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Xarina

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

No babes don't be vengeful. Just stay away from those who hurt you. Vengence creates negativity in ones soul and therefore is not good for health, mind and soul.😛😛

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

#Sheila wow you and your Mr Khan are amazing i must say :$

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RandomSquared

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

I would pick my dignity and self respect and I would pick the person who has stood by me all these years and tried his very best to give me every bit of happiness. In this case that person is Asad the son.

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sheilasandhu

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: RandomSquared
I would pick my dignity and self respect and I would pick the person who has stood by me all these years and tried his very best to give me every bit of happiness. In this case that person is Asad the son.

WORD @ BOLD👏👏

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Silvy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Iam Not A Mother But I Will Still Choose My Child Over My Husband.
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rajsmi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

I have never posted before...have been a forum member for a few months now and have just started reading some great fictions here...

No one may like my answer but I am with Dilshad. This is not an easy answer- to choose between her kids and ex. If the kids were younger and they needed her, then yes, the answer would be an easy one. But, at this point, she has done all her duties and the kids have chosen their partners. From now, her life is going to be pretty lonely, like an empty nester although she lives with her son.

She has fulfilled her duties and now, she wants to see if there is a second chance of happiness for her self. is there something wrong in being a little selfish at this point? I think not. Let her go, take a risk and experience things for herself. She is a grown women and if she has done everything right to this point, then I would respect her decision and if she makes mistakes, then I would welcome her back with full support, if I was her son.

I am a 49 year old woman, happily married for 23 years with 2 boys, 19 and 16 and can for see the future of an empty nest, hence the leaning towards Dilshad. I also grew up in a broken family with 2 beautiful people who didnt love each other so they separated and we (my older sister and I) encouraged my mom to marry at almost 60 and she gained a second chance at happiness with everyone's support. We have just one life and if we can mend things or try for some peace or closure or happiness for a second time, shouldn't we all support that? And, if that fails, so what? Life is too short for sour endings...

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Hafizakhan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Husband's come and go.

Your child is your's forever.

I would give my life for my son's, even after they are adults.

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Xarina

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Hafizakhan
Husband's come and go.
Your child is your's forever.

I would give my life for my son's, even after they are adults.

And then would you live a life devoid of any happiness that is solely for you? Children become adults. They move on. When that happens, what would you have left?

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Meaningful

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Great topic!!

I have to agree rajsmi and Xarina, with an additional point to add.

I have heard and understood that we spend most of our life's years with your partner, provided you both live long enough.

You spend only portion of those years with kids. Kids do move on, and their priorities do change. even though for a mom, kid might be first priority, it will not be same for kid, once they build their own nest - and that makes sense too.

So, it is better to keep the relationship with your partner, if he is good.

But, if he is like Rashid, then i am not sure, if dillu is doing the right thing. hurting shirin, and other family members by moving with rashid - not a good move.

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-Hinaloveasya-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

I m not a mother but I would like to tell my pov

If my child was with me for 17 years n have been supporting me through out ( if not i will be still there for him coz he was with me in my bad time ) i would not leave him infact I would make him my strength n will be with him in every happiness n sorrows

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