or so...
I appreciated Ahil for the fact that he WAS not portrayed as a sadist from the beginning like the previous 4 lions heroes but I guess the cvs feel that this kind of heroes bring in more TRPs which is why they wanted to convert AHil into the same old mould after all...

As for Sanam, TBH I really don't think Sanam would be shown as anything other than the weakling who just can't get by without the "help' of her twin as long as they both stay in the same residence...Infact they are showing Sunehri deal with even Ahil when it comes to being smart or tough or what ever...WTabsolute hell !...Even yesterdya how hard would it have been for Sanam to say all those things about Tanveer trying to make her out to be murderer...And on top of that to avoid showing any sweetness between Aher (because I guess they have FINALLY figured out how sick we find it...???) Ahil was shown to be back to his mean old self...even though it made no sense compared to their interaction during the past week...????

I was actually beginning to warm up to Ahil slightly till last night because he had mellowed down, but now I am back to full on hate mode...I'm begining to believe he deserves Tanveer and her scheamings...How great it would be if Sanam would just tell him everything about Tanveer and walk away from everyone (including that selfish sister) ,with her head held high...and fall into the lap of some dashing debonaire hero right infront of that jerk...

On top of everything that Sunehri STILL keeps on play acting Ahil's wife when ever she feels like URggg...Seriously my dislike for this character is rising day by day and I thought there was no way I could hate her more than I already did...

All in all, still Sanam is the only character that is likeable in anyway but the feminist in me is having a hard time swallowing this crap right now... and honestly ... I think I am going to take another longish break from this serial and stick to reaction posts...


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Posted: 10 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: minnie2308

At the cost sounding like a bumbling idiot who brings in real life while discussing serials, I'd say I dated my husband of 11 years for 8 years before marrying and STILL if he behaves half as bad as Aahil, I'd not think for a minute before packing my bags.

Actually there are PLENTY of really angry days in a marriage when partners just blow their tops and lungs and get dirty with words. But never must any woman remain in a wedlock as bad as this one currently is. Sanam is demeaned as the first wife who has no respect since she made a mockery of it in front of the whole Bhopal(mujra fame). then comes the demeaning of worst type, manhandling and relegating to servitude and then basically making her serve his royal 2nd wife like a ' dau kaudi ki Naukrani' that she is!
Trust me Sagey even I hated that "I can't live without Aahil ' rant. Wish Sunehri had slapped her hard then! Anyhow, Sunehri has own share of crimes and I really cannot begin to talk of this despicable female. She has made a huge mess of her sister's life. But somehow its good. It shows the way Aahil might behave in future too. After all this is his attitude to people who break his heart. For him Sanam would always remain a dependent on him.
Don't want to sound like a broken record byt citing what many have already said, but Sanam needs to GO..GOOO from that hell hole. She needs food and self-respect to survive. Both these things can be earned anyways. Sanam please go away. Ask for a divorce pronto.
Frankly I can never trust that in future also Aahil will not resort to this mean behaviour when he gets angry. He either spoils someone with undue adoration or brings them down in the most horrific ways. He was overbearingly lovey dovey when Seher impersonated as sanam and when Sanam came back, he has been behaving the worst. Honestly, how will even the servants, drivers, gardners, basically anyone respect Sanam knowing that she is trampled upon by this infant' terrible and she grins and bears it.


believe me I feel the same way, when I go on a rant about the unfairness of Sanam's situation, friends say I've lost my positivity...!😆 And i get all worked up over a fictitious character...

It's not that i don't see that this is all make believe, I guess the storyline is made to provoke the viewers into feeling something. Because audience disconnect and apathy spells death of a story. now they are provoking the feminists who are rooting for Sanam, taking their strong heroine away. Torturing her to the maximum of her limits.

Its going so bad that I wonder if it finally breaks Sanam, it'll lead to some heavy duty heart break for SaHil. Because she would not make it easy for Aahil any longer. All this purposeful torture for her has to lead somewhere na?

We love our lovebirds true to each other even in times of adversity and storm. Here they broke that rule and jumped headlong into a black hole, and we jumped in too, wondering if they are going to come out of it in several broken pieces.

I know spoilers say Sanam2 will turn evil. But I think Sanam2 staying good is an EVEN bigger obstacle to SaHil. Because Sanam cannot stomach the ill treatment of another. And as heartbroken as she would be, she would walk away from Aahil and his second wife, because he has already accepted her as his Begum.

going to cry in a corner now😭
Edited by sageflower7 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: sahil333

I don't like this sanam AT ALL, period 😡. What are they showing us...a doormat sanam? Please!!!!

And just saw the SBB segment and I'm sick of it. All the murderous attempts at sanam and aahil didn't give a damn, but now he is accusing her for putting his ammis life in danger? Oh God...please help the CV's to use their brains now.

A sanam without selfrespect is just sickening. I want my fearless sanam back. I want her to leave IM now. What's with her "I can't live without aahil 😡. He hasn't done anything for you sanam. And btw...you own half of the property. Act like your the begum and not like a servant.
So right now I don't get the story at all. I'm so 😕 🤢.


It's going somewhere, for sure.

but where?

Tanveer expose? Will Rehan tell Sunehri that she is in fact the same mother he was heartbroken about? Would she react differently about revenge knowing that it is Rehan's mother? Sanam and Sunehri will be in the same position. How to defeat the mother without breaking the hearts of the sons who love her so? Argh...

Twins expose? Frankly they arent doing anything clever despite being there together. They are just waiting for tanveer to make a move and nullify it. Wait and watch and fix. Hardly inspiring. If they get exposed and gang up against Tanveer for a dhamakedaar showdown in front of evryone, the show might close ...😆...

I'm going to wait and watch... and rant😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: sylvia99

I feel they are out of track or lost somewhere or building a complete new track.


i hope so Sylvia... I hope they know what they are doing!😕

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