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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: tnusredey

Farhan is a lecherous guy 4 sure. but I don't think it will ever b marital rape coz if he does want to sleep with Nikhat, he will b able to convince her, I don't think Nikhat will ever disagree & farhan will enjoy both . 😆

yes she may not disagree at first. I see what u mean.
But what happens when it keeps happening. Woman's intuition has to play a role. What happens when the demands exceed what is normal for her. Violence and Rape will not be too far behind.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi Rivs,

A post on a very serious matter which happens on a daily basis throughout the world...Marital Rape is a haneous crime and I consider it as even horrific than a rape by a stranger. Statistics show us that women are raped more often by someone they know and trust than strangers. Hence marital rape or rape by a friend psychologically and emotionally scars a person to an extent that a person cannot move on in their respective lives. It takes a lot of time and support to do that.

Coming to the Farhaan/ Nikhat angle...very likely it might happen but Farhan seems to be very respectful towards Nikhat. As far as the story still now it hasn't been shown that Farhan is a rapist. The prostitutes he is with are all willing participants. They were not raped neither has it been shown that he has killed them. If Nikhat says no to his advances...it will be marital rape. But I am afraid women like Nikhat believes that a husband has a right to do as he pleases. It's very sad that Indian society doesn't punish men on the charges of marital rape.

Priyanka

Yes. For some reason that scene coupled with some conclusion that have been made on Farhan, made me think of this topic. Its controversial to talk about on an open forum, but I was willing to take a chance. We do have some very reasonable people like yourself, who can have a mature conversation/ discussion on such a topic too.
@ bold - word. 👏. My theory is that Nikhat at first may give into his lust, misinterpreting it to be love. She is innocent that way and really craves for his approval and love. But for how long, can Farhan mask his needs? It will have to reach a point, where something does not feel right. A realization moment for Nikhat.
In cases of Marital rape, most victims do know that what is happening is no way normal, but then they have to either rely on their inner strength or an external support to voice their sufferance.
Yes Farhan is not a rapist. But he does have a more than average libido. Would you agree? Since he needs to visit prostitutes on a daily/nightly basis. What happens when ur willing partner, all of sudden starts to show hesitancy, shies away from you, shows signs of fear? There is growing frustration which eventually leads to the dreaded deed.
I am a strong believer of woman's intuition and I feel that a woman can tell the difference between a good and a bad touch. Nikhat has shown signs of realizing when things are wrong, unfortunately she has only voiced her concerns in a couple situation only.

Again, this is speculation at best.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: juggaad

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree that only saying of word NO does not mean non-consensual the whole build up of the feeling of disgust and fright... the whole "objection" of the situation from mind, body and soul even without speaking so... In simple words the mental state of unwelcome at this physical intimacy so much so that it amounting to force and Rape.
Edited by Ruchi-interest - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Men committing such rape is because women accept it and are not able to come out in the open as elders would advise her saying he is your husband and he has the rights...that is when women should make a call

But here I think nikhat realizes the strain in their relationship so she would not accept him even if he shows any kind of sexual intimacy

Gul would never show rape in her shows but she might show both getting involved in moment of passion
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nebuna

Men committing such rape is because women accept it and are not able to come out in the open as elders would advise her saying he is your husband and he has the rights...that is when women should make a call

But here I think nikhat realizes the strain in their relationship so she would not accept him even if he shows any kind of sexual intimacy

Gul would never show rape in her shows but she might show both getting involved in moment of passion


Has Gul ever done anything amounting to maintaining female pride in this whole context of feminism. The only thing progressive about her show is western clothes and TRP gimmicks of celebrating festivals of different religion.😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gai - I don't want to see the graphics of rape. TYVM. But there can be cues that say all is not well in their bedroom relations - bruises, the fear of entering the room, the hesitancy, things like that.
And since Najma has taken a few leaves out of Zoya Jasoos's book, she will be the one to help Nikhat in this situation. My gut.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruchi-interest


I agree that only saying of word NO does not mean non-consensual the whole build of the feeling of disgust and fright... the whole "objection" of the situation from mind, body and soul even without speaking so... In simple words the mental state of unwelcome at this physical intimacy so much so that it amounting to force and Rape.

Thanks for putting it so eloquently.
I always get pissed of when there is so much emphasis on vocalizing the "No". This maybe TMI, but human body can be quite traitorous even at times of rape. I had read of one such case a few years ago (US mein). Aage tum samjdar ho, u know what I am getting at.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruchi-interest


Has Gul ever done anything amounting to maintaining female pride in this whole context of feminism. The only thing progressive about her show is western clothes and TRP gimmicks of celebrating festivals of different religion.😳



Yeah gul has done nothing but she will not go to this extent f marital rape ruchi
As much as I bash and mock her she is a feminist ruchi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Rivs, I caught up with the epi this morn. I honestly dint find Farhan's look to Nikhat hawas waala 😆. It was that normal 5 sec top to bottom look with a 'you are looking nice' (with no smile or admiration in his eyes and voice) waala look IMO 😆.
Edited by nautanki_anu - 11 years ago

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