Life is hard, but you live - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

I know, but Zoya should be the last person to give her advice i think or forcing her to smile when she herself was the same way on a seperate occasion. at least at that time Asad was WITH HER .. here Ayan has completely LEFT her.

Originally posted by: mochhug

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Haven't seen the epi yet, gonna watch it now 😳

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Okay, so I agree, Humeira doesn't have the experience pain wise to deal with this. Or rather to know how to deal with this blow. But I also think she's been through her share of pain in the last 6 months, with the ups and down with Ayaan. That being said, I agree that she needs some guidance.

On the other hand, Haider is cute. I like him and yes, he's a tad creepy with Razia. But I think he would be a good friend to her. However I agree with Rosh. WAY TOO SOON for another romantic interest. Me no likey 😡

And as for Zoya, well her character has been butchered. The Zoya I saw earlier on in the show would be the perfect advisor for Humeira. She was once too, in the Fashion Show. But after Ajmer, and after everything she knew about Tanveer's plans and intentions, I really agree with Rosh that her way of handling the situation is not that of a person who deals with pain with a "life must go one attitude."

Again, that being said, I would probably react that way too, for the first few days, if the man I was gonna marry was in bed with another woman. But not for a month, like Zoya. 🤔

And Humeira deserving better. I don't know. I think she does, but my heart aches for AyRa 😭 I do agree Ayaan leaving without a video, or explanation or anything, was wrong. And I personally really wanna see Asad and Humeira talk as well. (perhaps an OS in the works ). But I can't hate Ayaan. I am PISSED as hell at him. But I can't hate him. He's dumb, he's childish and impulsive, BUT he does love her. He just doesn't know right from wrong or think before he acts.

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

I remember as I think roggerocks for sparking my memory.. if im not mistaken, Zoya caught Asad and Tanveer in a compromising position and renounced the whole world.. went into a shell state .. did not reach out to her own appi and jiju who raised her to even tell them she is okay, did not speak to anyone.. slept on a floor, did samaj seva, and it was not until learning that Asad and Tanveer did not sleep together that she even went back to get her right back.

I think Humeira is ALLOWED TO be in the state she is in. She is allowed to be angry and allowed to show it, express it. Is hurting herself wise? ABS. NOT., thats CV's shitty writing to even show that.. but at least she hasnt run away from her family. She is minding her own business..

People need to give her space to get over this. Cant expect her to smile and make merry and fall for another guy over night.

Originally posted by: VashH

Zoya is the best person for this .
We are made wiser by experience and we all know Zoya has this .
Experience is a hard teacher she it gives the test first and the lessons afterwards .

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I totally agree with you.

I have never completely sided with Zoya on anything. She seems so insensitive to me.

She pretends she can laugh through all her pain and acts like she always does the logical and practical thing, but as you mentioned she actually just preaches, but doesn't practice her own philosophy. Zoya left everyone behind, even Asad's mum, who she says means more to her than a mother, and yet she keeps lecturing everyone that they should forgive, forget, life goes on, and stick by those that are your own. I find it extremely hypocritical that she left Dilshad then, and yet lectures Asad not to leave behind his father who has never been a father, and is ready to ditch Asad for his mother and yet she ditched Dilshad just a few months ago because of Asad.😕

I don't think Humeira having a happy life means she doesn't understand pain, or doesn't know how to deal with it. Anyone in her position would feel pain. She has been hurt twice by Ayaan now, she had already planned her life with him and was going to marry, of course she's going to be emotionally shattered.

As for people thinking Zoya's attitude helps people, it usually doesn't. She might want to make people laugh, she might make jokes, she might be playful, but not everyone wants that when they're upset, and not everyone wants to be like that either. By making light of a situation does not mean the pain lightens. It's just insensitive.

I'm just waiting for the time she finds out how her father happily let her mother be murdered, I wonder if she'll happily forgive and forget that..