If Aahil doesn't respect wife, why should Rehan respect the marriage? - Page 5

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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: SurbhikiPankhi

Ikr! They are declared superior because of their responsibilities! But they don't take those in account. Oh well. You'd make a lovely competitor in a debate! <3 😳


haha i never thought i would b one :P but yeah im good with arguments 😛😛😛 im always in for logical n healthy debate 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I watched the TB video now, now seriously I am disappointed.
How can Aahil insult Sanam in front of his friends. Verbal abuse huh!
No Rehan is not wrong in wiping Sanam's tears. Aahil can dance with girls in the party, abuse Sanam but when Rehan wipes her tears, its not right?
I just hope Sanam gives it back to Aahil or warns him that she won't tolerate the crap anymore. But its wishful thinking.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anyways to all rehann fans i want to clear one thing i did not in any way meant to hurt anybody's feelings,,,, nor im just blinded by Aahil's love i know where he is wrong and i would say it still if it hurt anybody's feelings im sorry. obviously everybody is entitled to their viewpoint and every time ppl donot agree to every point... the first comment i gave was just written in the spirit of the show and i had not expected it would go this way... may be i was not able to clearly state my viewpoint.. anyways ... chill and enjoy the weekend... 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am sorry if I offend anyone but religion is one thing and self respect is another. We base our lives on our religion but that should not interfere with our outlook on our own value. After marriage a husband and wife both belong to each other not as a property or possession, but due to their willingness and the rights they attain because of the acceptance of the marriage. I am sorry but the whole "wife being property" really made me mad and I don't know if I am misunderstanding the intention of the writer, but I found that an extremely shallow and orthodox statement.
I really don't believe Rehaan was wrong in wiping Sanam's tears. Rehaan is a genuine person who has been cheated yet he doesn't eye Sanam or try to influence her. He loves her and can't see her suffer. He has been trying to control his feelings, but when he can see that Sanam has no one to comfort her, he feels it is his responsibility to lend her a shoulder to cry on. How can Aahil be jealous if he doesn't consider his marriage a marriage and Sanam his wife? Just getting married doesn't give you the rights or respect. You have to earn those. If getting married to someone gave you all rights then you could have physical relations with you spouse without their consent because you have the right to but that is known as marital rape and that is wrong on so many fronts.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: SurbhikiPankhi


Since we're talking in Islamic perspective here I'd like to point out that in your previous post you had stated that the husband has rights over the wife more than her parents and that they end after marriage.I'm sorry but Islam does not state that.
Here, Rehan wasn't touching her with bad intentions. He was merely wiping off her tears.

ok because u are talking abt islam and being amuslim girl
What@micshy said is totally right based on islam rules then yes
The rights of a husband over his wife is greater
Because mariage is between two a husband and wife!!
And husband has right on u as u r his wife abd he shares his life with u
Dont say so what if husband is asking her to do something wrong?
Then i will tell u that wife has to please her husband and do what he want as long as its not contrary to sharea (wich mean woman cannot follow her husband by doing something haram) because he is a muslim
So he has no right to ask his wife somehhing that his religion doesnt allow him
Here we are talking abt islam!!
Now talking abt qh what the girl said is also true! She is just talking abt husband who is not confortablz with someone touching his wife(and sanam she was not confortable also when she saw ahul watching her) so its justified!!!!
Now coming to a man who abuse his wife
No one can say the opposite a man has right on his wife but not abuse her or talk rude to her
And i think all religions and human right all agree on this !so i cant say more
And not because ahil flirt with girls which is WRONG AND DISGUSTING! then sanam should do the same(and i m sure sanam as a person she wont do this or even think of it thats why u can see that at the end yes disconfort was there)
And coming again to sahil and qh is a about muslim people then when u say qubool hai thatsmean u consider this a mariage and yes sge is his wife and he is her husband
So he has right to feel like this
But sadly this is a tv show if it was real life then ahil would have confessed and then he would be cool to tell her that he was jealous and unconfortable to see his wife so close to someone
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilhamez

ok because u are talking abt islam and being amuslim girl
What@micshy said is totally right based on islam rules then yes
The rights of a husband over his wife is greater
Because mariage is between two a husband and wife!!
And husband has right on u as u r his wife abd he shares his life with u
Dont say so what if husband is asking her to do something wrong?
Then i will tell u that wife has to please her husband and do what he want as long as its not contrary to sharea (wich mean woman cannot follow her husband by doing something haram) because he is a muslim
So he has no right to ask his wife somehhing that his religion doesnt allow him
Here we are talking abt islam!!
Now talking abt qh what the girl said is also true! She is just talking abt husband who is not confortablz with someone touching his wife(and sanam she was not confortable also when she saw ahul watching her) so its justified!!!!
Now coming to a man who abuse his wife
No one can say the opposite a man has right on his wife but not abuse her or talk rude to her
And i think all religions and human right all agree on this !so i cant say more
And not because ahil flirt with girls which is WRONG AND DISGUSTING! then sanam should do the same(and i m sure sanam as a person she wont do this or even think of it thats why u can see that at the end yes disconfort was there)
And coming again to sahil and qh is a about muslim people then when u say qubool hai thatsmean u consider this a mariage and yes sge is his wife and he is her husband
So he has right to feel like this
But sadly this is a tv show if it was real life then ahil would have confessed and then he would be cool to tell her that he was jealous and unconfortable to see his wife so close to someone

I justified my opinion, I don't need to repeat. 😊 Anywho this post is not about Islam it's about Aahil's behavior let's stick to that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SurbhikiPankhi

"Being dutiful to one's parents is not considered to have completed when they die. Their children are required to continue to show dutifulness to them by showing respect and kind treatment to their friends and relatives, supplicating on their behalf, praying to Allah to have mercy on them, reciting the Holy Quraan and giving Sadaqah or charitable donations on their behalf, etc. When parents have such a claim against their children, how is it possible that a husband prevents his wife from visiting her parents." - An Islamic website. I don't think the rights of parents end after marriage.
Anyway we're deviating from the topic.😊


Apologies had to dash for a while... I haven't mentioned parent's rights ending... but that the husbands rights become greater...
There is a Hadith of our Prophet SAW " if I were to allow prostration to anyone other than the One God , I would have directed women to prostrate to their husbands".

This implies that the right of the husband over his wife far exceeds the right of any human over another. But Islam does not condone the worship of any other being or thing except Allah, hence wives were not allowed to offer prostration to their husbands.

Sry to the topic maker... This has totally gone off topic 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Surbhiholic.

and yes i want rehaan to stay away from sanam as i don't want any misunderstanding between SaHil but i m ok with rehaan wiping sanam tears if it is only in friendly way ;)
i want rehaan to move on as in future he will be the one who is going to be hurt :'(


I completely agree with u ...👏 Rehan should move on ..warna he should be the one who will be completely shattered again...😭...Instead of becoming a Devdas He should become a ROWDY RATHORE to his BILLi mummy...she needs to get tht big revenge from her own son..😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Love love love your post!

I'm SO mad at Aahil now, it's not even funny.

Waiting for the episode to air isn't going to change anything. Sanam isn't his property!

Fine, he loves her. Fine. But... she doesn't even know that he does! All this stupidity isn't going to get her closer to him, it is going to push her further away. Idiot!

I'm mad as hell now. As mad as I was when Asad did this kind of thing, and let's not be blind, people. Asad did this kind of thing to Zoya too - and often. The slap was unforgiveable and still angers me.

Aahil's forceful dance is on par...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with your post. It was seriously not needed to insult her. CVs I guess they just get carried away sometimes.
I mean first you have shown Sanam Aahil talking about "pretending to be a happy married couple in front of others", and then you show this? 😕 You have to show them a happy married couple right? Then why are you showing him insulting her? What could we call it now?
There was NO NEED for that insulting part. Instead they could have gone the way they did with those aunties. A funny little nok jhok would be MUCH APPRECIATED. First you made him call her "Jaan" then you insult her? Why? This is just...I don't know? Have they forgotten or what?
This can't be tolerated.

What was shown in that segment was, he pulled her to him sitting beside him, and also said "Isne mera dil churaya hai..something like that. Why that? You insulted her first then say these words? DUMBO ARI. And he thinks she would see that love in his eyes? How? You have insulted her and then said sweet words? And in general, people only remember the bad times NOT the good times. So Sanam has been SO REALISTIC here.

Coming to the dance part. Well. Rehan's wiping her tears has different point of views.

Rehan is NOT wrong here. He loves her and he can't see her pain so he came and wiped. But if he thinks Sanam loves him too and he has some rights over her, then HE IS wrong.

For Sanam its NOT WRONG. Because she considers him as just her friend.

But for Aahil, He din't know it was wrong or not. He only knew I LOVE HER. No one can be that close to her except me. This action prompted some hidden feelings in him. And Aahil being in love with her, couldn't tolerate him wiping those tears of her. And if you love someones, whether you fight with them, argue with them. You do it. Because you feel only YOU have those rights over them. If someone else tries to show his rights on them it definitely irks. Whether the other one reciprocates same feelings or not. Because he wanted to be the one to wipe them. He wanted to be the one to whom she would come running whenever she is hurt. And not able to express those feelings he is even more frustrated. Frustration of not being the one to be with her with the frustration of her being with someone else being the same was taking his toll. He wants her to know he loves her, but she doesn't. HOW COULD SHE?! He unintentionally hurts her in this process. So when he sees someone else doing what he wanted to do with the girl who has made his life upside down, he loses it. The thing about this is, when he isn't able to express his possessiveness, this kind of action prompts him.

The best part in this whole drama is Sanam, who is the sole cause of this war, doesn't even have even a slightest idea, of what war these both brothers are in. 😆😆 Now, isn't that the MOST STRONGEST CHARACTER?! 😆
Edited by Prags_Sociopath - 11 years ago

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