Life is hard, but you live

saida.m thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 11 years ago
#1
I loved the Zoya-Humaira scene today.

For Humaira, Ayaan leaving her and not loving her enough is perhaps the worst thing that has happened. She has lived a happy, secure and loved life. She has a set of parents who would do anything for her, and have done as well. She has had sisters who were her best friends, an annoying but protective guy who was so special to her. A family who loves her, a comfortable and very luxurious life.

Ayaan's nikaah and then him leaving is a disruption in her life. For a girl who has never had hard times in her life, it is unbearable for her to take in all these blows at once. She has no understanding of pain of this degree and hence is totally unequipped to deal with it and she has chosen the only way she thinks is best - ignore the pain, ignore the emotions, ignore everything.


Here is where I think Zoya can be very important (i really hope the show utilities this potential track)

Zoya has had the worst of it all. Lost her parents, physical trauma, emotional trauma, scars that would never let her forget what happened, no siblings to share her laughs and tears with. She is in a country she barely understands. Multiple attacks, forced wedding(s), buried alive, thrown off a cliff, public humiliation, and what not!

But she is a survivor and she deals with everything that her life has thrown at her. I think Zoya-Humaira bonding over loss and pain is great track. Humaira needs someone who tells her that this is not the end, that pain is a part of life and we have to live with it. There cannot be a better person than Zoya to maker her understand that.

Humaira Begum, you share Zoya Farooqui's DNA, so you don't buckle, run away or turn your back at the pain, you suck it up!



Edited by saida.m - 11 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

14

Views

1.4k

Users

6

Likes

29

Frequent Posters

RosyRosh thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 11 years ago
#2
I remember as I think roggerocks for sparking my memory.. if im not mistaken, Zoya caught Asad and Tanveer in a compromising position and renounced the whole world.. went into a shell state .. did not reach out to her own appi and jiju who raised her to even tell them she is okay, did not speak to anyone.. slept on a floor, did samaj seva, and it was not until learning that Asad and Tanveer did not sleep together that she even went back to get her right back.
I think Humeira is ALLOWED TO be in the state she is in. She is allowed to be angry and allowed to show it, express it. Is hurting herself wise? ABS. NOT., thats CV's shitty writing to even show that.. but at least she hasnt run away from her family. She is minding her own business..

People need to give her space to get over this. Cant expect her to smile and make merry and fall for another guy over night.
saida.m thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 11 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

I remember as I think roggerocks for sparking my memory.. if im not mistaken, Zoya caught Asad and Tanveer in a compromising position and renounced the whole world.. went into a shell state .. did not reach out to her own appi and jiju who raised her to even tell them she is okay, did not speak to anyone.. slept on a floor, did samaj seva, and it was not until learning that Asad and Tanveer did not sleep together that she even went back to get her right back.

I think Humeira is ALLOWED TO be in the state she is in. She is allowed to be angry and allowed to show it, express it. Is hurting herself wise? ABS. NOT., thats CV's shitty writing to even show that.. but at least she hasnt run away from her family. She is minding her own business..

People need to give her space to get over this. Cant expect her to smile and make merry and fall for another guy over night.



I agree! I understand her reaction, I just think that the way she has lived her life, it is very difficult for her to understand where everything went wrong.

While I like Haider's character, I strongly feel that a romantic connection between the two of them is way too soon.

I just want Humaira and Zoya bonding.


RosyRosh thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 11 years ago
#4

Originally posted by: saida.m



I agree! I understand her reaction, I just think that the way she has lived her life, it is very difficult for her to understand where everything went wrong.

While I like Haider's character, I strongly feel that a romantic connection between the two of them is way too soon.

I just want Humaira and Zoya bonding.



I know, but Zoya should be the last person to give her advice i think or forcing her to smile when she herself was the same way on a seperate occasion. at least at that time Asad was WITH HER .. here Ayan has completely LEFT her.
mochhug thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 11 years ago
#5
RES
Haven't seen the epi yet, gonna watch it now 😳

--------- Edited -----------

Okay, so I agree, Humeira doesn't have the experience pain wise to deal with this. Or rather to know how to deal with this blow. But I also think she's been through her share of pain in the last 6 months, with the ups and down with Ayaan. That being said, I agree that she needs some guidance.

On the other hand, Haider is cute. I like him and yes, he's a tad creepy with Razia. But I think he would be a good friend to her. However I agree with Rosh. WAY TOO SOON for another romantic interest. Me no likey 😡

And as for Zoya, well her character has been butchered. The Zoya I saw earlier on in the show would be the perfect advisor for Humeira. She was once too, in the Fashion Show. But after Ajmer, and after everything she knew about Tanveer's plans and intentions, I really agree with Rosh that her way of handling the situation is not that of a person who deals with pain with a "life must go one attitude."

Again, that being said, I would probably react that way too, for the first few days, if the man I was gonna marry was in bed with another woman. But not for a month, like Zoya. 🤔

And Humeira deserving better. I don't know. I think she does, but my heart aches for AyRa 😭 I do agree Ayaan leaving without a video, or explanation or anything, was wrong. And I personally really wanna see Asad and Humeira talk as well. (perhaps an OS in the works ). But I can't hate Ayaan. I am PISSED as hell at him. But I can't hate him. He's dumb, he's childish and impulsive, BUT he does love her. He just doesn't know right from wrong or think before he acts.
Edited by mochhug - 11 years ago
saida.m thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 11 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: -Shayari-


I know, but Zoya should be the last person to give her advice i think or forcing her to smile when she herself was the same way on a seperate occasion. at least at that time Asad was WITH HER .. here Ayan has completely LEFT her.



Not force her! Never!

I get what you are saying and that makes sense! I am not saying that Humaira needs to snap out of it - that is unrealistic.

Not offence to any Ayaan lovers, but Humaira deserves someone better.
RosyRosh thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 11 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: saida.m



Not force her! Never!

I get what you are saying and that makes sense! I am not saying that Humaira needs to snap out of it - that is unrealistic.

Not offence to any Ayaan lovers, but Humaira deserves someone better.


SHE DOES DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER! Totally agree, and Haider can most certainly be that someone better! He seems to already put her on a pedastool and I LOVE THAT as a Humeira fan, but its TOO MUCH TOO SOON for people like me who are stiill not over Ayan and Humeira.. its TOO SOON TO QUICK. they could have given a month or few weeks before diving right in.

ONCE HE ENTERED it was HUMEIRA the first thing. NO.. at least get to know her first. At least take some time with the other family members first before jumping into her life..
saida.m thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 11 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: -Shayari-


SHE DOES DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER! Totally agree, and Haider can most certainly be that someone better! He seems to already put her on a pedastool and I LOVE THAT as a Humeira fan, but its TOO MUCH TOO SOON for people like me who are stiill not over Ayan and Humeira.. its TOO SOON TO QUICK. they could have given a month or few weeks before diving right in.

ONCE HE ENTERED it was HUMEIRA the first thing. NO.. at least get to know her first. At least take some time with the other family members first before jumping into her life..



That irked me so much!
It was the same freaking day! I understand how he is enamored by her from the first moment, but please don't show a budding romance so quick! He wants to help her get better - that's nice but let her be for a moment.
Don't intrude, let her wallow -she needs to do that - then make it better for her
He needs to be shown as a friend to her, not the type of friend who lifts you up and pulls you to him (given that he was helping her), but the kind that is just there.



RosyRosh thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 11 years ago
#9
Pushing her against a WALL. LIKE COME THE f**k ON.
Saima-Syed thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 11 years ago
#10
Nicely put, Zoya has really been through it all...hope her being in SM helps her and Humera to be strong enough together for when their true identities are revealed

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".