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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Rorschach

In Dilshad's case, she gave herself to her kids selflessly for the past 17 years

Is reverse is not true. Didnot Asad devote himself selflessly to his mother and sister. Did not he chose a destitute mother over a rich father.
So now where the loyalities of Dilshad lies. One call from rashid and she is ready to leave Asad for the same man who took his father and his brother away and now santching his mother and why becuse she is in love how convenient😕


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: surbhiholic

people saying Dilshad could fulfill her needs,by other man but fact is she loved and still loves Rashid only... so why shouldnt she go with her beloved one?? cause its her life and she can do anything she thinks best for herself



Yeah she can lie in the next bed in the maternity ward with her daughter and daughter in law , while they deliver her grandchildren and she delivers their sibling. How convenient and such a wonderful and beautiful story it would be,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post!!

Asad and Dilshad are right in there places!!
Dilshad deserves to be happy!!! It's just sad that Dilshad loves a man like Rashid!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nothing is wrong with Dilshad wanting to feel complete, yes she spent 17yrs giving her all to he kids and neglecting her feelings, but she did not have a choice she was abandon by her spineless husband, I don't know why people are forgetting this or even why Dilshad seems to be forgetting this truth.
Rashid first cheated on her with another woman and then he abandon her and her kids. She is allowing this man to alter the course of her life.
What happen to Rashid all of a sudden he saw the light and he wants his family together, why now, there is something we are not seeing.
How does Rashid expect his two wife to live in the same house, disgusting.
Where is Dilshad self esteem, where is this woman principle, she is allowing Rashid to turn her into shireen, the other woman.
For me it is not a matter of Dilshad choosing her son or husband I wanted to see her choose herself, I wanted to see strong woman who is not define by her son or husband. I wanted to see the woman who stand on her own too feet to raise two kids, I wanted to see the independent woman. this decision that dilshad made today was a insult to all single mothers and widows today, what are they trying to saying that a woman can only be complete with a man, no matter is the man is a lying, cheating scum.
I was disappointed with dilshad today I always saw her as a woman of class and dignity, but today it showed that she was nothing more than a liar. she wears a mask to hide her true self.
sorry if I hurt any anyone, but I was just disappointed with they was she was portrayed for the past couple of days.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: latanzia

Nothing is wrong with Dilshad wanting to feel complete, yes she spent 17yrs giving her all to he kids and neglecting her feelings, but she did not have a choice she was abandon by her spineless husband, I don't know why people are forgetting this or even why Dilshad seems to be forgetting this truth.

Rashid first cheated on her with another woman and then he abandon her and her kids. She is allowing this man to alter the course of her life.
What happen to Rashid all of a sudden he saw the light and he wants his family together, why now, there is something we are not seeing.
How does Rashid expect his two wife to live in the same house, disgusting.
Where is Dilshad self esteem, where is this woman principle, she is allowing Rashid to turn her into shireen, the other woman.
For me it is not a matter of Dilshad choosing her son or husband I wanted to see her choose herself, I wanted to see strong woman who is not define by her son or husband. I wanted to see the woman who stand on her own too feet to raise two kids, I wanted to see the independent woman. this decision that dilshad made today was a insult to all single mothers and widows today, what are they trying to saying that a woman can only be complete with a man, no matter is the man is a lying, cheating scum.
I was disappointed with dilshad today I always saw her as a woman of class and dignity, but today it showed that she was nothing more than a liar. she wears a mask to hide her true self.
sorry if I hurt any anyone, but I was just disappointed with they was she was portrayed for the past couple of days.


Word @ Bold. So damn right she is an embarrassment to single mothers, widows and divorcee's world arounf. A man does not complete a woman. A woman completes herself.

You ask me Indian serials are hypocrites. Sometimes you see that a woman has a wonderful man by her side and even tha she is not complete for she hasn't got a child. Can't the woman make up her mind. Is it a man completes you or your child that completes you.

Nothing completes a woman more than conception, delivery, and bringing up your own child. Not even a man.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No it's not wrong to want to feel 'complete' or whatever, but Dilshaad is going about it the wrong way.

At the end of the day she picked the man who deserted her and her two young children, over the son who took on all the household responsibilities and never left her side. That just seems wrong to me.

Let's not forgot she's also willing to ruin another family, and another woman's life, for her own sake. All this time I thought Shireen was bad, but the lady didn't even know her husband still loved Dilshaad and was still married to her.😲


I know it must be hard to deny the man you love, (even though he abandoned her🥱),but is he really worth losing your devoted son over? Never in my opinion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dilshad life became complete the day she held Asad in her arms for the first time . There is no love greater than that. There is no bargain for a mother when her child is held ransom . Today another child asked her to listen to her heart . She did not do so .
Because if she did she will not be shamelessly entering SM tomorrow. You see there is none that can ever take the place of a child in a mothers heart !! I have a happy life with my husband but every morning at seven I lie on my bed waiting for four phone calls which comes one after the next . My four boys . Once I hear their voices my day is already complete . My husband always teases me with a cup of coffee in his hand telling me you had your four cups of sweet coffee . You don't need this bitter one . And he drinks it. Men !!ugggh .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28
I agree with you in all of them.
But I strongly feel that Rashid is growing a spine and is slowly going against the SM family for Dilshad, as he spoke the truth today about not having divorced Dilshad.

Then is Shireen considered his wife?

And what do you think is going to happen to Shireen? Did her character end or will she come back? I think she will come back when the Gudiya factory secret comes out or may be even earlier, may be when Vikrant comes back.

The big question is how will Dilshad be treated? How is Asad going to cope with this?

Khan Villa's population is decreasing like crazy. First 5(including Tannu), then 4, 3 and now 2. :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i am with you..totally agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: VashH

Dilshad life became complete the day she held Asad in her arms for the first time . There is no love greater than that. There is no bargain for a mother when her child is held ransom . Today another child asked her to listen to her heart . She did not do so .
Because if she did she will not be shamelessly entering SM tomorrow. You see there is none that can ever take the place of a child in a mothers heart !! I have a happy life with my husband but every morning at seven I lie on my bed waiting for four phone calls which comes one after the next . My four boys . Once I hear their voices my day is already complete . My husband always teases me with a cup of coffee in his hand telling me you had your four cups of sweet coffee . You don't need this bitter one . And he drinks it. Men !!ugggh .


Oh i like your husband already...

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