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Namrata

@namzie

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#61

sorry to butt in

Submissive can hold power mentally is something glorified in movies and fiction but in reality this may not hold true !

carry on girls !

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Pragya

@Ms.Sherlocked

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#62

kshows and Annie, you forgot to mention Blindfold!! 😲 How come!!??😉 😆

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kshows_fangirl

@kshows_fangirl

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: namzie
sorry to butt in
Submissive can hold power mentally is something glorified in movies and fiction but in reality this may not hold true !
carry on girls !

That may be true or maybe not..I guess it just depends on how relationship works in reality..I do have one of my friends relationship which is that way..she is submissive and her boyfriend is dominant..from what I have seen he is totally whipped..it is kinda cute to see him being all oh so dominant, but in fact she holds the power over him..😉😆

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Pragya

@Ms.Sherlocked

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: kshows_fangirl

I would highly recommend Crossfire Series of Sylvia Day..Trust me once you read Gideon Cross you will forget all about Christian Grey!😉😆

Btw..though I am also waiting how the movie turns out!😆

Cross fire - i have heard a lot about it! Well, okay i'll read then, Forget all boy Grey? Thats interesting! 😆

Oh yes, the movie! The guy thats playing Grey, looks good! 😉😆

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Annie

@Star_girl

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: kshows_fangirl

Haha, Annie we sound like we have more knowledge than the rest..😆. I don't know if that is good or bad..I have read countless novels and some of my favorite book heroes are from BDSM type of theme..😆..What has Aahil done to us?

😆 More like KVB. I want to be his submissive, or dominant, given that he is a Virgo and must secretly love being dominated. 😉😆 Anyway, jokes apart, yeah. I know almost everything about BDSM there is to know, thanks to the BDSM fad in books. You should read Captive in the dark. Very dark book on this theme. Or better yet, watch Secretary. It is hilarious and hot at the same time. The Gyllenhaal siblings are gods. 🤗

Anyway, on topic, I must stop talking nonsense. Sorry for hijacking your thread, Gita. Will behave tomorrow. 😆

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kshows_fangirl

@kshows_fangirl

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath
kshows and Annie, you forgot to mention Blindfold!! 😲 How come!!??😉 😆

Haha, yeah..😆

That is important as well..but it is not required..I have read many BDSM them novels, and some use it and some don't..from what I gather it depends on the dominant if he wants to blindfold her as well..😆

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kshows_fangirl

@kshows_fangirl

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Prags_Sociopath

Cross fire - i have heard a lot about it! Well, okay i'll read then, Forget all boy Grey? Thats interesting! 😆
Oh yes, the movie! The guy thats playing Grey, looks good! 😉😆

Trust me you will..😉..Gideon-Eva one the best OTP couples ever!

Haha, girl I so do not like the actress playing Ava! She is not what I had pictured when I read 50 shades...the lead actor looks nice..but, someone like Ian Somerhalder would have looked really apt for the role of Christian Grey..

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Annie

@Star_girl

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: namzie
sorry to butt in
Submissive can hold power mentally is something glorified in movies and fiction but in reality this may not hold true !
carry on girls !

Untrue. I know a couple who practice this lifestyle in India. See, this lifestyle is not violence for the sake of violence which movie, fictions try to show. If anything, BDSM is harshly portrayed by media. IT is a consensual decision by two adults to lead a chosen lifestyle. We must not confuse BDSM with casual violence or casual misogyny on women, which is actually dangerous, not a consensual decision to lead a lifestyle. Media glorifies this casual violence, they hardly understand the lifestyle at all. I have written a thesis on it last year actually. 😆 Now why this is relevant, for Aahil, I feel his behaviour towards women border on sadomasochism, which is deeper, and not casual misogyny, or so I think as of yet.

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kshows_fangirl

@kshows_fangirl

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: Star_girl

😆 More like KVB. I want to be his submissive, or dominant, given that he is a Virgo and must secretly love being dominated. 😉😆 Anyway, jokes apart, yeah. I know almost everything about BDSM there is to know, thanks to the BDSM fad in books. You should read Captive in the dark. Very dark book on this theme. Or better yet, watch Secretary. It is hilarious and hot at the same time. The Gyllenhaal siblings are gods. 🤗

Anyway, on topic, I must stop talking nonsense. Sorry for hijacking your thread, Gita. Will behave tomorrow. 😆

Girl, we have more things in common!

I freaking loved and enjoyed Captive in Dark!!! What does that say about me?!!😆

But seriously girl, totally loved this series..one of the best I have read recently..😆

Haha, yeah sorry to the TM as well, it is all b/c Annie started it😉, and I couldn't help but share my knowledge!😆