Zoya will never be Asad's priority!

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LaVita-E-Bella

@LaVita-E-Bella

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#51

Just a few days ago, both weren't prioritizing each other right? But I guess you really just could not stand to go against Zoya and it would be a crime to for once to take Asad's side in the matter.

I think you're forgetting something here, she went to find Asad to stay back, not to go with him. If she really can't live without him, why couldn't she just agree to go with him and make him HER priority for once. He clearly doesn't want to stay there, so why is she trying to force him to do something he doesn't want. Is she no different than Asad now? Once again, it was about what she wanted, not him because she just has to get her way.

If you watched the episode closely, he was ready to stay for her, but she had to go ahead and once again bring in Rashid and tell him to stay for him. So was she really asking him to stay for herself? Or for a man who she barely knows herself and that he hates with a passion.

Is it so wrong for him to choose his mother over her? It's totally okay for Zoya to choose her phuppi and Rashid over him, but it's not okay for him to pick his mother over her. It's totally fine when Zoya picks others around her over Asad, but when Asad does the same it's a freaking crime!

I just want to add one more thing, this whole being an "American" and "New Yorker" nonsense? What exactly are you trying to prove everytime you bring in that crap? Being an American has nothing to do with one's views, attire, etc. It has nothing to do with one's independence. I don't understand why any of that has to do with how independent and progressive a woman is. I know plenty of girls who cover head to toe, yet have reached the highest levels of education, have jobs, live on their own. Each of their views different from the next. And I know plenty of "modern" girls who have no jobs and all they want to do is get married. All are Americans, regardless of what they wear, what they think and what they do. There is no correct way to be an "American". People of all different cultures, backgrounds, viewpoints, religions live in this country. One's thinking and independence or lack of makes them no less of an American than the next.

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-Spice-

@-Spice-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#52

Trading !?!? Again!!!!!?

I guess Zoya had put Asad first always.. Was he her priority when she went to see Dhoni ? Was he her priority when she ran away frm her wedding? N more recently was Asad's feelings her priority when she was foring him to accept Rashid n Dilshad?

I'm not saying Asad's perfect either... But it's different in this case... Asad's feelings towards Rashid is not new, it's not developed overnight... He always resented Rashid n was protective of his mother n sister... Where does putting Zoya first come here? The equation is between Asad, Rashid, Dilshad n Shireen..(. Of course if Ayaan was here it would be more meaningful... ) ... Asad's n Zoya's relationship is not exactly the question at this point in the show!

Edited by -Spice- - 11 years ago

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Sue

@Sue101

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#53

i thought the trading topics got over in season 1 of QH 😆

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Zoe

@Judie

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#54

Wht on the world is going on here😕, are we on a blaming/bashing game😆...

I agree with you that zoya will never be his 1st priority, but why should she?

Just answer me 1 thing, if you ever have to choose between your boyfriend or your mother who give birth to you, introduce you to the world, who taught you how to talk, walk, laugh, who carried you in her womb for freaking 9 months, who went through so much just to bring you to the world. Who would you choose? Who would you prioritize 1st?

For me, no matter how wrong my mother is? No matter how stupid or irritating or annoying or stubborn etc etc she is?😆She'll alway be my first priority😳. Because if she wasn't there in the first place thn I wouldn't have been here today typing shits😆

I'm not defending anyone here, I'm just trying to say why are you making this forum a war zone😕. We all will prioritize our mother before anyone, don't we? 🥱

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sochona

@sochona

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#55

rapunzale, i think i understand your problem. you dont like asad so whatever he may do or not do, you are never going to like him or see his point of view. i understand that if you do not like a character, you cannot like him even if the whole world likes him or even if he becomes a saint, you would still dislike asad. i understand because i feel the same way about zoya. i dislike her, and whatever happens , whatever she does, i am never going to like her.bias against a partcular character can happen and if so admit it.
and btw, i do not agree with your ideas of zoya being very progressive just because she is from new york. that statement reeks of snobbery.

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butterfly15..

@butterfly15..

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#56

It can also be said that Asad will never be Zoya's priority.

The way I see it is that BOTH of them take each other for granted.

You are saying that he chose his mother over Zoya, but Zoya also chose his mother and his father over him, that same father he hates!🥱

I disagree with people that assume that a man should always put his love over his mother, why should he? Zoya has been in his life for just a year, and his mother is the one who has been there with him for every step of the way. If it wasn't for his mother, he probably wouldn't even be alive today, so why should he have to put Zoya ahead of his mother?

Why do people always bring in the you must choose between your love and your mother? How many of you would be happy if your partner tells you that you must pick him ahead of your parents? I don't even know why it's a competition!

Anyway my problem with Zoya isn't that she doesn't prioritize Asad, it's that she seems to fail to understand his pain. It's easy for Zoya supporters to say that she didn't want to go to New York with him because she loves him and wants to do what's best for him.. BUT put yourself in his position, your partner chooses your parents over you, those same parents that seem to care more about each other than you, with one parent abandoning you as a child, and the other leaving now, would you really think your partner is breaking up with you because they love you? Really? I say congratulations to anyone who can think like that in such a emotional state of mind, when you feel abandoned and betrayed, and your partner picks your father who abandoned you, over you! Of course that would make you feel so loved.

Plus Zoya doesn't have a right to force Asad to forgive Rashid. That is a personal issue. Just because they're a couple, doesn't mean one partner has the right to decide who you should forgive or not. Just like when it comes to Zoya's turn to forgive her father, if she chooses not to, Asad should respect that. Persuading and encouraging is one thing, forcing they way Zoya is, is wrong.

I didn't like Asad at the beginning as sometimes he wasn't very accepting of the way Zoya is, but he has changed and is very accepting of her, but now Zoya seems to always try and enforce her thoughts and feelings onto him.

Edited by butterfly15.. - 11 years ago

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Zoe

@Judie

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: butterfly15..
It can also be said that Asad will never be Zoya's priority.
The way I see it is that BOTH of them take each other for granted.

You are saying that he chose his mother over Zoya, but Zoya also chose his mother and his father over him, that same father he hates!🥱

I disagree with people that assume that a man should always put his love over his mother, why should he? Zoya has been in his life for just a year, and his mother is the one who has been there with him for every step of the way. If it wasn't for his mother, he probably wouldn't even be alive today, so why should he have to put Zoya ahead of his mother?

Why do people always bring in the you must choose between your love and your mother? How many of you would be happy if your partner tells you that you must pick him ahead of your parents? I don't even know why it's a competition! (Exactly, why is it even a competition??? I'm not so surprised that some people choose their boyfriend/ girlfriend over their parents nowadays)

Anyway my problem with Zoya isn't that she doesn't prioritize Asad, it's that she seems to fail to understand his pain. It's easy for Zoya supporters to say that she didn't want to go to New York with him because she loves him and wants to do what's best for him.. BUT put yourself in his position, your partner chooses your parents over you, those same parents that seem to care more about each other than you, with one parent abandoning you as a child, and the other leaving now, would you really think your partner is breaking up with you because they love you? Really? I say congratulations to anyone who can think like that in such a emotional state of mind, when you feel abandoned and betrayed, and your partner picks your father who abandoned you, over you! Of course that would make you feel so loved.

Plus Zoya doesn't have a right to force Asad to forgive Rashid. That is a personal issue. Just because they're a couple, doesn't mean one partner has the right to decide who you should forgive or not. Just like when it comes to Zoya's turn to forgive her father, if she chooses not to, Asad should respect that. Persuading and encouraging is one thing, forcing they way Zoya is, is wrong.

I didn't like Asad at the beginning as sometimes he wasn't very accepting of the way Zoya is, but he has changed and is very accepting of her, but now Zoya seems to always try and enforce her thoughts and feelings onto him.( yes she does, and he simply listen to her and do what she tells him to do most of the time even if he doesn't like it, they are 2 different person with completely opposite personalities. And if they can't accept each other just the way they are and have to impose each other thoughts and idea on each other then it's best for them to part away because relationship needs understanding,love, trust, faith in each other and etc etc. Relationship never works if they lack any of them)

BOLD- exactly my point

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

I never said anything about any particular geographical region though...but yes in general women here are more aware and open to things. I don't like stereotyping either. Zoya being portrayed as a newyorker is a mis portrayal in every possible sense...her attire, her accent, her views.

Yes, Zoya's attire and accent bears no resemblance to a New Yorker and I bet you won't find any of her jeans in any of the stores over here 😆 but again her views are debatable. Anyways it is a fictional story and I am opting not to go an extra mile in discussing technicalities and incompatibility with general consensus.

I know😉 but it does bug me sometimes because I did like Zoya's character in the beginning. The girl had spunk...it's just gone right now.

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes
@Priyanka: in that case, I understand your dislike of Asad...my bad..I thought u were an ASR fan...
I bash every character..they are all grey to me...depending on their behaviour now...I analyse them😊

no problem Shruti...although Barun nailed it as ASR😉...I very much disliked his character and I still feel that his character wasn't redeemed the way it should have.

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xxMATSxx

@RosyRosh

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#60

Its easy for a woman to be made a bechari.. and put sole blame on the man. Its takes a LOT more HONESTY to remove yourself from the shoes of a WOMAN's perspective, and see the situation for what it is to NOTICE that BOTH Zoya and Asad have SCREWED UP HUGE EQUALLY. Zoya is NOT by ANY MEANS a bechari just like Asad is not a bechara. They have their own minds. NO ONE IS BRAINWASHING OR CONTROLLING THEM. I dont see any ALIENS coming from planet HUHA mind-controlling their every moves and situations.

So i really am waiting for the day people on this forum stop feeling SO MUCH sympathy for her and feeling as if she is given the worlds pain. Same the other way as well with Asad.

IM NOT EVEN GOING TO COMMENT on your "point" about Zoya not being Asad's priority because FRANKLY Asad ALSO HAS NOT been Zoya's priority. PLEASE NOTICE that for BOTH OF THEM .. ABOVE EACH OTHER.. they put their FAMILIES as their priorities. That is what makes them unique.

if she is FED pain, then she has every "modernity" to BAIL. If zoya calls herself a MODERN GIRL.. then BE A MODERN girl.. and BAIL. why is she still with Asad?

Oh.. I KNOW.. because its MORE THAN his and her PAIN. its THEIR PAIN. ITS LOVE. People REALLY need to understand that in relationships..its easy to BREAK THEM but HARD TO MAKE AND MAINTAIN THEM. Asad and Zoya's lives are NOT ONLY ABOUT EACHOTHER. They have PLENTY of baggage from their past that make their principles to prioritize and give EQUAL love and concern for their families..

YES we all get PISSED off as fans and carried away in emotions. I get pissed with Zoya on many occasions.. just as others gets pissed at Asad.. like yourself TM. But from my personal perspective.. my anger is always short lived.. because I KNOW that its just me venting about situations.. I know that I dont always hate zoya.. she has her good days. And i dont always love asad.. he has his shit days. I can give credit to characters when they are due.. why? Because this isnt just ZOYA's show. This isnt just about ZOYA. Just as this isnt just about Asad. This is about BOTH OF THEM and their journey's as characters and how they evolve or regress.

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