No Dilshad! A woman does not need a man to fulfill her life. - Page 3

Well said

but surely a child needs his mother 😃

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle

Ambu -

fulfilling ur needs and fulfilling ur life are two different things😆.

And yes she is not going there for her physical or material needs as u put it, but if she gets some sort sadistic pleasure out of torture, I don't know how her emotional needs will be fulfilled by THAT man in THAT house.😕

Exactly Rivs, Her call , Her mistakes .. let her make them... nobody has a right to stop her ...

As much as I hate to say this...it is a thought process which is very much real...and I hope Gul addresses this and makes Dilshaad see sense...that's all I can say...and it's not about Asad here...it's about Dilshaad...she is ruining her own life...more than anybody else's

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

Exactly Rivs, Her call , Her mistakes .. let her make them... nobody has a right to stop her ...

She is an adult ... If this is what she wants then it is what she wants !

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Ofcourse...if they are really divorced, Dilshad is a mistress and Rashid/ Dilshad will be committing adultery. But I think they are not officially divorced and I guess in Islam polygamy is legal.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

It is 100% adultery. In Islam if the husband does not support his wife for a certain time period than she can automatically be divorced. And when i say support , it means in every sense of the word, financially, emotionally and psychically. Rashid has done none for 17 years hence she is no longer his wife.

I hope Asad does not forgive her so easily when she comes back. She should realise why Asad hated that man and why he has been so bitter with the slime ball Rashid abandoning them 17 years ago.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

i agree with you. In fact there was a distant relative once whose husband was in US and never supported her financially and also never came to visit her for a couple of years and they were automatically divorced.

Plus I am pretty sure they stated earlier that Rashid and Dilshad were legally divorced.

Even though, i feel no sympathy for shirin, I just cant believe that dilshad is ready to do exactly what shirin did to her.

Exactly !!
As far as I know a marriage could be dissolved after seven yrs of separation.. If the spouses are not in contact with each other . One party can file for the divorce if this is the case . Also in many countries a common law wife is as good as the legal wife . . Meaning if a husband and wife separates and did not get a divorce and choose to live with another the wife is considered to be a common law wife and holds claim on the husband up to a certain point . But is recognized as husband and wife. .
Marriages are legalized as per law of the state and is uphold as such. .
Some marriages are never legalized by law ... and is bonded by the laws of religion and god only .
Right now this relationship is breaking both laws .

Originally posted by: Luv4games

not only does a woman not need a man to fulfill her life but most importantly she doesnt need ANOTHER woman's man also.

Like it or not dilshad and rashid are divorced and he is legally married to shirin so in order to for him to call dilshad wife he has to divorce shirin or keep dilshad as his mistress. Does she really want to be the other woman and a mistress? does she have no self respect?

how in heavens name can a supposedly sensible woman like dilshad make she is decision and this is go to live in another womans house with that woman husband.. and the wife likes in the next room...😆 really I cant see any logic in that whole scenario... I feel shame for dillu..