okay!I know i cant love Haider-Humaira because i am a BIGGG AyRa fan. But still there are some reasons which prevent me from even accepting Haider-Humaira. So here i go...
First, i whole heartedly agree that Ayaan did a HUGE mistake which cant be forgiven easily.And so i do support Humz that she has every right to move on and fall in love for the second time. No qualms in that. She DOES NOT owe anything to Ayaan.In fact it is Ayaan who does owe an apology to her which is not even enough to heal the wounds he inflicted on her. Come on whatever the reason may b,he just cant leave her like that as if she doesn't even existed. So what i am trying to say here is that humaira is not at any fault.
Now what i dont like is that the way Humaira falls for Haider which is unbelievable .Yes,she definitely can fall in love but one cannot forget how long and how much she loved Ayaan.Though it was not equally reciprocated by Ayaan, the love which she had was very strong and powerful.She loved him with every piece of her soul from her childhood(God knows 4m when,probably 4m the time she was born lol😆) despite his immature, stupid nature or whatever u guys wanna call him and inspite of him ignoring her. So practically it is impossible for a girl to forget such a love so easily. Rather i would say it is impossible for a girl to forget that pain which comes out of such a strong love.Here i m not saying that a girl has to suffer in pain after her lover ditches her.All i say is it takes time irrespective of how strong a girl is.It s not at all possible practically to get over such a love in such a short time.The process is eventual. But they didnt give that time in the serial.They didnt show how she suffers from that pain(though they showed two three scenes that wasnt enough).They didnt show how she fell out of her powerful love for Ayaan.Hence this makes it difficult to accept that she has forgotten Ayaan.
Now, coming to Haider Humaira,what i dont like is 'falling in love' doesnt take place properly to me here. All i saw is just physical attraction. I didnt feel any heart to heart connection or talk between them.One day she hates him like anything that she goes to some extremes and the next day BAM, she is in love with him.I do understand that she thinks she gets the care 4m Haider which she didnt get 4m Ayaan and it can bring love again. But i think that the so called 'caring' scenes were not enough to bring such a love which can overpower her previous strong,long and powerful love that she goes physical with him.Not enough to go to that extent.She has not tried this stuff even with Ayaan.To go to that extent she needs a love which is BIGGER than what she had for Ayaan.So just being a gentleman and being kind for two-three times is not enough for me to bring such a bigger love though it has the potential to initiate the process.So thats y i cannot see any chemistry between them.
And yeah i dont hate Humaira.In fact i love her so much and i can never hate her. I m just sad that her character is ruined.I m saying that because accusing someone falsely of rape case and going physical with a person she hardly know doesnt go with the sweet,innocent Humaira's character.
So finally everything boils down to the fact that Humaira falling out of love with Ayaan and in love with Haider was not eventual and proper which makes it impossible to me to even accept Haider-Humaira.
Though these are all the reasons due to which i hate Haider Humaira,to be honest there is one more personal reason which tops all of it.And that is 'My heart does not race fast for Haider and Humaira as it does when i see Ayaan and Humaira Begam together onscreen'.I have fallen head over heels for my AyRa(can't i?)❤️
P.S:Now that i hv told everything in my heart.It is just my POV.And i m sorry if i hv hurt anyone. I can understand that people's thoughts differ and i DO respect everyone's opinion.So what do u think? u r free to comment whatever u want here.But please keep it healthy guys.
Kumkum Bhagya
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