Father Vs Son.. - Page 4

Originally posted by: shishiksg

very well said

nice post

asad changes his destiny n rashid accepts it

datz the difference between these two

Absolutely .
The best years of your life is when you decide your problems are your own , you do not blame it on your mother; society ; or your country .You realize that you control your own destiny. !!

All I can say is:

Originally posted by: neenabinu

Wow bheegi ...look at the difference one year has brought about...
Loved your post...
Asad has fought destiny and got his love back...
Rashid has a very long way to go before he can be redeemed...
Dilshad is one character I love in QH, a strong woman, she is beautiful both in and out ...a wonderful mother...she deserves way better not a spineless man... but then love makes one weak...

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Interesting tnoughts, both in your post and ankies immediately below! 😆

Yes i do believe that ones choices create ones destiny, and i like to differentiate between fate and destiny.

What gets handed to you is fate. What you do about it is choice. What you end up living because of your choice is destiny! 😃

Originally posted by: webuser7

Sangeeta, very nice comparison! 👏

Rashid is indeed a weak man. What pisses me off most about him is that he stood back and watched his first family suffer in poverty. Asad and Dilshad had to struggle to make ends meet while Shireen and Ayaan had it easy. He emotionally and financially abandoned his 1st family. So, yes I agree Dilshad should not accept him back. But as I said before, I think the CVs are using this for brother clash instead of ZoYaan. If so, then they will make Dilshad's heart melt. Should she? Absolutely no! Will she? Possibly yes!

Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

Brilliant post Sangeeta Ji! 👏

Originally posted by: manognasai

Nice post Sangeeta di...
Asad is not at all like his father!He stands for what is right...he stands for his love,he stands for his responsibilities👏
Whereas Rashid neither stood up for right nor his love!
He left his family for some reason which is still not clear!
For that Asad will never forgive him if he tries to rectify his mistake...
Actually how can he even do that?By leaving Shireen and coming to Dilshad?
I dint understand one thing.In yday's episode,Rashid told Shireen"Hosakta hai ki aane wale din mei koi aakar yahah rahe!"He meant Dilshad?Y the hell will she come to that house?
Im stil waiting for the proper reason for Rashid leaving Dilshad and marrying Shireen...
Love always wins but after crossing many odds and problems...!

Your posts always defines and refines . This topic has opened up on almost each post since the episode aired . have been agreeing ..disagreeing but it all came back being negative on Rashid's behalf. two days ago had all sympathy for the man and was willing to hear his sorrows so he could re-unite with his son ...but never in my wildest dreams thought he had the stomach to issue such a selfless fantasy . this is not a separation of two lovers who lived lonely lives waiting to be re-united one day . hell-no .. he walked out on his kids .. had a kid with someone else..came back with it .. build up hopes again and walked out again without an explanation .did not think once the impact it had on his children .if his reasons were valid during the 17 yrs it got flushed down the toilet when he made the same selfish decision once again . .Asad has a soft heart all because he witnessed his mothers pain and was her support as she was his .today the venom he spits out at Rashid is justified . he handles it well because of the love for his mother (who is a queen in every sense of the word .) and his siblings . Asad is a gem of a brother and is also a son every mother wish for . whatever turn the story line takes .. it will have us fuming with anger for sure maybe Rashid will be accepted as a father ..but never as a husband by Dilshad on conclusion because he lost all rights over her that day he grabbed Ayaan from Asad's hand and disappeared

If you go through life allowing yourself to be dictated by others you will find yourself leading the life they want you to have, rather than the life you deserve to have !!!.[/QUOTE]

Originally posted by: shishiksg

very well said

nice post

asad changes his destiny n rashid accepts it

datz the difference between these two

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

awesum post sangeeta ...u very well said it ...

i also feel rashid ll b able to unite wid rashid but for dat he has a long way to go ...he has to develop sum spine ..do sum action ...atleast for sake defend dilshad n asad for once ...i know he luvs dem ...but sumtyms luv is nt enuf ...lyk in ur story ..here also i feel rashid luvs asad more dan ayaan or any of his kid but due to watever decisions he has made asad hates him n he has dond anything special to get his forgiveness or acceptance ...rashid wud never b able to unite wid rashid until n unless he gets acceptance frm asad ...

n asad is a man of principles n strength ...he may commit mistakes...for watever he feels ryt he ll walk an xtra mile watever tough d roads r ...n dis quality of his makes him stand out among others ...commiting mistake is nt a crime ...but doing nth to correct is definitely a crime ...

watever asad has done knowingly or unknowingly is nt crime but watever rashid has done is a crime ...