Logic Hunters CC#10-logic too bites the dust-DT NOTE Pg4&17

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sujata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#251

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle

What do u want to know? parties, casting couch, linkups, bol? Sab exist hota hai...😆

link ups which dont come into light😆

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sujata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#252

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

I word for word have the same thoughts as your sis...I have some coming to me and saying after over 2 decades of marriage...ab main kya karoon...how do I pass my time...kids busy..hubby busy...I know life is not perfect or always a bed of roses...but looking back into my life 20 years hence, I am scared of regretting things I do and be unhappy about it

i never talked anything about marriage to anyone in my family...😆i never dreamt of having marriage blah blah blah...i come from a small town still marriage was not in my list😆i hated many things about marriage...i cant be even vocal about those...😆

but then i got married ..thank god to one whom i knew very well...😆

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starsinmyeyes

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Posted: 11 years ago

#253

Originally posted by: sujataraje
i never talked anything about marriage to anyone in my family...😆i never dreamt of having marriage blah blah blah...i come from a small town still marriage was not in my list😆i hated many things about marriage...i cant be even vocal about those...😆

I don't hate marriage yaara..I just think it's too overrated😆

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nebuna

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Posted: 11 years ago

#254

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RIVS🤗

Good Afternoon to all

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anushreemishra

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Posted: 11 years ago

#255

How are you feeling suja di?better?

shru aj college nahi gayi?

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nebuna

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Posted: 11 years ago

#256

Originally posted by: QueenOfMyCastle

What do u want to know? parties, casting couch, linkups, bol? Sab exist hota hai...😆

Rivs you have info common start

BW actors I know a lot thanks to gossip thread in BW

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sujata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#257

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

I don't hate marriage yaara..I just think it's too overrated😆

i used to hate it😆i was even sacred to get married to the one whom i love😆

i think i was not even that much exited for my marriage...and my family and my husband family rushed for it...otherwise i could have waited for atleast two more years 😆

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sujata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#258

Originally posted by: anushreemishra
How are you feeling suja di?better?
shru aj college nahi gayi?

shona...it will take time for me to get well...but i will be fine..dont worry 😃

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GoodGoneWrong

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Posted: 11 years ago

#259

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

I word for word have the same thoughts as your sis...I have some coming to me and saying after over 2 decades of marriage...ab main kya karoon...how do I pass my time...kids busy..hubby busy...I know life is not perfect or always a bed of roses...but looking back into my life 20 years hence, I am scared of regretting things I do and be unhappy about it

Shru - I gave this advice to my sister.

Someday you have to marry, that is if you are inclined that way. Regrets and what ifs are part of life not just limited to relationships and marriage. You are never going to get that feeling that yes I have done all I wanted to and now I am willing to settle down. Important thing is to sort out what is important to you. Career, family, love, money, nature, personality, looks, etc. Once u can prioritize this, decision making becomes easier.

I encouraged her to make a list of what she wants in a life partner. Doesn't matter if its love marriage or arranged. I know I am making it sound like a very objective decision with lists and all. But that's me. My hubby is introverted. He does not make friends or does not enjoy going out. He is okay to participate if I make plans. This is our biggest problem in life. I joke with him that since I married him I went from Shahid Kapoor to AK Hangal overnight. Forever young to forever old. 😆 If I had been objective at the time of decision making, I would have either first changed him or dumped him for another who had a more outgoing personality.🤣

but jokes apart, then there will be different problems. KWIM?

She had a list of things she looked for in guys. My mom mocked her for the longest time (my mom runs a marriage bureau). You want examples?

Should be an only child.

Extended family should be limited,

US preferred but if in India car, driver, cook is must.

If not outgoing, willing to experiment.

Must be atleast 5'8" so she can continue to wear her heels.
Etc.

Trust me she took her time, over 3 years. This guys fits the bill perfectly. And still she complains about him. Coz its not the guy, its her mindset. The day that changes, things will work out fine.