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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: micshy

Even shrink cant help with thiz...

Maybe she likes the concept of forbidden love.. She should have made "ishq e mamnoo" fr indiant tv 😕

She has peculiar obsession for one type of forbidden love that freaks out fans😆
"ishq e mamnoo" This is a real show ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mischy, thanks for giving me some cultural background and attempting to find some sense .My response in red.

Originally posted by: micshy

Okayy guys dont get me wrong ... I m in no way endorsing such a relationship..
Islam has not made BIL a "mehram" fr those who r not muslims a mehram is a person with whom u cant get married cz its a pious relationship... These include ur blood relationships of father brother, ur father's father, ur mother's father, ur mom n dad's brother(by blood), u brother n sisters sons (by blood)so a BIL is not ur mehram so that means u should maintain that distance from him.. Although this relationship needs really lot of respect n we ppl consider BIL as our own brothers but we hv listened to some really disgusting cases of this wierd romance..
@bold-Am bit confused here.do you mean, a girl can have a romantic/physical relationship with her BIL and it is not forbidden in Islam?
So this relationship if it goes out of limit can border on really dangerous liasons..
But those r exceptions .. Mostly the BIL n SIL relationships r handled with respect a person gives to their own brother or sister

But the way Gul always always bring a point of Wierd BIL romance .. She certainly needs some help... As in showing an awkward relationship in her every serial when its nit required at all doesnot seem to make any sense...@bold- Exactly.why show the awkward stuff,when it is not required and especially when it impacts the main leads badly?

N of she is so obsessed to show this romance .. Then she should get bold enough to show this concept as her main focus in some show n get ready to receive all the flak she deserves fr showing this... Or if she really wants to enlighten ppl to stay away from their BIL ( which i dont see the case here 😕) then its a really really sensitive issue.. She should have the guts n sensitivity to deal with it in a decent sensible way rather than showing such inclinations in every show she makes n have the audience a bad taste in their mouths.. Agree.just make one show and get over it, instead of shoving it down people's throat in every show in one way or the other. Or is QH that show? We've all possible combinations going on here😆
You know, the makers of Color's s soon to be shut show said,they wanted to show halalala and that was their main theme.May be QH ends,GKwill say" i was exploring the taboos slyly,everything else was a cover-up".😆

Note: i did not intend to bash anyone neither i was relegiously policing... I dont even know whether im making any sense or not

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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Mischy, thanks for giving me some cultural background and attempting to find some sense .My response in red.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

Mischy, thanks for giving me some cultural background and attempting to find some sense .My response in red.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

She has peculiar obsession for one type of forbidden love that freaks out fans😆
"ishq e mamnoo" This is a real show ?


its some turkish show which was translated to urdu n ws a rage in Pakistan 😲 though i havent watched it but have heard about it cz everybody used to talk about that, i m not v sure but i think the girl is married to an old guy n the hero is that budha baba's nephew n they both fall in love ... so they named it "ishq e mamnoo" 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mischy,thanks once again.I got it.You mean the BIL-SIl relation is not forbidden like the first cousins marriages in some Hindu communities, they can go for it subject to certain conditions .Hmm may be like you GK too might have heard some disgusting stories that have taken deep root and she can't get past them😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi, response in purple.Is it becoming purple prose?😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24


Mischy,thanks once again.I got it.You mean the BIL-SIl relation is not forbidden like the first cousins marriages in some Hindu communities, they can go for it subject to certain conditions .Hmm may be like you GK too might have heard some disgusting stories that have taken deep root and she can't get past them😆

It is allowed only when the first sister (the sister he married first) dies or he gets divorced from him. Otherwise marriage with the second sister is not permitted. Although BIL-SIL relationship is a respectable one, one must maintain his/her physical/social hijab (modesty/line of control) while interacting with their BIL/SIL as they are outsiders to you. A person becomes your BIL only by marrying your sister. Otherwise he is an outsider. Therefore, in order to prevent oneself from any sort of fatal attraction towards the BIL/SIL, social and physical hijab must be maintained i.e. unnecessary physical contact, lustful eye-contact and flirtatious behaviour should be avoided in order to prevent each other from getting any sort of wrong message which may lead to unwanted attraction or in the worst case scenario fornication/extra-marital affair. A BIL/SIL isn't your blood brother/sister, so you don't naturally feel any brotherly/sisterly affection towards them while engaging in a conversation/interaction. Hence one must exercise their physical and social hijab while interacting with them as long as they are married to your sister. Upon death/divorce of the sister, ex-BIL (once upon a time) may have a relationship with the ex-SIL (once upon a time) because then they become outsiders to you and are no longer obliged to stay committed or be in a relationship with your sibling.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mischy,thanks once again.I got it.You mean the BIL-SIl relation is not forbidden like the first cousins marriages in some Hindu communities, they can go for it subject to certain conditions .Hmm may be like you GK too might have heard some disgusting stories that have taken deep root and she can't get past them😆
It is allowed only when the first sister (the sister he married first) dies or he gets divorced from him. Otherwise marriage with the second sister is not permitted. Although BIL-SIL relationship is a respectable one, one must maintain his/her physical/social hijab (modesty/line of control) while interacting with their BIL/SIL as they are outsiders to you. A person becomes your BIL only by marrying your sister. Otherwise he is an outsider. Therefore, in order to prevent oneself from any sort of fatal attraction towards the BIL/SIL, social and physical hijab must be maintained i.e. unnecessary physical contact, lustful eye-contact and flirtatious behaviour should be avoided in order to prevent each other from getting any sort of wrong message which may lead to unwanted attraction or in the worst case scenario fornication/extra-marital affair. A BIL/SIL isn't your blood brother/sister, so you don't naturally feel any brotherly/sisterly affection towards them while engaging in a conversation/interaction. Hence one must exercise their physical and social hijab while interacting with them as long as they are married to your sister. Upon death/divorce of the sister, ex-BIL (once upon a time) may have a relationship with the ex-SIL (once upon a time) because then they become outsiders to you and are no longer obliged to stay committed or be in a relationship with your sibling.
Rabees, thanks for the info.
@bold makes me laugh at what's shown in QH wrt to the relations.🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Can we please coin a term like Gulvulgera which is Gul ke vulgar pethra!!! Actually coin it have a description for it and then even create a Wikipedia page for it????
Please I am begging all fans of QH who are internet savvy can we puhliz??????
GULVULGERA - she needs to be world famous!!!! Let's get her on the www

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